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So I have never for once crossed my mind that I will even consider marrying someone that has already been S*exually touched by another person. Virgins were always my thing and dreams. But as I grew older, I see alot of nice sisters with 1-2 kids who are still young, religious and more willing to marry you without any financial burden. All they want is nin fiican oo dhaqda.

But Pyschologically, morally, socially, emotionally, how bad it is to marry someone who had kids with another person who is not dead. Who would propably want to see his kids once in a while or call your wife to check on how his kid is doing.

I mean how bad it is?

Nin aan go'aan gaari Karin naag ba unu haweeysdo maba aha.

Sumubaridi, so adiga garoob ma tihid?

adikaba wa laku so tabtay. dad ka fi'an ba garoob goursaday. nabigeena asw ka mid yahay.

Huuno it seems to me wax bilaash bad doonaysa ..waayo u can't afford to marry gabadh. Good luck. And to answer your question, I would never marry a divorcee with children ...too much baby mama drama, but a divorcee minus dependants I am open to.

I don't see it as a problem.
It would depend how much you loved the woman involved.
A lot of Somali's marry divorcees for somewhere to lay their heads at night.
PS Aisha can testify to this.

What kind of question is that "how bad it is"? Where does the word bad enter in this?

There's no prb if she is suxul baruur nimcatul fashuuq my only condition is to not have more than 2 kids it's even better if there are no kids, plus carmal is more experience nd is serious about life since she has seen what's like to be a single mother

Hyperactive wrote:Sumubaridi, so adiga garoob ma tihid?

adikaba wa laku so tabtay. dad ka fi'an ba garoob goursaday. nabigeena asw ka mid yahay.

haa aniga garoob ayaan ahay laakiin caruur mawato naag horena ima daba joogto. Laakiin naagaha aan kahadlaayo nimankii hore aa nool. The prophet scw mostly married widows except Zaynaba and Zeyd which was waxyi. Intakale nimankii way kadhinteen.

bro, sahadi wey goursaden rag nool their ex. wah deeniyan, concern leh ma ah. dad ka sharaf badan ba sameyey.

ninku hadu noolyahay iyo in kale maha ka galay?

haweeneydada, ayado asturan, bey arourta ka diheeya ka hadli.

naag la so taabtay bad tiri! aduguba wa laku so tabtay.

Scary being involved with kids that are not your own, particularly boys.

In Northwest London, this old farax was brutally murdered by his stepson last year.

Furthermore, having to deal with the father of the children means you really cannot discipline them.

Out of respect, I believe step fathers should not try to act like a father figure to their step children as the kids could end up with an cuqdad.

that is sad. aroorta isnt safe to live other than their mom or dad.

fathers should be their kid's lives after divorce.

original dervish wrote:I don't see it as a problem.
It would depend how much you loved the woman involved.
A lot of Somali's marry divorcees for somewhere to lay their heads at night.
PS Aisha can testify to this.

Low blow dude

War garoobs are in demand my friend got married to some uber driver kitted the whole house out and a hoilday to dubai

Waan inan fadhiga ka kaaco

Aisha, aroorta ina abti, illahi. bal intey yara hooksanayan, ha goursan.

Aishah wrote:

original dervish wrote:I don't see it as a problem.
It would depend how much you loved the woman involved.
A lot of Somali's marry divorcees for somewhere to lay their heads at night.
PS Aisha can testify to this.

Low blow dude

War garoobs are in demand my friend got married to some uber driver kitted the whole house out and a hoilday to dubai

Waan inan fadhiga ka kaaco

Aisha, assuming your have kids, how is your relation with your ex affects your current husband? odaygii hore markuu kusoowaco, iyo markuu caruurta u imaado, isn't it awkward somehow xoogaa ?

we are on speaking terms we are co parenting our kids we keep it civil .. We are taking the kids to the theme park and beach in the next two weeks