Is your family so secretive and tight that spouses of your siblings are

[FieldMarshalMenace]

kept at arm's length on internal family affairs ? Specially the females who are married to the brothers.

The family's reasoning being that the divorce rate is so high that a female is more prone to using the family's skeletons than the brother-in law incase of a divorce ? So what's "in" the family most not trickle down to the foreign invaders
What is your take on this ?


What is it like for your family's relationship with the in-laws..,are they treated as a possible infiltrators ?

[Buraanbur]

Some families are infiltrated while others are the infiltrators. Was wifey sent on a mission to destroy you?

[BlackVelvet]

Not so much as infiltrators but all married siblings know that there are things that stay between "us" and there are things that stay between "them"


Chinese wall


ps If it isn't too much of a disposition could you please add spouse, marriage or relationship to the thread title?

[Hyperactive]

there is drama in every family but we kept private as much as possible.

[Idman702]

. There are things that should stay between blood families.


I have seen couple of fuck boys and chicks selling out their family laundry to whoever they humping at night.

[Somaliman%]

The secret to the in law issue is to keep them at arms length. Don't visit them unless you have to. Don't let them come to yours unless a child is born. Don't add them on fb. Just keep them away. This is what I do its important to mention I never had any issues with my in laws due to this rule simples. Also keep your wife from your family. Woman always have issues so just keep her away. Everyone's happy.

[sahal80]

I respect all my in-laws specially the my female inlaws

I dont interfere their houses

Theres one female whos too close to the family and shes loved by all

However, when day as we were talking about one our female cousins and a man who was after her, I felt like shes was jealous of her beauty when she commented on me saying its because shes gorgeous

I kept myself bc i never talk to my inlaws like that otherwise i would have tell her that shes 10 times more beautiful than her

[FieldMarshalMenace]

Some families are infiltrated while others are the infiltrators. Was wifey sent on a mission to destroy you?

Which one

[ChiefKimbo]

I respect all my in-laws specially the my female inlaws

I dont interfere their houses

Theres one female whos too close to the family and shes loved by all

However, when day as we were talking about one our female cousins and a man who was after her, I felt like shes was jealous of her beauty when she commented on me saying its because shes gorgeous

I kept myself bc i never talk to my inlaws like that otherwise i would have tell her that shes 10 times more beautiful than her

Your comment made no sense.

[FieldMarshalMenace]

The secret to the in law issue is to keep them at arms length. Don't visit them unless you have to. Don't let them come to yours unless a child is born. Don't add them on fb. Just keep them away. This is what I do its important to mention I never had any issues with my in laws due to this rule simples. Also keep your wife from your family. Woman always have issues so just keep her away. Everyone's happy.

That's also my mantra

I actually leave the house to speak to blood family...I recently had the family call me for an state of emergency ( the matriarch of the fam lives like 15 mins from me).. I woke up to 11 missed calls..just knew there was some sort of balaayo..I discreetly woke up..wifey goes "where you going " and I said " to the bank to deposit a check"
Then I was gone for few hours and she was like " the bank don't take this long" and I replied " I'm washing my car now"

Few days later the story was told to her by a fam member bc it was unavoidable ....but it was not something that was that ceeb it was about a relative

[FieldMarshalMenace]

I respect all my in-laws specially the my female inlaws

I dont interfere their houses

Theres one female whos too close to the family and shes loved by all

However, when day as we were talking about one our female cousins and a man who was after her, I felt like shes was jealous of her beauty when she commented on me saying its because shes gorgeous

I kept myself bc i never talk to my inlaws like that otherwise i would have tell her that shes 10 times more beautiful than her

Bro in our family situation we have several female in-laws and they are secretly enemies of each other ..it swear ...these females are in competition..which hurts us men in the family...one female told the other "I don't shop no where except the organic supermarket"...the other female demanded the other brother soho from there too

[YummyMummy]

kept at arm's length on internal family affairs ? Specially the females who are married to the brothers.

The family's reasoning being that the divorce rate is so high that a female is more prone to using the family's skeletons than the brother-in law incase of a divorce ? So what's "in" the family most not trickle down to the foreign invaders
What is your take on this ?


What is it like for your family's relationship with the in-laws..,are they treated as a possible infiltrators ?

It's not just (and perhaps not as much) the females. Unfortunately divorce causes some people to completely lose their xishood, male or female, so unnecessary baggage is aired to ruin the other's reputation. I think when worse comes to worse, and you can't trust your senses, silence is best.

[FieldMarshalMenace]

kept at arm's length on internal family affairs ? Specially the females who are married to the brothers.

The family's reasoning being that the divorce rate is so high that a female is more prone to using the family's skeletons than the brother-in law incase of a divorce ? So what's "in" the family most not trickle down to the foreign invaders
What is your take on this ?


What is it like for your family's relationship with the in-laws..,are they treated as a possible infiltrators ?

It's not just (and perhaps not as much) the females. Unfortunately divorce causes some people to completely lose their xishood, male or female, so unnecessary baggage is aired to ruin the other's reputation. I think when worse comes to worse, and you can't trust your senses, silence is best.

Yes Yuumny, I'm speaking abt when gloves are taking off and when ilaahay ka cabsashada is completely abandoned and people are going for the jugular ...

Recently one female, who was bitterly divorced, went as far as accusing the dude's mom was once a worker in fcuking street ( Hargeisa) just cause the dude's mother said to her "I use to live on that street" ( mother told daughter-in-law in time of peace)...

[Jugjugwacwac]

Blood over wife and in-laws any day. Family issues will remain within the family, and I expect my siblings to observe the same rule. None of us are married yet though.

[BlackVelvet]

Thanks Menace


Side note

Do married couples ever really and truly open up to each other even if it's about themselves. Considering anything you say can and may be used against you