Becoming the Somali Alpha-male
by Zubeir
Know, O reader, that there is no secret in declaring that the men of generation 'x' who reside in developed societies have been raised in environments where they can be often exposed to a plethora of images, lifestyle and choices that can in fact effeminate them psychologically. This is precisely the reason why we must insist in the preservation of 'Alpha-males' in all societies around the world. In this case, the Somali male has long been a alpha male in his natural environment, our 5th/6th grandfathers probably fought lions and beasts alike in order to protect their herds or their families. In our generation, we are unique in being the first generation of Somali males being brought up in a alien-society, different to what we'd naturally be accustomed to.
This necessitates the Somali-male to take precautions and to often remain vigilant of any type of behaviour that can feminize him. Sadly, there are movements from useless originations that push for a feminization of young males regardless of their ethnicity and backgrounds, this includes the Somali male. Many men believe that if they physically master the strength of their bodies that they have attained the rank of being Alpha, this is not the case. For we have many homosexuals (opposite of alpha) who lift iron as if it were their religion, what makes a alpha male a alpha male, is his psychology and then later on, his physiology.
Here are the descriptions (in-general) of Somali males who are Beta as opposed to being Alpha;
The Somali Beta-male
Consider this hypothesis, a young Somali male of the age of 18 is walking outdoors, he intends to enter a building, behind him is a young woman around his age, when the young Somali male enters the door, he intentionally refuses to hold the door even if with his finger tips in order to let the young woman behind him to enter in, he instead lets the door have a free fall, forcing the young woman to exercise force in order for her to enter the edifice.
He refuses to apologize or admit his wrongs in a disputation either verbally or perhaps even a physical case, he remains persistent in defending his actions or his mistakes, even if his inner-conscious tells him his wrong. Indeed, this is one of the prime signs of a beta male.
He seeks to please those who have a foothold above him, be it a leader of a group, reality or virtual-reality, he always seeks approval from others, and if rejected, falls into a self-conscious/insecure state.
He sits along with his fellow Somali beta-males and gossips about anything, i.e " he said, she said" or "who slept with who" or "who's with who", indeed this is one of the clear cut signs of a beta-male.
When in a crisis, he panics and never remains calm, consider this hypothesis, a Alpha Somali male and a Beta Somali male are in a elevator with a few people, the elevator jams, the Alpha Somali male begins to think of a exit-strategy, perhaps using force to open the door, or sounding the alarm, the Beta Somali male begins to panic, thoughts of him dying begin to kick in, his heart begins to beat faster and faster etc...
Or consider this hypothesis, the Beta Somali male enters the kitchen at night in order to consume something to satisfy his appetite, he notices that a mouse has been caught on a sticky trap, the Beta Somali male begins to shudder and shiver, chills run down his spine and he is unable to look at the mouse that is alive yet stuck awaiting it's fate. The Alpha Somali male enters the kitchen, he grabs the sticky trap and throws it into a bag, he ties the bag and throws it outside so that his fellow Alpha-male fox receives a pleasing meal.
He acts without thinking and makes childish mistakes, quite the opposite from the Alpha male. He is quick to blame others when something wrong occurs, pointing the finger in order to relief himself of any responsibility, his counter-part however, takes responsibility for his actions.
One of the biggest signs of a Beta Somali male is that he lies more than he tells the truth, he lies in order to abate any situation that might lead him to clean up after his mistakes, or perhaps own up to a decision he made.
He betrays his acquaintances just to get ahead, this would be the equivalent of a 'snitch' in the 'hood', his counter part would never exercise betrayal just for selfish personal gain.
He enjoys harming those that are weaker than him, either by age, or perhaps even in physique, in other words a 'bully', he never entertains the idea of harming those that are superior than him in all categories.
The Somali Alpha-male
The Somali Alpha male is comfortable with himself, he does not fear anyone except Allah, he walks among humans looking upon them as equals.
He is passionate in life and enjoys living it, he is aware of what he truly wants to attain (life-goal) and is focused upon the means of getting there. If God wills he ends his life according to how he desired it, indeed, it is this type of Somali-alpha male that become successful in life and this is a factor that often allows them to choose a mate that is also successful in her life, in union, they produce alpha-children, and they raise them with tools more accessible than what they had when they were younger.
Failure is not a major setback, if he slips he gets back up, he refuses to be demotivated or demoralised, he sees failure as a opportunity to return stronger in any challenge he may face.
He has high morals and values, he does not look down upon others and views everyone as individuals who have equal potential to reach great heights.
He is a natural leader in any situation, he is sought after in problematic moment.
He understands that change is a process that is innately internal and that it takes time, he doesn't seek to blame others for his mistakes, rather he blames himself and then after seeks to improve himself to progress even further. He wears humility on his sleeves and walks humbly among men.
He is not chosen by women, rather he chooses them, he does not throw himself on a woman and cling onto them for dear life, rather for him he seeks a woman that wants to impress him and earn his attention.
He does not have to prove himself in a case of wrong-accusations, or assumptions, or perhaps even lies, he has very high esteem and does not care about what others think of him.
He is cunningly smart and often seeks to increase his knowledge in things pertaining to importance in his life.
He spends time with fellow alpha males and often finds growth in keeping their company, by learning from them and from their experiences in life.
He desires to be healthy and to attain maximum strength and physique.
He is optimistic and always seeks a positive before a negative.
He has a high sense of humour and has a fun side.
He understands his importance, when one calls upon him, he turns to such a person with his whole body, slowly, indeed, others seek to prove themselves worthy in front of him.
He demonstrates strength, if he sees anyone, be it male or a female struggling, he will not continue walking, he will assist them with all force and in the end will smile and walk off.
Know, O Somali male, that in order for you to become alpha, there is a progress that combines mental attributes, with physical and spiritual attributes, seek to progress in all three and you will manifest your tripartite potential in all forms, if you possess beta-traits, and if you reply to this with a defensiveness in your response, you have a lot to learn.
It would also be nice if you highlighted the interchangeability of one from beta-alpha (perhaps another time). One is certainly not fixed in a state, unless they want to remain as such. Nonetheless, it was great. 
