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Salaam!

Waxaan la yaabay dhaqan xumada Reer Koonfureedka, Intaan muqdisho joogay waxaan arkay hablo yar yar oo 13/14/15 oo midiiba 5 caruur is dabo wado oo la wada furay. Maxaa dadkan ugu wacan inay caruur mustaqbalkood haleeyaan? Raggana midkiiba wuxuu ku odhanayaa 3 ayaan furay!

So you're saying there are no young divorced women in SL ?

GIJaamac wrote:So you're saying there are no young divorced women in SL ?

On the contrary, there are divorced women in SL but they're not young, those are mature independent women. What would a 15 year old girl with no education background whatsoever do for a living?
Think it has something to do with the meher rate I.e y'all pay $100 for meher, so the slightest misunderstanding and all you need is to give back that $100 not considering the kids or anything else for that matters.

horta ninyahow waa run. Them kids are crazy. Maalin dhoweyd my little cousin who is 13 run away with a girl lol. Inta ley so wacay baa ley yiri pay his meher cash. I was like oo kaalay bank miyaan ahay

Anyway inkasto ay ka fiican tahay in waxbarashada xooga la saaro ,hadana guurku koley zinadu wey dhaantaa.

It's all a result of the stupid war, the dhaqan of old is no more, an ugly frightening one has since taken hold.

Walaahi my exact same thought.
I'm 27 and my husband is 31. We have two boys. When we came to mogadishu few weeks ago. The first question my husbands female relatives asked me was " ilmaha ma iska xertey? ( had to ask my husband what it ment as my somali is not up to scratch he said it means do you use birth control?
Because we've been married for 6 years and only two kids

I'm like no, we just don't want anymore kids at the moment, girls my age are already on kid number 5 it's unbelievable!

^^ Kaaraan yaa dagan ma kasee?

13 jir waxay og yihiin ma leh, lkn markii 18 jir la gaaro guur macquul ah waaye haddii reerku taageero fiican helo.

Siiba kuwa qurbaha ku nool ee maalin kasta arkaaya boyfriend iyo girlfriend iskuulka isku dhuuq dhuuqaaya. Carruurtu dareemo ayay leeyihiin, waxaas markay arkaanna haddaysan heysan meel ay ku carro baxaanna helin ( ) waa dhib.

^I do and won't share how and why but just know I'm closer to Mog than even Borama or Garowe.

I hope and pray that elders address these ills than fight for AMISOM gov or al shabab which many HG do than raise their family.

There's no education, no work, no hobbies

There's nothing else to do but to get married in Somalia.

gulaid111 wrote:Salaam!

Waxaan la yaabay dhaqan xumada Reer Koonfureedka, Intaan muqdisho joogay waxaan arkay hablo yar yar oo 13/14/15 oo midiiba 5 caruur is dabo wado oo la wada furay. Maxaa dadkan ugu wacan inay caruur mustaqbalkood haleeyaan? Raggana midkiiba wuxuu ku odhanayaa 3 ayaan furay!

This problem exists across somali society not just in koonfurta. All these idiots marry little girls from poor families and leave her with 3 kids without a care in the world. I think its one of the terrible effects of war, as this isn't somali calture.

Advo wrote:There's no education, no work, no hobbies

There's nothing else to do but to get married in Somalia.

I don't know what part of somalia your from but there is education to university level in somalia, if one wants an education he or she can get good enough education in mogadisho, bosaso or hargeysa.

As for jobs this is difficult but there are jobs too, NGO'S local government jobs, telecommunications, even starting your own business. I have relatives that started from nothing and now are flourishing in somalia. So the perception that there's no hope in somalia is false and merely an excuse.

Susu000 wrote:Walaahi my exact same thought.
I'm 27 and my husband is 31. We have two boys. When we came to mogadishu few weeks ago. The first question my husbands female relatives asked me was " ilmaha ma iska xertey? ( had to ask my husband what it ment as my somali is not up to scratch he said it means do you use birth control?
Because we've been married for 6 years and only two kids

I'm like no, we just don't want anymore kids at the moment, girls my age are already on kid number 5 it's unbelievable!

Obviously if you have just 2 kids in 6 years. you must be on contraception right?

Foh with that bull

Majority of somali kids do not have an access to education, ur uncle kids are in school because they're fortunate enough to get assistance from a relative abroad.

SiennaEarth wrote:

gacankudhiigle wrote:brother this is strictly habar gidir culture i witnessed the same thing in baraxley ceeb

Didn't you say you're barwani, what business do you have in galkacyo since you're neither MJ or HG. Talk about being a troll. Games get yo shxt together.

Loooooooooool

Omg so that's games? I should have known when this asshole sent me a threatening message.

What a loser loooool

Idman702 wrote:

SiennaEarth wrote:

gacankudhiigle wrote:brother this is strictly habar gidir culture i witnessed the same thing in baraxley ceeb

Didn't you say you're barwani, what business do you have in galkacyo since you're neither MJ or HG. Talk about being a troll. Games get yo shxt together.

Loooooooooool

Omg so that's games? I should have known when this asshole sent me a threatening message.

What a loser loooool

He sent me a message saying he is barwani with a hawiye mum so it's clearly games lol. Plus when I asked if he was games he said him and games are friends but that's a lie this character is actually games. He's just changing his character a little so mods don't clock on. and he sends me drunk messages that make no sense even though it's ramadhan