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How long will you stay married to the same person?

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For a long time girls and boys on SNet would say things like;


Girls: Markaan 50 gaaro faraha aan ka qaada, wuxu doono ha raadsado, aniga quraankeyga iyo imaankeyga aan badsana

Boys: :shaq: yaa bariis maalin walba cunikaro



Have things changed? Will you stay with your spouse until 90 and beyond or does the monogamy or relationship have an end date in your mind?


I have always been and still remain till death do we part, or until he does something too stupid but look at this cuteness :mrgreen:



http://uk.businessinsider.com/couple-ma ... 015-5?r=US


Gabdo 50 markaad gartiin aad proper cougar noqon-doontiin. All marital activities waa ajar don't become catholic :lol:



Gentlemen :ufdup: if you can't inspire the cook to make more than bariis, here you go use this




Courtesy of the tip-line :mrgreen:
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Ideally two yrs, things will become boring after that and will need a lot of hard work to make it relevant.
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PrinceDaadi wrote:Ideally two yrs, things will become boring after that and will need a lot of hard work to make it relevant.

:o



PrinceDaadi, did you just troll?! :shock: :lol:



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Relationships just aren't meant to last forever.
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why not P.O? we should ask our parents this question.
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I m not trolling, I said "ideally". The way things r going now it will be very hard to have a lasting marriage, yes it is possible but it will be view cases here and there.

Current crop of men and women don't see marriage same way, we have moved from our traditional way and haven't yet found new form of relationship that can sustain us.
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PrinceDaadi wrote:I m not trolling, I said "ideally". The way things r going now it will be very hard to have a lasting marriage, yes it is possible but it will be view cases here and there.

Current crop of men and women don't see marriage same way, we have moved from our traditional way and haven't yet found new form of relationship that can sustain us.

You seriously mean to say that you believe 2 years is ideal? :lupe:


I...I....I'm confused


I thought you were one of the sane ones :damn:
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SultanOrder wrote:Relationships just aren't meant to last forever.

They aren't, they are meant to last in this realm until you die then they change into something else


PO deep down everyone wants the forever and for always
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The two yrs was a joke, when I watched the movie I was like waaw! Then looked our our Socail change. In regard to our Socail structure in terms of family/marriage is changing, until we settle with one form we still don't know how that new family structure will look like.

You don't want to have the kind of marriage you parents had, many men are leaning to that while sisters r asking for a change.

Sorry I moving away from the core of your video but when I looked at video many things came to My mind.

You r right, deep down everyone wants a lasting relationship but?
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PrinceDaadi wrote:The two yrs was a joke, when I watched the movie I was like waaw! Then looked our our Socail change. In regard to our Socail structure in terms of family/marriage is changing, until we settle with one form we still don't know how that new family structure will look like.

You don't want to have the kind of marriage you parents had, many men are leaning to that while sisters r asking for a change.

Sorry I moving away from the core of your video but when I looked at video many things came to My mind.

You r right, deep down everyone wants a lasting relationship but?

You think the change that ladies are asking for makes it impossible to have a lasting relationship?
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BlackVelvet wrote:How long will you stay married to the same person?
Eternity

BlackVelvet wrote: Boys: :shaq: yaa bariis maalin walba cunikaro
I could eat bariis everyday, but never cambuulo :comeon:
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the idea is forever/till death, one really shouldn't be entering into marriage with any intention short of that :|
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No but new culture has to form, we r not yet there.
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AgentOfChaos wrote:
BlackVelvet wrote:How long will you stay married to the same person?
Eternity

BlackVelvet wrote: Boys: :shaq: yaa bariis maalin walba cunikaro
I could eat bariis everyday, but never cambuulo :comeon:

Only a certain type of man can handle cambuulo, not every Farax has what it takes
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relationships lasting for decades is a new phenomenon with the increase in life expectancy. People got married to have children, and eventually someone would die sooner rather than later. Most relationships don't last after the kids as that is the essential function of marriage.

Women after she hits menopause just didn't care anymore.

Men, if they lived long enough would just marry a young girl to start producing kids again.


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