Married or previously married people - in hindsight what would you have done differently?

[BlackVelvet]

Let's learn from your 20/20

What mistakes should those green behind the ears avoid.

Edit: and what pitfalls did you just not see coming. Overall advice?

[ZubeirAwal]

She hit me when I said " Huuno macaan cunto bal inoo samee ileen gaajadii aduunka ayaa maanta ii dilay" , from that day on she saw me reading recipe books and making some cadaan gourmet stuff. IDK what I did wrong tbh

[Robotic]

Never been married myself, but been around friends that have been married and some are still married.

Some lessons they have learned:


1. Do it for the right reason.
2. You can't change anyone so if you marry a badboy don't expect he will change.
3. Marriage can't make you happy.
4. All of them regret spending a lot of money on lavish weddings

[SelfD]

She hit me when I said " Huuno macaan cunto bal inoo samee ileen gaajadii aduunka ayaa maanta ii dilay" , from that day on she saw me reading recipe books and making some cadaan gourmet stuff. IDK what I did wrong tbh

since when are u married?


@BV

Can you be more specific? What kind of advise are u looking for?

[1nemansquad]

be around a lot more..

[Murax]

hmm....Done differently before the marriage?

[ZubeirAwal]

She hit me when I said " Huuno macaan cunto bal inoo samee ileen gaajadii aduunka ayaa maanta ii dilay" , from that day on she saw me reading recipe books and making some cadaan gourmet stuff. IDK what I did wrong tbh

since when are u married?


@BV

Can you be more specific? What kind of advise are u looking for?

Since last year, her name is Mutuh Farolahaato

[salool]

Mawduuc xasaasi ah baad furtay.Most somalis love living in denial, they're to stubborn to admit their mistakes or acknowledge them.Hense why most marriages fail in the first place.So i doubt anyone will tell you the truth.

[SelfD]

She hit me when I said " Huuno macaan cunto bal inoo samee ileen gaajadii aduunka ayaa maanta ii dilay" , from that day on she saw me reading recipe books and making some cadaan gourmet stuff. IDK what I did wrong tbh

since when are u married?


@BV

Can you be more specific? What kind of advise are u looking for?

Since last year, her name is Mutuh Farolahaato

left or right mate?

[Basra-]

Let's learn from your 20/20

What mistakes should those green behind the ears avoid.

Edit: and what pitfalls did you just not see coming. Overall advice?

Maskiin.

[Rambie]

left or right mate?

[ZubeirAwal]

left or right mate?

Na bal iga xishood maxaad tidhi, everything was all innocent until you posited that illicit presumption

bismillahi, i'm out of this thread,

[FieldMarshalMenace]

Mistake I made was I went into it ill-experienced. I was not patient. I was arguing with her. I was being too honest. I got too friendly with her family. I exposed myself to her.

Second marriege now..,I learn to remain a stranger. I stayed far away from her family. I held my secrets to myself. I don't argue with her. I "sabsab" her by buying her something or taking her out. I play good cop terrible cop with her.

But most I portably I rule by salat, I pray my salat and do does she. I know I'm complicated.

[Jeffo]

Find a girl who can take this D.

[COOL-MAN]

Nothing with my current one. I pray it stays this way till the end.

Former. Like 1man should've been around more also should cared a lot more. I guese I was inexperienced and wasn't ripe enough for the huge responsibility.