Women: How much will you demand for nikah? Men: What's the maximium will you pay for nikah?

[TheCadaanGuy]

For both genders, are you willing to end the love if the potential spouse cannot afford your nikah or demand too much?

[GAMES]

Depends on your level of income and the going Nikah market rate in your area.

[Hyperactive]

somalis, mix between mahr and other expenses such wedding expenses, furnaturing etc.

let us devine mahr first and what it means to somalis.

[salool]

Ninka marka la so xero galiyo ba jeebkisa lo dhaca..ehel oo dhan laga biiliya..aqal aabaha lo dhisa.Naagaha maskaxdooda kama shaqaysiyan.

Inta la nooshahy qalajiy.

[Theguardian]

somalis, mix between mahr and other expenses such wedding expenses, furnaturing etc.

let us devine mahr first and what it means to somalis.

The mahr is religious requirement and it is just for the bride to be - she can ask anything she wants - it is upto him to decline or persuade her otherwise

The expenses for the wedding is different kettle of fish - everyone chips in if necessary.

[COOL-MAN]

Explain hyper.

Share knowledge.

[salool]

somalis, mix between mahr and other expenses such wedding expenses, furnaturing etc.

let us devine mahr first and what it means to somalis.

The mahr is religious requirement and it is just for the bride to be - she can ask anything she wants - it is upto him to decline or persuade her otherwise

The expenses for the wedding is different kettle of fish - everyone chips in if necessary.

If he cant afford the expenses of the wedding just dont have any.Why aad oo bixinaysa lacagta arooskaga, ma ada is guursaneya.

[Hyperactive]

lol coolman.

its gift men give to their wivies when they write the "3aqd" marriage contract. that is why prophet said " dont exaggerate the mahr/gift".

later the scholars, went to be "3orf" which means no set of amountb but what that specific society deemed to be "average" .

what i saw it in my courts , people name a huge number that, both married people know , he doesnt have it. when i ask them to show cause i have to document it. they say " ohh that is just mo'akhir, when divorced"!!!

so i write it what given, and rest ive to put it " on case of divorce"!!!

what most people dont know, marriage in islam is civil contract just as any contract between bussness people.

[PrinceDaadi]

I always believed meher should be a third of my monthly income, meher is a deyn and should be paid immediately.

[CigaalSHiiDaaDCFC]

Ninka marka la so xero galiyo ba jeebkisa lo dhaca..ehel oo dhan laga biiliya..aqal aabaha lo dhisa.Naagaha maskaxdooda kama shaqaysiyan.

Inta la nooshahy qalajiy.

ilahay Nama ka so mariyo


I would say dar ilahay aan isku
Meher sano if she refuses than kitaab quran if she isn't having it than futaax if she insist on
Money I start from thousand upto 10k nd that's the maximum I can go.

[COOL-MAN]

lol coolman.

its gift men give to their wivies when they write the "3aqd" marriage contract. that is why prophet said " dont exaggerate the mahr/gift".

later the scholars, went to be "3orf" which means no set of amountb but what that specific society deemed to be "average" .

what i saw it in my courts , people name a huge number that, both married people know , he doesnt have it. when i ask them to show cause i have to document it. they say " ohh that is just mo'akhir, when divorced"!!!

so i write it what given, and rest ive to put it " on case of divorce"!!!

what most people dont know, marriage in islam is civil contract just as any contract between bussness people.

Thank you sheikh hyper

Do you ask them to produce the money there n then?

Dhib badnidaa shekhow?

Lol @salol

[salool]

Hyper, naagaha doorta kitaab quraan ah so xilkiiso ma weyna...nimanka haday ogaan laheyn masuuliyada sugaysa...inu nin kasta diido wayaan hadaanu ka so bixi karin.

[salool]

Chelsea, you wouldt know what hit you tills its to late.Sida casho heer sare ah lagugi casuumayo..mabaad ogaaten wax dhacayba.

[Hyperactive]

Prince, people newa days, do ; moqadam /upfront and mu'akhir/ in case marriage ends.

so he doesnt owe her unless he divorced her. wa trap.

coolman, i ask the check or the money, i have too. they need to exchange. if if woman wants to document she got it. she needs to sign she got it.

salool, we dont eccept it sister by law. she has to name material thing, money, jewelary etc.

[Hyperactive]

coolman, cause they come to me for dispute and divorce. wa inan iska hubsada marka horeba. wallah wa headache arabtu. i hope somalis easier to deal with.