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Secret relationship VS private relationship.

Post by Julkimi »

I like a private relationship, where people know who I am dating but that's about it. They won't know about our fights, our traditions, they won't even know anything but the mere fact that me and the bae are together.

What I don't like is SECRET relationship. Usually one of them is hiding something, and basically either he/she is the side piece. :down:
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Julkimi wrote:I like a private relationship, where people know who I am dating but that's about it. They won't know about our fights, our traditions, they won't even know anything but the mere fact that me and the bae are together.

What I don't like is SECRET relationship. Usually one of them is hiding something, and basically either he/she is the side piece. :down:
Secret Relationships are awesome.. it has no negative effect in the long term! private or public is just hypocritical
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What would be hypocritical about keeping private details private? Not all people like to share the details of their love life.

Juls, I agree. Some people like to share every last detail with the world, posting pictures on insta or on fb about gifts, dates, kisses, fights, arguments etc etc...I find it so unnecessary.

Secret relationships are a joke. One partner is in denial or just stupid, lol there is definitely someone else in the picture.
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EvolSyawla wrote:What would be hypocritical about keeping private details private? Not all people like to share the details of their love life.

Juls, I agree. Some people like to share every last detail with the world, posting pictures on insta or on fb about gifts, dates, kisses, fights, arguments etc etc...I find it so unnecessary.

Secret relationships are a joke. One partner is in denial or just stupid, lol there is definitely someone else in the picture.
I don't think secret relationships are that bad. What if you are dating a high-school student who's 10 years younger than you? Or she's underage :?
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Why would you date someone who is not the legal age? Perv!
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BeyondQabil wrote:
EvolSyawla wrote:What would be hypocritical about keeping private details private? Not all people like to share the details of their love life.

Juls, I agree. Some people like to share every last detail with the world, posting pictures on insta or on fb about gifts, dates, kisses, fights, arguments etc etc...I find it so unnecessary.

Secret relationships are a joke. One partner is in denial or just stupid, lol there is definitely someone else in the picture.
I don't think secret relationships are that bad. What if you are dating a high-school student who's 10 years younger than you? Or she's underage :?
lol I know you're trolling but If one must to hide it, I think that's indicative of the fact that it shouldn't be happening.
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EvolSyawla wrote:What would be hypocritical about keeping private details private? Not all people like to share the details of their love life.

Juls, I agree. Some people like to share every last detail with the world, posting pictures on insta or on fb about gifts, dates, kisses, fights, arguments etc etc...I find it so unnecessary.

Secret relationships are a joke. One partner is in denial or just stupid, lol there is definitely someone else in the picture.
ppl like hidden things in general example if you are dating the neighbours daughter, it can't real get past secret until marriage..

Public relationships is just for show and ppl most of time don't get love out of it.. but on the other hand secret once are the once ppl never forget, its dirty, mystical, no limits, passionate and real.. its for the benefit of needs, + if you want talk as well, chat etc etc..
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Post by EvolSyawla »

I think the intention is what makes it different. Neighbours daughter, you may not be talking about it, but I'm sure she has told her sisters/close friends. And your intentions are to make it public eventually, so it's not shady.

A secret relationship just to talk? lol What? Okay, even if that's the case I think that still constitutes a private relationship. One that you are not insisting you both hide around and keep silent about.
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EvolSyawla wrote:I think the intention is what makes it different. Neighbours daughter, you may not be talking about it, but I'm sure she has told her sisters/close friends. And your intentions are to make it public eventually, so it's not shady.

A secret relationship just to talk? lol What? Okay, even if that's the case I think that still constitutes a private relationship. One that you are not insisting you both hide around and keep silent about.
If one desires only talk, thats what I meant about talk..

Girls like to talk about there relationships and show there partners, Maybe Am different but i have never liked that, if some friends happens to ran in on us its ok, or if they spot us..

I remember Once i had to visit this girls aunty and sit down with her over a cop of Tea.. I did it but still I found it disgusting deep down..

You should seriously try secret... :up:
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A secret relationship is ideal. I feel like it's better when no one knows who your talking to/dating until you're ready for marriage. Otherwise, people can fuck off and go about their daily life.
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Secret relationship = Friends with benefits

I didn't know somali girls are that horny. Nayaas, remember one thing once you open your legs do some dude, it will be difficult for you to find a real Somalian husband.
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