Learning how to control your anger and staying calm.

[Julkimi]

I will admit, I don't care if it's real life or online, if someone crosses me there will be hell to pay. Even if I don't like your tone, I will make sure to point it out to you and if you talk back, I will make sure to get the last word out and basically make you feel small. How do you control your anger? a sister has to wear big pants now, and I've to deal with certain clients. I can't snap at them. How can I smile and swallow my pride.

Is meditating haram?

Xoxo

Julkimi

[saacJabshee]

Julkimi shaydanka iska naar, its as simple as that.

[jalaaludin5]

No is not haram to meditate.

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[Julkimi]

Julkimi shaydanka iska naar, its as simple as that.

LOL

Ok bro. I will remember that, next time a client says something slick.


Xoxo

Julkimi

[Methylamine]

Abu Huraira reported Allah’s Messenger (may peace be upon him) as saying: The strong-man is not one who wrestles well but the strong man is one who controls himself when he is in a fit of rage.

Sahih Muslim Book 032, 6313

[Bella18]

Abu Huraira reported Allah’s Messenger (may peace be upon him) as saying: The strong-man is not one who wrestles well but the strong man is one who controls himself when he is in a fit of rage.

Sahih Muslim Book 032, 6313

That basically sums up the situation.

Activate your selective auditory attention .

[ZubeirAwal]

Lol meditating is not haram, the prophet (pbuh) himself used to leave Mecca for a cave in a mountain to reflect and meditate.

[Julkimi]

Wow thanks guys. I will start meditating for 20 minutes everyday.


Xoxo

Julkimi

[Marques]

Whats a pretty girl like you gettin mad for, anger is for weak people hun. Stay strong and smile coz that hurts them more.

There's tips on how to keep your cool, make wudu say isticaadah etc but in any given situation just walk away from the scene or sit down and inhale..drink some water if you can too.its never nice to have a reputation for being shortfused all the time

[Julkimi]

Thanks marques. It's just I really hate when people are rude, I don't even care if it's to me or not. If I'm with someone and they get treated bad I always say something and it escalates.


Xoxo

Julkimi

[GAMES]

Did you say if they talk back to u, you'd put them in their place? And that u always get the last word?

So ur just basically a fat, insecure, short ugly Xalimo.

From what u told us, ur just a verbal bully. U might get the last word in, but u are stuck with a lifetime of being ugly, short and fat.

I bet u cry ur self to sleep everynight.

[YummyMummy]

^ unnecessary Gamer, and you're clearly trying to provoke a reaction with personal attacks rather than giving helpful advice.

[Julkimi]

Did you say if they talk back to u, you'd put them in their place? And that u always get the last word?

So ur just basically a fat, insecure, short ugly Xalimo.

From what u told us, ur just a verbal bully. U might get the last word in, but u are stuck with a lifetime of being ugly, short and fat.

I bet u cry ur self to sleep everynight.

Ok.

[LMFAOO]

Don't take anything personally.