What is the social reward

Lillaahiya · Post by **Lillaahiya** » Thu Sep 11, 2014 11:35 am

Of being a "good girl". Putting aside religious arguments, I'm really curious to know if there are any real benefits.

blizzard90 · Post by **blizzard90** » Thu Sep 11, 2014 11:39 am

Your fathers sharaf

Khalid Ali · Post by **Khalid Ali** » Thu Sep 11, 2014 11:42 am

You get a good husband that takes care of you very well and ofcourse respect from your neighbors and people who know you , no xumaan

blizzard90 · Post by **blizzard90** » Thu Sep 11, 2014 11:44 am

she wants to get rewarded for keeping her legs closed :snoop:

this ain't a bloody game nayaa

Lillaahiya · Post by **Lillaahiya** » Thu Sep 11, 2014 12:03 pm

^ If there's a social consequence, there has to be a reward.

Khalid: So every 'good girl' gets a 'good husband'. That's not true at all.

@ respect. Just cause you don't sleep around doesn't mean you deserve respect.

Amira143 · Post by **Amira143** » Thu Sep 11, 2014 12:12 pm

I was having this conversation with this old cadaan coworker. When he say this. "Good girls say, "No" bad girls ask, "When?"

AgentOfChaos · Post by **AgentOfChaos** » Thu Sep 11, 2014 12:14 pm

Don't ask me what you already know. Being good person in regards to your place in society is matter of being contributing member of society, having a job, paying taxes, achieving your full potential and following your dreams and no, being a golddigger doesn't count. The reward is that you're not seen as a burden to society.

LobsterUnit · Post by **LobsterUnit** » Thu Sep 11, 2014 12:16 pm

Walaal, dont do do it.ha cabin cigaar for the first time.

blizzard90 · Post by **blizzard90** » Thu Sep 11, 2014 12:20 pm

your rewards will include 1. you will have a good name in your city, 2. you will avoid HIV and Stds 3. ur pumpum will stay tight 4. niggaz won't pass ur number around as a easy slut

grandpakhalif · Post by **grandpakhalif** » Thu Sep 11, 2014 12:24 pm

they have more dignity than hoes

MoAwr · Post by **MoAwr** » Thu Sep 11, 2014 12:25 pm

What are or were you expecting

Methylamine · Post by **Methylamine** » Thu Sep 11, 2014 12:28 pm

Ottawa's a small town, once you slip up, you'll be on the list of known thots :ufdup:

Lillaahiya · Post by **Lillaahiya** » Thu Sep 11, 2014 12:30 pm

AgentOfChaos wrote:Don't ask me what you already know. Being good person in regards to your place in society is matter of being contributing member of society, having a job, paying taxes, achieving your full potential and following your dreams and no, being a golddigger doesn't count. The reward is that you're not seen as a burden to society.

I'm not talking about being a good person/productive citize.

So the only benefit of being a good girl is not being known as a Thotiana

And if you don't care for your reputation, what's the benefit?

Methylamine · Post by **Methylamine** » Thu Sep 11, 2014 12:34 pm

Lilly,

Old habits die hard. If you were promiscuous before marriage, chances are you will probably be promiscuous during marriage as well. Just like at white people, they cheat on their spouses like it's nothing

MoAwr · Post by **MoAwr** » Thu Sep 11, 2014 12:35 pm

Again

MoAwr wrote:What are or were you expecting

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