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living with some one you are not in love

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Some ones you dont have any feelings For.them, you Married becouse of the family But you are tired Forcing ur feelings for them, Would u Still keep forcing ur self or would u move on ur life?

My friend needs ur advise,merci
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Where does your friend live?
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North america, in case u wondering its he And he married to his cuzin.
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Marriages founded on love alone don't have great success rates.

Sparks don't need to fly. I would like to ask one thing - Do you share common values with them? On money, faith, child rearing, gender roles and so forth...

If so you might as well stick it out. Otherwise get to packing.
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He say yes
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Why the eff is he wasting her time...tell him to grow some gotdamn balls & tell her how he feels...disgusting pig..getting married cuz family gtfoh...i hope she doesn't really love him either..smh
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Tell your friend to free himself. No point in suffering. It is okay to be selfish sometimes :)
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Tati am sure she does more then her self B-)
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zaki87 wrote:North america, in case u wondering its he And he married to his cuzin.
Oh..see your friend has already f*cked up lol. She can take his stuff and his money if she wants to if he wants to divorce.

The only options are

1. Run away to europe, asia, africa, or south america

2. Try to kill her, idk bro hes in a sticky situation :lol:
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Classiq wrote:
zaki87 wrote:North america, in case u wondering its he And he married to his cuzin.
Oh..see your friend has already f*cked up lol. She can take his stuff and his money if she
wants to if he wants to divorce.
The only options are

1. Run away to europe, asia, africa, or south america

2. Try to kill her, idk bro hes in a sticky situation :lol:
Hahahaha nigga u made my night merci sxb its complicated situation, what about nigga picturing another xalimo while they playing. Is ir haraam horta
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Niya wrote:Tell your friend to free himself. No point in suffering. It is okay to be selfish sometimes :)
Lol true life is selfish it self
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This is why I champion gay marriage. When you have 90% of Somali couples who live in loveless marriages, how can you deny those "non-traditional couples" who do genuinely love each other?

Tell your friend to divorce

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AbdiJohnson wrote:This is why I champion gay marriage. When you have 90% of Somali couples who live in loveless marriages, how can you deny those "non-traditional couples" who do genuinely love each other?

Tell your friend to divorce

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Does the non-traditional couples include marrying underage kids? polygamy?
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sophisticate wrote:Marriages founded on love alone don't have great success rates.

Sparks don't need to fly. I would like to ask one thing - Do you share common values with them? On money, faith, child rearing, gender roles and so forth...

If so you might as well stick it out. Otherwise get to packing.
I akree wid dis sistaar she knowing what she tooken aboowt. On a serious note, the world is a fudged up place if you find someone who is God fearing and has good values thug it out.
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U don't have to love someone to live with em, aslong as ur not budding heads everyday u good to go. Just have a time schedule for dinner and sex, everything beyond that find a hobby and love the shit out of that hobby.
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