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Got my first marriage request/ today (kind of)

Posted: Tue Mar 24, 2015 10:16 pm
by SolidCamel
So apparently hooyo was talkin to me about this girl a while ago. I honestly wasn't really paying attention and it totally slipped my mind. I just get home a few hours ago and there's this fam at my house with this girl.

Apparently she wants to get married, though it never directly came up. I knew of her but never spoke to her before. Her dukes was a doc and all, good family, she's pretty attractive. I'm just not even in the zone for marriage. Like not even close, I just wanna finish school. She's also like 4 years older (though not a big deal). It was a very weird visit. Once they left I told hoyo never again.

Walahi it was very awkward. I couldn't retreat to the basement, just chilled there for like 3 hours with them. My parents have never pulled this shid before.

Re: Got my first marriage request/ today (kind of)

Posted: Tue Mar 24, 2015 10:23 pm
by HorseedS
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Re: Got my first marriage request/ today (kind of)

Posted: Tue Mar 24, 2015 10:23 pm
by TheblueNwhite
Ooh nooh!

Re: Got my first marriage request/ today (kind of)

Posted: Tue Mar 24, 2015 10:25 pm
by HayWire
ARE YOU TRYING TO TELL US SOPHY AND HER FAM CAME TO VISIT? IF YOU ARE 25 IT ALL MAKES SENSE :lupe:

Re: Got my first marriage request/ today (kind of)

Posted: Tue Mar 24, 2015 10:31 pm
by SolidCamel
HorseedS wrote:Image
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Re: Got my first marriage request/ today (kind of)

Posted: Tue Mar 24, 2015 10:31 pm
by srsbsns
HayWire wrote:ARE YOU TRYING TO TELL US SOPHY AND HER FAM CAME TO VISIT? IF YOU ARE 25 IT ALL MAKES SENSE :lupe:
Mmm....the things I would do to sophy.. :shaq:

Re: Got my first marriage request/ today (kind of)

Posted: Tue Mar 24, 2015 10:35 pm
by srsbsns
dude you're lucky to even get a visitor. the last girl I was hitched with...took one look at me and ran....sad thing is she was one of those light skinned bantu type barawani peeps.

Re: Got my first marriage request/ today (kind of)

Posted: Tue Mar 24, 2015 10:38 pm
by SolidCamel
Yea I ain't mad it was just weird lol. And damn sorry to hear about that L sxb

Re: Got my first marriage request/ today (kind of)

Posted: Tue Mar 24, 2015 10:43 pm
by srsbsns
you have any intention of keep contact with the girl? did she look interested in you, judging from her expression or what. I want the scoop.

Re: Got my first marriage request/ today (kind of)

Posted: Tue Mar 24, 2015 10:49 pm
by SolidCamel
srsbsns wrote:you have any intention of keep contact with the girl? did she look interested in you, judging from her expression or what. I want the scoop.
I dunno man, it was out of nowhere so it was never in my mind. Maybe, I'm not sure. I just know I'm not tryna get married atm, although it could change later. She seemed cool, like she wasn't shy. Honestly can't tell by reaction, but I think so, she knew of me.

Re: Got my first marriage request/ today (kind of)

Posted: Tue Mar 24, 2015 10:50 pm
by Advo
What does she do?

Re: Got my first marriage request/ today (kind of)

Posted: Tue Mar 24, 2015 10:53 pm
by SolidCamel
She works in HR at an oil company. Solid job id say

Re: Got my first marriage request/ today (kind of)

Posted: Tue Mar 24, 2015 10:53 pm
by srsbsns
atleast you have the options. anyway, this is qadr, you might think you will not and that could all change tomorrow, you never know. but keep an open mind. I don't like the argument that 'i'm not financially ready blah blah' - that is bordering on disbelief. you will be provided for by allah s.w.t have faith.

Re: Got my first marriage request/ today (kind of)

Posted: Tue Mar 24, 2015 10:54 pm
by srsbsns
what tribe was she?

Re: Got my first marriage request/ today (kind of)

Posted: Tue Mar 24, 2015 11:05 pm
by SolidCamel
Its not that, its that I wasn't thinkin bout it at all. I will though.

Gadabuursi