Tinder + being young & dumb = labo boqol iyo konton keen
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Tinder + being young & dumb = labo boqol iyo konton keen
Note:: This story is not a negative reflection on dumarka iyo haweenka soomaliyeed, it's just a single data point; a young and dumb person who has made a series of wrong decisions that led her to where she is now: on Reddit's TIFU front page.
I'm bit a hesitant to post this given the amount of mindless trolls and the generalizing and the xaliimo-hate, but I'm also sick and tired of the "we are superior to them" and the "fiiri wasaqda gaalada", "acuudibillaha, naagaha qaawaan, acuudibillah khamrada" that I keep hearing from "shaykhs" and their "students" who wouldn't hesitate to exploit the poverty of poor dumar through polygamy and zawaj misyar. When they do it, they are faasiqeen; when we do it, it is "the will of Allah"(they have lied on Him, tabaaraka wa tacaaala)
So yeah: Our(Muslim, Somali) shit stinks just as much as anybody else. We're not special. We're not "better" than anybody. We're not "more moral". Nor do we have "higher akhlaaq" than anybody. We're just human beings trapped on this Earth, living our lives.............just like the rest of the 6 billion+ humans on earth.
And sometimes, we make bad decisions, like this:
I'm bit a hesitant to post this given the amount of mindless trolls and the generalizing and the xaliimo-hate, but I'm also sick and tired of the "we are superior to them" and the "fiiri wasaqda gaalada", "acuudibillaha, naagaha qaawaan, acuudibillah khamrada" that I keep hearing from "shaykhs" and their "students" who wouldn't hesitate to exploit the poverty of poor dumar through polygamy and zawaj misyar. When they do it, they are faasiqeen; when we do it, it is "the will of Allah"(they have lied on Him, tabaaraka wa tacaaala)
So yeah: Our(Muslim, Somali) shit stinks just as much as anybody else. We're not special. We're not "better" than anybody. We're not "more moral". Nor do we have "higher akhlaaq" than anybody. We're just human beings trapped on this Earth, living our lives.............just like the rest of the 6 billion+ humans on earth.
And sometimes, we make bad decisions, like this:
Re: Tinder + being young & dumb = labo boqol iyo konton keen
To even out the criticism, here's another article about how the blessed rulers of Saudi Arabia have created an oasis of piety in bilaad-ul-xaramayn.
Nacam, aqiii: http://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/arc ... _page=true
Nacam, aqiii: http://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/arc ... _page=true
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Re: Tinder + being young & dumb = labo boqol iyo konton keen
Only problem:we dont know if the story is true.
Re: Tinder + being young & dumb = labo boqol iyo konton keen
Tinder is a more of a hook up app then anything else. I've tried it and they wanted an access to my FACEBOOK and I just deleted it.
Since it's location based, I have yet to encounter a Somali person that app.
It's good for quick dates and NSA meetings.
Since it's location based, I have yet to encounter a Somali person that app.
It's good for quick dates and NSA meetings.
Re: Tinder + being young & dumb = labo boqol iyo konton keen
BaastoUnit wrote:Only problem:we dont know if the story is true.
Good point. Anybody can claim anything on Reddit. But why would he make it up?
Point being, there is a growing number of young Somalis who come from broken families, who have suffered abuse at home and confusion in the outside world. Very easy for a person like to slip and fall, regardless of culture or religion.
We're only human, sxb. Every vice and every faaxisha being done by other human beings is also being done by Somalis(male and female), in many cases, by equal measures and above. Who surpasses us in rape, for example? I find it extremely ironic that the same people who were raping faqash/jareer/idoor women at checkpoints deliberately as a form of mass sexual humiliation and terror, are gonna somehow claim piety and "muslim baan nahay, we are superior to gaalada".
Again, I would not have posted this if it wasn't for the millionth time I keep hearing a variation of "alla feeri wasakhda gaalada"(at the sight of two adults kissing; would you rather see rape in private, you like what happened in xamar)? and other holier-than-thou comments made by "culumaa" and caamo alike. Where is this delusional superiority complex coming from? Let them kiss in public, it's consensual....maxaa kaa galay? It's not your dhaqan? Fuck you, it's their dhaqan. Respect it. They won't make snide comments when you waddle up to the welfare office asking for "benefits" for your 13th child from your 3rd wife, so adiga, don't make any snide comments when you see PDA.
It is time for us to atone for our collective sins, and the first step is to acknowledge that we're not better/superior/more moral than anybody else.
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Re: Tinder + being young & dumb = labo boqol iyo konton keen
Not one screen of tinder convo was seen that day.
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Re: Tinder + being young & dumb = labo boqol iyo konton keen
Leftist strikes again with a scathing remark at how we are so "holier than thou", but for some reason his punches don't pack much of a heat.
Seriously, did you just bring this to us?
Seriously, did you just bring this to us?
Re: Tinder + being young & dumb = labo boqol iyo konton keen
^^ Whats wrong with what I wrote? Could the story itself be a hoax? Sure, it can. Could it be also be true? Of course.
Point being: let's stop throwing stones of piety and morality when our own homes are built out of glass.
Less moralizing and finger-pointing, more self-reflection and practical measures.
Point being: let's stop throwing stones of piety and morality when our own homes are built out of glass.
Less moralizing and finger-pointing, more self-reflection and practical measures.
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Re: Tinder + being young & dumb = labo boqol iyo konton keen
Just because you have embraced the thirsty/libidinous doesn't mean that we have to, nor must we tolerate public eye sores. We the people have a right to complain. What would you say to someone that isn't a hypocrite and doesn't live in a glass aqal?
I'm curious as these people also exist and don't they have a right to be judgmental.

Re: Tinder + being young & dumb = labo boqol iyo konton keen
^^ I didn't write that reddit post. Find the redditor who did and feel free to call him libidinous.
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Re: Tinder + being young & dumb = labo boqol iyo konton keen
Leftist you are the messenger. You must be shot. Its how it works.
Don't you get Somali logic?

Re: Tinder + being young & dumb = labo boqol iyo konton keen
I see where the mix-up might be happening: Just to clarify, that link leads to a post on Reddit's TIFU sub-forum. I didn't write it, just linked to it. That story is not mine.
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Re: Tinder + being young & dumb = labo boqol iyo konton keen
smh
since when did somali = pirate/captain philips
that is literally all they kept saying...smh this is obviously either an ethiopian or bantu troll....or a white supremacists trying to recruit more bigots into his little mayonnaise sandwich eating party (kkk event) anywhoo......i highly doubt any self respecting somali would go anywhere near a white devil, much less a small ceeb intoxicated one....and the prostistute story is a biiiig stretch
since when did somali = pirate/captain philips
that is literally all they kept saying...smh this is obviously either an ethiopian or bantu troll....or a white supremacists trying to recruit more bigots into his little mayonnaise sandwich eating party (kkk event) anywhoo......i highly doubt any self respecting somali would go anywhere near a white devil, much less a small ceeb intoxicated one....and the prostistute story is a biiiig stretch
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