How do you make the first night of a planned marriage not awkward?

jamal859 · Post by **jamal859** » Mon Oct 19, 2015 6:00 pm

Any guys experienced this especially if you're both virgins

Bibaaye6828 · Post by **Bibaaye6828** » Mon Oct 19, 2015 6:21 pm

If you're bot virgins there aint no hope fr. :russ:

jamal859 · Post by **jamal859** » Mon Oct 19, 2015 6:26 pm

Bibaaye6828 wrote:If you're bot virgins there aint no hope fr.

Was just curious.There aren't any virgins left nowadays.

BVSNet · Post by **BVSNet** » Mon Oct 19, 2015 6:36 pm

Do you mean planned as in arranged?

It's supposed to be awkward. The guy offers to sleep on the sofa, the girl is like of course what did you think, then they have the awkward getting ready for bed thing, then he can't sleep on the sofa, she can't sleep on the bed, the next morning they're both moody, then she eventually runs away and he goes after her, and then they end up in some random village and he helps the kids in the village, she sees how kind he is, they dance and sing in a field, they go round trees and then they start to like each other and then that's when they have their first kiss

That my dear is how it's done

jamal859 · Post by **jamal859** » Mon Oct 19, 2015 6:43 pm

BVSNet wrote:Do you mean planned as in arranged?

It's supposed to be awkward. The guy offers to sleep on the sofa, the girl is like of course what did you think, then they have the awkward getting ready for bed thing, then he can't sleep on the sofa, she can't sleep on the bed, the next morning they're both moody, then she eventually runs away and he goes after her, and then they end up in some random village and he helps the kids in the village, she sees how kind he is, they dance and sing in a field, they go round trees and then they start to like each other and then that's when they have their first kiss

That my dear is how it's done

Lol funny shit

Bibaaye6828 · Post by **Bibaaye6828** » Mon Oct 19, 2015 6:47 pm

BVSNet wrote:Do you mean planned as in arranged?

It's supposed to be awkward. The guy offers to sleep on the sofa, the girl is like of course what did you think, then they have the awkward getting ready for bed thing, then he can't sleep on the sofa, she can't sleep on the bed, the next morning they're both moody, then she eventually runs away and he goes after her, and then they end up in some random village and he helps the kids in the village, she sees how kind he is, they dance and sing in a field, they go round trees and then they start to like each other and then that's when they have their first kiss

That my dear is how it's done

Hindiiga badsatay walaaley :pac:

zumaale · Post by **zumaale** » Mon Oct 19, 2015 7:12 pm

Start getting touchy with her before marriage so there is no Xiishod by the time it is Xalal for you to hit a home run.

InaSamaale · Post by **InaSamaale** » Mon Oct 19, 2015 7:53 pm

zumaale wrote:Start getting touchy with her before marriage so there is no Xiishod by the time it is Xalal for you to hit a home run.

Somalis should really embrace an 'engagement' period like Arabs/ Turks do. They have a nikaax and then a year later they do the waleema/ wedding festivities where the couple move in together. You keep it halal and can get to know each other. Most couples are on shukaansi mode for a year anyway while preparations happen so don't know why we frown upon it.

AbkoowDhiblaawe · Post by **AbkoowDhiblaawe** » Mon Oct 19, 2015 8:07 pm

InaSamaale wrote:
zumaale wrote:Start getting touchy with her before marriage so there is no Xiishod by the time it is Xalal for you to hit a home run.

Somalis should really embrace an 'engagement' period like Arabs/ Turks do. They have a nikaax and then a year later they do the waleema/ wedding festivities where the couple move in together. You keep it halal and can get to know each other. Most couples are on shukaansi mode for a year anyway while preparations happen so don't know why we frown upon it.

Whats wrong with old fashion shukaansi/dating?

salool · Post by **salool** » Mon Oct 19, 2015 9:48 pm

Ma qasaba ina habeenka ugu horeya la isku boodo siiba naag aanad garanenba.I suggest you get to know her the first week.Dont force her if she's very shy and be her friend first.

barbarossa · Post by **barbarossa** » Mon Oct 19, 2015 11:19 pm

Just say to her, abaayo ii dhiib!

HayWire · Post by **HayWire** » Mon Oct 19, 2015 11:41 pm

These Xalimos are hilarious. One is talkign about Bollywood movie and the other get to know her for a week.

Listen Nigga. Don't even say hi to her, rib her clothes off and drag her to bed. if she acts up do this

InaSamaale · Post by **InaSamaale** » Tue Oct 20, 2015 12:40 am

Warsheekh wrote:
Whats wrong with old fashion shukaansi/dating?

Well firstly, it's prone to immorality.

Old fashioned shukaansi like what our parents and grandparents engaged, as respectful as it was, simply isn't common among younger people.

Dating in the contemporary sense, is basically a counter-productive facade two parties put on, under the guise of getting to know one another.

If people want to "date", they should date their husband/wife & truly make time to get to know each other- their authentic selves. By the time they're ready to move in, it won't feel like moving in with a stranger.

LiquidHYDROGEN · Post by **LiquidHYDROGEN** » Tue Oct 20, 2015 4:11 am

InaSamaale wrote:
zumaale wrote:Start getting touchy with her before marriage so there is no Xiishod by the time it is Xalal for you to hit a home run.

Somalis should really embrace an 'engagement' period like Arabs/ Turks do. They have a nikaax and then a year later they do the waleema/ wedding festivities where the couple move in together. You keep it halal and can get to know each other. Most couples are on shukaansi mode for a year anyway while preparations happen so don't know why we frown upon it.

I agree with this.

Couples should have a cooling off period during engagement while they get to know each other and talk. This rushing to marry someone you've barely known a month business is the reason why Somalis have such a high divorce rate. They don't take marriage and the responsibilities that come with it very seriously.

Amira143 · Post by **Amira143** » Tue Oct 20, 2015 4:19 am

HayWire wrote:
These Xalimos are hilarious. One is talkign about Bollywood movie and the other get to know her for a week.

Listen Nigga. Don't even say hi to her, rib her clothes off and drag her to bed. if she acts up do this

You funny!

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