A dating a single father.

[Julkimi]

Dating a single mother is very easy. But what about single fathers? As women we want to be the only love in their lives but knowing that he has kids, and you will never be number 1 in his life, how will that make you feel?. Knowing that when you need him the most he will drop everything the minute he hears something from his kids, and probably leave you there.

Ever dated a single father Snet? And how was your experience?.

[Basra-]

Juls and GU.S..... maxaa la kalasiiya>???? Yaa Ilaaahi Yaaqana.....

[BeyondQabil]

Dating a single mother is very easy. But what about single fathers? As women we want to be the only love in their lives but knowing that he has kids, and you will never be number 1 in his life, how will that make you feel?. Knowing that when you need him the most he will drop everything the minute he hears something from his kids, and probably leave you there.

Ever dated a single father Snet? And how was your experience?.

I think you've mixed it up. It's easier for a single father to get married than for a single woman to get married. Heck..even a 30+ year old never-married woman normally finds it difficult to find a hubby, what about a single mother? Unless you are getting married to a divorcee?

[Julkimi]

Basra: I am not a lesbian though..

[Basra-]

Juls walaaal, a slu.t and a lesbian---a lesbian is better!

[waraabe251]

jul

do you ever talk about meaningful subjects

[Julkimi]

Basra: abaayo this isn't about me.
Warabe: I asked a genuine question walal.

[waraabe251]

Basra: abaayo this isn't about me.
Warabe: I asked a genuine question walal.

a single father on one hand is taking care of his children which means he is serious
although for me dating a single mother is like playing someone else's saved game and continuing from there

[Basra-]

Warabe!Lol

I know. I am tired about Juls hobbies.



Juls

OK. Whatever u say.

[1nemansquad]

marka hore i think this is an awesome topic, hats off to you Julkimi..

there is some truth to the fact that, women are intimidated by children that are not their own, the thought of *the kids coming first is the biggest issue women face if they ever consider dating a single dad. its been my experience that people who haven't had kids have a hard time understanding people that have them. i know for myself I do not relate well to most people that have not had kids, but what i found really absorbing is, by reason of their maternal nature women relate to the child fairly simple, yet inclined to get involved due to the fact that there is that fear of being second. i have been a single parent with primary custody/only parent for nearly five years now and I wouldn't have it any other way..

[qoraxeey]

If I was a single mother ... then YES i would marry a single father


otherwise dont do it

[LobsterUnit]

I used to know a madow guy who had three kids from three different women by his early twenties. Stressful life.

[BlackVelvet]

Surely his child/children should come first otherwise what kind of a man are you dating

I think that's a strength not a weakness that said, being a step mum wouldn't be my first choice.

[Lillaahiya]

As 1neman stated, I think it's hard for someone who has kids to date someone without any and vice versa. I'm a big believer of dating someone who has the same demons as you. For instance, it wouldn't make sense for an introverted homebody to date someone who spends most of their free time partying/going out. Their lifestyles don't compliment one another at all. Similarly, someone who doesn't have kids doesn't know what it's like to be a parent, what it's like to always worry/think about a child, how offspring can motivate a parent to become a better person, etc. If two people have kids from previous relationships though, they're about to build on that commonality. Also, someone who wants to be in a relationship with you may not fully understand or even neglect the fact that with the union there is an an implicit/explicit responsibility of playing a guardian/parent role to the child from the jump. Imagine someone playing daddy/mommy to your kid but they don't really want to, or are just doing it so they can be with you. That type of ish is messed up

All in all, I'd avoid it at all costs at this point in my life.

[BeyondQabil]

Funny thing is that you'd be willing to date someone who has adopted a child of another person.