My girl won't listen 2 me, so I Said "il put it bfore Snet"

[FieldMarshalMenace]

Walahi it a true story

This girl is a good friend of mine and I am like a brother to her ...

She is not my girlfriend or anything ...

The dilemma !

Homegirl is from Minnesota. Girl is very beautiful. If I Wasnt involved with my lady I would've wifed her long time ago. Her name is Yusra, Long story short this girl started talking to this cat few years ago. She fell head over heals for him. He would travel 10 hours to see her , he actually drove to her twice. He even spoke to her parents. After a while she finds out through a good friend of hers in the same city as him that he is actually abt to get marry to his own tribes people female. She refuse to believe it. Unbeknownst to her he deceived 4 girls over marriage proposals. He would talk to their parents and would disappear afterwards. However, he finally got marry to this one girl.

Yusra was told about this whole situation but she would continuously make excuses for him. She told her friends that she will leave him alone, now that his married. Then few months later she informs me that he is pursuing her still, although that he is married. I warned her to stop it but she says that he tells her that he neve wanted his wife and that family pressured him to marry her but that he always wanted her and that he will soon divorce her and marry her. He even shared his lack of sexual attraction to his wife and that when his making love to her he imagines her.

As you can imagine I couldn't believe her so I asked her to show me proof and girl send me serious amount of text messages (whatsapp) between the two where he is literily telling her that he can't get it up bc that's how much he can't stand his wife. He is telling Yusra to stick around bc he will be coming to her soon.

However inside informants are telling Yusra that this guy ain't divorcing his wife because he has spend so much on her and they got a baby on the way and that Yusra must understand that she is only a side kick who is getting mislead. In top of that Yusra is getting older and refusing to talk to any other guy because she wants to be loyal to Hassan ( the marry dude).

I haven't spoke to Yusra in ages and she called me out of the blue today and I knew something was bothering her. She was worried. Hassan has refuse to pic up the phone from her ever since Friday when she send very compromising pics to him. She send these pics because he kept insisting for a long time and she really trusted him. Now he is no picking up and is sending her calls to the answering machine.

I honestly spoke my heart out to her. I been advising her from day one to keep her distance and that she is being used because this dude is just lusting for her and he has no intention to divorce his wife. After I blew up on her and Ali my reasoning to her and I showed her how he is lying to her (I know the guy..he told her he went to Africa when he was in town..I hidden this from her till today when I informed that all along he was here)..now she swears that she will leave him..

Somalinet family please spit your wisdom on this situation. She is not a somalinet member but I told her to read the answers so please e as serious as possible. No playing around

[Smile-LiKe-SuN-RiSE]

Menace sheegadan sounds like quraafadkaad buckeye ku so alifi jirtay..lol haday run tahay I dare u to post the whatsapp texts

[Octagon]

She needs to pursue the guy until he accepts to marry her, tell her not to give up easily, do whatever it takes to get her man. I would advice her to send more nude pictures. maybe he didn't like her naked pics, maybe her camera was malfunctioning and she needs to hire a professional photographer to take the pics this time.

my 2 cents

[FieldMarshalMenace]

Menace sheegadan sounds like quraafadkaad buckeye ku so alifi jirtay..lol haday run tahay I dare u to post the whatsapp texts

Walahi bilahi it is a true story ..take it or leave it

[Lillaahiya]

I don't wanna say she's a doqon but if the shoe fits...

Tan oo kale wey u dhamaatay. It's pretty safe to say she's gonna struggle with trust issues for a long time, and that's really gonna fudge up chances with future prospects. The foul thing is this guy has the guts to approach girls' families like he has sincere intentions

[FieldMarshalMenace]

I don't wanna say she's a doqon but if the shoe fits...

Tan oo kale wey u dhamaatay. It's pretty safe to say she's gonna struggle with trust issues for a long time, and that's really gonna fudge up chances with future prospects. The foul thing is this guy has the guts to approach girls' families like he has sincere intentions

She just wrote to me that "lillahiya just summed up my situation. She's right "..

Please be nice to her and advice her..she completely agrees with you ..for the sake of Allah give her girl to girl talk

[Octagon]

I don't wanna say she's a doqon but if the shoe fits...

Tan oo kale wey u dhamaatay. It's pretty safe to say she's gonna struggle with trust issues for a long time, and that's really gonna fudge up chances with future prospects. The foul thing is this guy has the guts to approach girls' families like he has sincere intentions

She just wrote to me that "lillahiya just summed up my situation. She's right "..

Please be nice to her and advice her..she completely agrees with you ..for the sake of Allah give her girl to girl talk

Menace on the other side of this conversation, talking like PO's Caasho Codweyne Yea go ahead Lilahia and have the girl talk.

[Lillaahiya]

Give her girl talk aaa

[FieldMarshalMenace]

Give her girl talk aaa

[eliteSomali]

LOL. Menace Why are you in between bruh? ain't you got females to "liberate"? You're slacking son.

[Smile-LiKe-SuN-RiSE]

Waa lax in lagu is istaago istaahisha.

[Sophisticate]

She could vindictively ruin his marriage, but that would make her culpable and demonized. Thereby, drastically reducing her chances of marriage in that city. Its best if she picks up the pieces of her self-worth and take a breather from relationships, reflect and better herself. She has issues for going after a married man, and has deluded herself into thinking he will leave his wife or marry a second. The man is not honest, or earnest and she isn't either for continuing to give him time. Get it together. And as for the useless man emotionally cheating on his wife...

[FieldMarshalMenace]

You guys are failing to understand the fragility of the female creatures chemical makeup..Yusra has been at first wined and dined..he showed her the best time a female can have..he also portrayed to her this successful businessmen ( he apparently comes across serious cash)..he would even send flowers to her work place all the way in her city, which is 750 miles away ..when he was sure that He laid the seed of love in her in proceeded to marry this other chick that is the choice of his family ..btw his mom rejected Yusra purely out of contempt for her qabil..instead of leaving Yusra alone he has carried on 2 years of a extra-marital affairs with her ..I have repeatedly told her to move on and to let go..she clings on to him by believing his false promises that he will divorce ..sad part abt this is that this girl is turning down dudes because she dbt want to "cheat" on him.also poor girl is getting older , she ain't getting younger.it basically comes down to the jileeecnimada of the female , gabadhi wa weak and can fall for guys ..I'm 100% sure if i spit my game at lillahiya, if I showed her my business, my American dream house and if I drove for the states to her with my 2014 Mercedes Benz I'm certain she would be submitting to my music..so keep in mind we have a girl who has passed the threshold of reality and who fell onto delusional arena

[FieldMarshalMenace]

LOL. Menace Why are you in between bruh? ain't you got females to "liberate"? You're slacking son.

Bro I'm on the road to helping the needy females of ours .this is my national cause now..my liberation days are over, I have pass on the baton to younger kids like the atheist Abdijohn and Casanova25..I am riding into the sunset knowing that I've conquered many obstacles..

[Lillaahiya]

I'd wanna see receipts first and foremost. Secondly, if I did "comply", it's cause you're tricking on me, not cause I love you and shid. Not that I would every "comply"

She fucked up when she continued contact with a married man. Anyway, the damage is done so she should get a grip and move on.