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the amount of couples that have committed infidelity is higher than expected. But some of the best relationships I have seen is when the other doesn't know. Of course once it's out it turns out badly.


I have seen two scenarios that are most common:

Scenario 1: husband or wife or bf/gf cheats but covers their tracks well and it is only short term, couple stays together and the other is ignorantly unaware.

Scenario 2: cheating partner gets caught or confesses and the other goes ballistic relationship is destroyed and they split at whatever cost.


Is honesty always the best possibility?

man, we are muslims. hadiba zina la gaaro, meel laka so noqdo maleh. better to end the relationship and never talk why they divorced.

nin naag qabo, o muslim ah, moho o zineysan? you can marry second and 3rd and 4rth. no reason on earth to infidality.

Hyperactive wrote:man, we are muslims. hadiba zina la gaaro, meel laka so noqdo maleh. better to end the relationship and never talk why they divorced.

nin naag qabo, o muslim ah, moho o zineysan? you can marry second and 3rd and 4rth. no reason on earth to infidality.

But yet it happens all the time in every place in the world. It even happened during the time of the prophet scw and they were the best generation.


Now, Hyper, aren't we told to keep our mistakes hidden, conceal what allah has hidden?

Yes it is. Truth hurts, though the longer you go on living a lie the worse it would probably hurt because on top of the disloyalty they played you by lying to your face, day in day out


Once a cheater, always a cheater. Better find a fellow cheater so they can keep each other entertained

What is this? I am confused by your premise

the amount of couples that have committed infidelity is higher than expected

what was the expected vs. the actual number? Are you only talking about somali cuckold/cuckquean or the general population. tighten this thing up man!

Skippa wrote:What is this? I am confused by your premise

the amount of couples that have committed infidelity is higher than expected

what was the expected vs. the actual number? Are you only talking about somali cuckold/cuckquean or the general population. tighten this thing up man!

Perception man perception!



btw please vote yall. Also I am in no way condoning cheating, either be up front or don't do it at all.

The less u know the safer u r.

PrinceDaadi wrote:The less u know the safer u r.

You can never know enough.

Sooner or later,herpes will show up to slap the ignorant ass.

Tuushi wrote:Sooner or later,herpes will show up to slap the ignorant ass.

If I ever catch my spouse cheating am coming in the house like...


She brought it upon herself.




Signed Salih...

Tuushi wrote:Sooner or later,herpes will show up to slap the ignorant ass.

Only 1 in 6 have genital herpes. So there is still a good chance it won't show up.

SultanOrder wrote:

Tuushi wrote:Sooner or later,herpes will show up to slap the ignorant ass.

Only 1 in 6 have genital herpes. So there is still a good chance it won't show up.

1 in 6 is only good odds if u winning something.

BlackVelvet wrote:

Tuushi wrote:Sooner or later,herpes will show up to slap the ignorant ass.

Why this whole marry more or sleep with others sucks.Someone innocent could end up a lifelong disease because the other wanted more.

If you use protection, it's pretty good odds if you ask me

sultan, you can hide your sins but you living a lie as bv mention. so go and repent away from her. these things whether we deny or admit will hunt you on the back. the problem people do not connect the dots when some thing happens to them. kama to deen to daan.