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Why do men cheat and expect their spouses to forgive them? If my husband ever cheated (which I hardly doubt he will, unless he's a sex addict) I would put him out, no matter how many kids I have with him. Marriage is sacred to me, if he doesn't respect our marriage then all hell will break loose and I will dump him.

Julkimi wrote:Why do men cheat and expect their spouses to forgive them? If my husband ever cheated (which I hardly doubt he will, unless he's a sex addict) I would put him out, no matter how many kids I have with him. Marriage is sacred to me, if he doesn't respect our marriage then all hell will break loose and I will dump him.

I'm sorry please forgive me

Not only men cheat, it goes both ways sometimes.

Most incidents I have heard of in our community, the women were doing the dirty work.

Somali guys shouldnt really need to cheat.they can just marry a second ting on the sly.my kneegrow married a second fine ting in africa but he didnt tell his wife.he divorced the second ting after a while.when my kneegrow returned to europe the second ting called the wife and told her cus she was mad at him.almost messed up his marriage.

A muslim man doesnt need to cheat and this is why the punishment is death if he does. So really a cheating muslim man should be the last thing on your mind.

Bella18 wrote:Not only men cheat, it goes both ways sometimes.

Most incidents I have heard of in our community, the women were doing the dirty work.

I've also heard about it, but I always thought it was rumors.

BaastoUnit wrote:Somali guys shouldnt really need to cheat.they can just marry a second ting on the sly.my kneegrow married a second fine ting in africa but he didnt tell his wife.he divorced the second ting after a while.when my kneegrow returned to europe the second ting called the wife and told her cus she was mad at him.almost messed up his marriage.

If he doesn't tell me then I will consider that as cheating.

saacJabshee wrote:A muslim man doesnt need to cheat and this is why the punishment is death if he does. So really a cheating muslim man should be the last thing on your mind.

Even if he flirts with another woman, it's cheating.

Julkimi wrote:

saacJabshee wrote:A muslim man doesnt need to cheat and this is why the punishment is death if he does. So really a cheating muslim man should be the last thing on your mind.

Even if he flirts with another woman, it's cheating.

LOL how is gonna marry a second without any flirting

just recently in my are west london hayes .... a hijabi women with kids cheated on her husband how? the husband came home one day and and opened this envelope that was just posted through the letterbox ...... the letter was from the council addressed to the car owner ..........it was public indecency penalty fine with his wife picture .. riding on the white male ,,,,,,,, maybe she wasn't satisfied with 1 min job, + 2 weeks break........ odaaysha needs to taught not to be selfish and make her come...don't leave her dry out and frustrated .

I would like to get married but finding someone as fucked up as me will be hard

Being Married and cheating on your wife/husband is more dengerous for yourself then them, cuz your sins wouldn't be forgiven unless you confess and call on judges to stone you to death.. thats how dengerous it is in Islam.

It dosen't matter if you become religious and tried to get forgiveness even praying without sinning until death after you committed unfaithfullness towards your wife/husband cuz the only way out will be stoning to death and if there was no witness, you have to come forward yourself.

Julkimi wrote:Why do men cheat and expect their spouses to forgive them? If my husband ever cheated (which I hardly doubt he will, unless he's a sex addict) I would put him out, no matter how many kids I have with him. Marriage is sacred to me, if he doesn't respect our marriage then all hell will break loose and I will dump him.

One problem ..you Somali females right, after the second baby y'all collapse like an old Trump building being demolished in Las Vegas..naturally, just like a building being demolished, the debris most be moved away for a newly constructed building ..a building that is much prettier and much tighter ..I rest my case ..

Specially considering that you females hate to go to the gym ..if I'm lying then go ask Yummy how she feels about her long demolished building

Women are really funny,they expect to marry a dummy so that they can cheat till they drop dead.
What I found out is women who have the potential to cheat or are cheating always blame the guilt to her spouse.
Well to her she can sleep with the entire neighbourhood and think no one knows but the moment the poor lad is caught looking for a second.She crys foul.I guess she wants to keep her societial status while undercover continue with her promiscuous lifestyle.

The_Patriot wrote:Women are really funny,they expect to marry a dummy so that they can cheat till they drop dead.
What I found out is women who have the potential to cheat or are cheating always blame the guilt to her spouse.
Well to her she can sleep with the entire neighbourhood and think no one knows but the moment the poor lad is caught looking for a second.She crys foul.I guess she wants to keep her societial status while undercover continue with her promiscuous lifestyle.

Voltage say istaqfurallah. I never heard/saw a female cheating with the whole block.

I know a married negro that did qudbo siro 7 times and the strange thing is he doesn't even remember some of their names. Playaz play.

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