personality disorder
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personality disorder
I think I have personality disorder....
One minute I am super nice and out of nowhere I can be nasty... Usually it triggered by small things people around me do. I try so hard to maintain my nice side but at times it can be so difficult.
Now, at the past I lost few friends due to this - one of them told me " you have switchable personality" thankfully, my husband to be - somehow doesn't seem to notice this... Maybe because he doesn't upset me or get the wrong side of me. But I am scare- one day I will switch on him.
One minute I am super nice and out of nowhere I can be nasty... Usually it triggered by small things people around me do. I try so hard to maintain my nice side but at times it can be so difficult.
Now, at the past I lost few friends due to this - one of them told me " you have switchable personality" thankfully, my husband to be - somehow doesn't seem to notice this... Maybe because he doesn't upset me or get the wrong side of me. But I am scare- one day I will switch on him.
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Re: personality disorder
Play Surah-Al Baqarah 3 times in your house each day or perform Ruqyah on yourself. If that doesn't work then seek a psychologist.
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Re: personality disorder
If you dont get violent you cool 

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Re: personality disorder
RoobleAlWaliid wrote:Play Surah-Al Baqarah 3 times in your house each day or perform Ruqyah on yourself. If that doesn't work then seek a psychologist.
Thanks.
I've considered seeing Counselor before but I don't think there is much they can do...
I will stick to the Quran and praying for now...
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Re: personality disorder
Bibaaye6828 wrote:If you dont get violent you cool
lol I haven't had fight in the last three years - so inshallah it will continue forever.
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Re: personality disorder
Theguardian wrote:
Thanks.
I've considered seeing Counselor before but I don't think there is much they can do...
I will stick to the Quran and praying for now...
I would've done the same

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Re: personality disorder
He is not noticing it because his needs to want to larvish you is more stronger than anything else. He is being blinded by the need to have you. When he quinches his thirst, he will notice it in a week or two. This is what you do. I know because I had a girlfriend that was pibolar once.Theguardian wrote:Bibaaye6828 wrote:If you dont get violent you cool
lol I haven't had fight in the last three years - so inshallah it will continue forever.
- Write down all the incidents that you had to get pissed off and write what pissed you off at each incident. Is it only one particular thing or just random things.
- If its one particular thing, Its normal. Some people are sensitive to something things and they loose their cool when people say or do to them. I am sentive to someone looking at my wife's azz or giggling at my wife. I can go to jail for 20 years for someone just looking at my wife's azz. Nothing will calm me down than porking his eye out.
_ If its so many things with so many people, you either have pibolar mise autism. So many somalis have never been diagnosed with autism behavioral changes and dadka say, way fududahay. if somalis tell you way fududahay, its autism for real. Good luck.
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Re: personality disorder
Sumubaridi wrote:Theguardian wrote:Bibaaye6828 wrote:If you dont get violent you cool
lol I haven't had fight in the last three years - so inshallah it will continue forever.
. I am sentive to someone looking at my wife's azz or giggling at my wife. I can go to jail for 20 years for someone just looking at my wife's azz. Nothing will calm me down than porking his eye out.




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Re: personality disorder
Could you be bipolar yourself?Sumubaridi wrote:He is not noticing it because his needs to want to larvish you is more stronger than anything else. He is being blinded by the need to have you. When he quinches his thirst, he will notice it in a week or two. This is what you do. I know because I had a girlfriend that was pibolar once.Theguardian wrote:Bibaaye6828 wrote:If you dont get violent you cool
lol I haven't had fight in the last three years - so inshallah it will continue forever.
- Write down all the incidents that you had to get pissed off and write what pissed you off at each incident. Is it only one particular thing or just random things.
- If its one particular thing, Its normal. Some people are sensitive to something things and they loose their cool when people say or do to them. I am sentive to someone looking at my wife's azz or giggling at my wife. I can go to jail for 20 years for someone just looking at my wife's azz. Nothing will calm me down than porking his eye out.
_ If its so many things with so many people, you either have pibolar mise autism. So many somalis have never been diagnosed with autism behavioral changes and dadka say, way fududahay. if somalis tell you way fududahay, its autism for real. Good luck.
People in the west have got so many useless diseases.
@The Guardian. You're not ill. You're just immature. Just get that thumb out of your mouth and grow up.
As for your husband to be not noticing, i think it is what ColdPoison has said. The man has blinded himself. I have bliended myself a numbe rof times, but i always know that i'm being willfully blind.
The Guy sees it and knows it. Maybe he has no intention of marrying you (unless you've gone too far.)
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Re: personality disorder
Sumubaridi wrote:He is not noticing it because his needs to want to larvish you is more stronger than anything else. He is being blinded by the need to have you. When he quinches his thirst, he will notice it in a week or two. This is what you do. I know because I had a girlfriend that was pibolar once.Theguardian wrote:Bibaaye6828 wrote:If you dont get violent you cool
lol I haven't had fight in the last three years - so inshallah it will continue forever.
- Write down all the incidents that you had to get pissed off and write what pissed you off at each incident. Is it only one particular thing or just random things.
- If its one particular thing, Its normal. Some people are sensitive to something things and they loose their cool when people say or do to them. I am sentive to someone looking at my wife's azz or giggling at my wife. I can go to jail for 20 years for someone just looking at my wife's azz. Nothing will calm me down than porking his eye out.
_ If its so many things with so many people, you either have pibolar mise autism. So many somalis have never been diagnosed with autism behavioral changes and dadka say, way fududahay. if somalis tell you way fududahay, its autism for real. Good luck.


I don't think I am bipolar -that's some serious mental illness - I couldn't survive this long without any medication.
However-I do sometime wonder- maybe I've very mild autism -
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Re: personality disorder
Could you be bipolar yourself?
People in the west have got so many useless diseases.
@The Guardian. You're not ill. You're just immature. Just get that thumb out of your mouth and grow up.
As for your husband to be not noticing, i think it is what ColdPoison has said. The man has blinded himself. I have bliended myself a numbe rof times, but i always know that i'm being willfully blind.
The Guy sees it and knows it. Maybe he has no intention of marrying you (unless you've gone too far.)[/quote]
What do you mean by: "unless you've gone too
far"?
He has every intention of marrying me - end of next month -date as been set.
People in the west have got so many useless diseases.
@The Guardian. You're not ill. You're just immature. Just get that thumb out of your mouth and grow up.
As for your husband to be not noticing, i think it is what ColdPoison has said. The man has blinded himself. I have bliended myself a numbe rof times, but i always know that i'm being willfully blind.
The Guy sees it and knows it. Maybe he has no intention of marrying you (unless you've gone too far.)[/quote]
What do you mean by: "unless you've gone too
far"?
He has every intention of marrying me - end of next month -date as been set.
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Re: personality disorder
Firi abaayo dadkaan yeku waalin
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Re: personality disorder
Bibaaye6828 wrote:Firi abaayo dadkaan yeku waalin
Thanks - I think am driving myself crazy.....
I need to get myself to sleep. thanks and good night.
Re: personality disorder
TheGuardian, there is nothing wrong with you. Dont beat yourself up for it. From what you told us, what you described is normal.
If you wanna see someone crazy, look no further than Basra.
She got all kinds of issue, some that they don't even have name for it or know what to call.
If you wanna see someone crazy, look no further than Basra.
She got all kinds of issue, some that they don't even have name for it or know what to call.
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Re: personality disorder
You need to have mental discipline. Know what your triggers are and developing coping mechanism. It helped me overcome paranoia which was justified in the end.
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