The acceptable amount for a Nikah for Women?

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The acceptable amount for a Nikah for Women?

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A question for both men and women not married currently.

What would you say is the acceptable amount you would say for a Nikah for you?

Me personally I never saw Nikah amount should ever be more maximum than 1500USD. For me personally when I was getting married my Nikah amount was not even 1500USD but I had him promise me something more valuable to me personally.
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Re: The acceptable amount for a Nikah for Women?

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I think this unregulated market needs to be controlled by the government. I am sure nikah contributes greatly to the UK economy.
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Re: The acceptable amount for a Nikah for Women?

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I would say about £1 or thereabouts.
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Re: The acceptable amount for a Nikah for Women?

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$0. I refuse to pay a dime for extortion.
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Re: The acceptable amount for a Nikah for Women?

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I was present gabdh la balaneyey meher 50K lacaga maranyka, arooskida 50K isku dar 100K. Gabdh aad u nereysa ahed. It was Inadeerteysi , sidu u sharifeyey ba I cajibisey. Sanad dhan bu usu shaqeyeye.
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Re: The acceptable amount for a Nikah for Women?

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I'd bleed him dry.

No remorse.
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Re: The acceptable amount for a Nikah for Women?

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Itrah wrote:$0. I refuse to pay a dime for extortion.
Good luck dude. you have to pay meher tho.

Allthough im married i think the meher should be maximum 10k.

Btw why do maryooley say nikaax. It has a different meaning basically it means xalaal inaa isku wasi kartiin. Ask any arabic speaker :pac:
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Re: The acceptable amount for a Nikah for Women?

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Warsheekh wrote:
Itrah wrote:$0. I refuse to pay a dime for extortion.
Good luck dude. you have to pay meher tho.
Allthough im married i think the meher should be maximum 10k.
I have the money, but I think the whole idea is absurd. Going to brainwash her into thinking the same thing and getting away for free. :up:
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Re: The acceptable amount for a Nikah for Women?

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Dude you must give her something otherwise It's not legit.
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Re: The acceptable amount for a Nikah for Women?

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I think I exposed a family business.
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Re: The acceptable amount for a Nikah for Women?

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3 reason why women demand so much money:

1. She is just there for the money, and she don't really care about the man that much
2. She wants to show the world she is worth a lot
3. She does not want a nice insurance deal, if she was to get divorced.
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Re: The acceptable amount for a Nikah for Women?

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This is what I've observed: If you make the meher easy for him out of love/you don't want to over burden him guaranteed he won't be grateful and you've basically set the standard for what he thinks you expect from him in your marriage forever.

Set the standard from get go. That ni99a best be working 4 jobs if he has to.
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Re: The acceptable amount for a Nikah for Women?

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Somalis need to be brainwashed with feminism like Western women. Then they would object to this primitive system. :lol:
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Re: The acceptable amount for a Nikah for Women?

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Some of you are either delusional or have to do some serious studying of Islam. A Nikah does not necessarily mean a certain amount but something must be offered. As for women who ask a lot of money being from what I have seen most Women who ask a crazy amount succum to pressure from the Family.

When I married my Husband he was still in University and did not finish two years until I did which meant I had to support the family so calm down with the issue we are all after money. I asked this question
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Re: The acceptable amount for a Nikah for Women?

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Acceptable amount is dependent on how much he makes. Should remain confidential aswell.
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