Is Jealousy a Biblical/Quran problem? A human necessity?

[Basra-]

What would u do if you are a female, and your best female best friend---tells you that she slept with your husband? What do u do? There is this fabulous, good hearted woman who got married to an arranged marriage. The husband is super rich, but the marriage is unhappy. The husband falls in love with his wifes best friend, the wife cannot leave her husband because the husband threatens to take her kids away. Then, this best friend---suddenly gets pregnant by the husband--twice. The wife doesn't get angry at her. Then, the mother of the wife comes visiting them and sees the best friend is acting as if she is the wife of the house. The mother decides to hate her forever. The wife spends most of her life defending her best friend to her mother. Then--the wife dies. What does the best friend do? She gets married to the husband. Then, the husband writes a letter to his former mother in law and informs her of the marriage. And asks to be invited to her home. She refuses. Then, this snake new wife, writes another letter--to be invited. The ex mother in law denies her too.


Later, the husband dies after three years. The wife is kicked out by the children of the first husband. Later they found a diary of hers which she confessed her obsession was to become the wife of this husband. She confessed that she wanted the life of her best friend so bad, it drove her to madness. She also---regrets--although she won the heart of the husband, and some of his children. she would have loved to win the heart of the mother in law--the mother of her dead best friend in order to complete her conquering.



Is this jealousy or sickness??? Hyper care to comment?

[KhadraHawa]

Basra, habibti, I read this story two times over and I still don't understand it, abayo. Make your stories more clear next time, abayo, so we can fahaan it better.

[Basra-]

LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL


My English is too complicated for u. loool

[LightAtNight]

Abaay Basra that is truly a sickness of the heart, or perhaps a mental illness, naagta quraan saar ayeey ubahantahay. Her best friend is on the opposite side of the spectrum, she suffers from chronic kindness.

[Basra-]

Abaay Basra that is truly a sickness of the heart, or perhaps a mental illness, naagta quraan saar ayeey ubahantahay. Her best friend is on the opposite side of the spectrum, she suffers from chronic kindness.

Muslim

Walaahi---u hit on the nail. This best friend is the picture of kindess and good nature. She is sooooo sweet, but unfortunately lonely too. She depended too much on this best friend. This best friend is cunning, and used her badly. Her only problem was--her natural kindness. she cant turn it off. But she is also very smart, I don't get it. How did she let this woman do all this??? But I think --she didn't feel anything for the husband, so she tolerated the affair. It is truly bizarre.

[LightAtNight]

Maybe the husband had a small Gu.s and she didnt mind sharing kkk

[LightAtNight]

d/p

[Basra-]

Maybe the husband had a small Gu.s and she didnt mind sharing kkk

LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL


I am sure Gu.s was not a factor. This is an 18th century story. U have to take it into context. Its not my life huuno! looooooool



PS On a somber note: My husband married another woman, a darood woman---a cousin of mine recorded them making love in a room. The woman was making love noise, I was shocked and asked my cousin are sure that is my husband in that room. Low and behold, later the woman came out of the room, but my husband was not there. My cousin swore--she saw a large toy on top of the bed, that caused all the joyous noise. Istaqfurulaah-- Am I commiting a crime or a sin? Loool

[LightAtNight]

Indeed Lady Basra you have sinned against thyself by committing the forbidden act of spying and gossip ... You must now endeavour to seek repentance and possibly gain redemption and save thine wicked soul from eternal disgrace....