if you happen to see My Wife, tell her these are the ways to make me feel Really Loved!

TheLoFather · Post by **TheLoFather** » Sat Oct 31, 2015 8:12 am

My snet family please pass this massege to my Xaliimo!
The following is a list of ways that a woman can really touch a deep place within me.
A woman who cares about me enough to pay attention in the way I outline below is where I want to be. I’m just another Faarax being wanting to know that I am safe, that I am appreciated and loved for who I am, that I am welcome and wanted on this planet to share my gifts and give my own love.

1. Get to know me (the real me)

One of the most beautiful gifts I have discovered that I am able to give another is my full presence. To listen and observe and show them that I see them, really see them and appreciate who they are and what they bring forward. To give this kind of attention to a woman can be like watching a flower blossom in real time.
There is no experience I have ever had that is quite like being truly seen and heard in the moment. I want to give that and I want to receive it. If you wish to be memorable to me, if you want to inspire my unending devotion, then get to know me—see me, hear me and let me know you see me.

I am certain you would be surprised by the levels of depth and tenderness that a Faarax can contain within him and sometimes hide from the world because he isn't yet sure how it will be received.

2. Enjoy the way I move.

As a man one of the biggest sources of joy for me is in using my body to get stuff done somehow. Whether it’s milking the camels, carrying stuff around, playing sports, martial arts, dhaanto-ing, running through the forest or some other activity, I feel the most alive when my body is being used.
Move with me, watch me and enjoy me. Let me know you like it. Tell me I’m sexy when I move and you will stir my passions into a frenzy. As a woman I know you are probably pretty used to people admiring and complementing you for your physicality. As a man I am a lot less used to it and it can really mean a lot to me.

3. Tell me how I impact you.

If you have butterflies in your stomach when you are with me, if your heart beats a little faster when I say or do something, if kissing me turns you on—then tell me. Tell me how you feel when you are with me and I will feel closer to you, so much closer. I want to know that I mean something and that me being in the world changes your experience of it.

I can remember every single time a woman has shared this with me, it means that much.

4. Follow me into my cave.

There are going to be times when the world overwhelms me, when I feel incapable, when something hurts and my natural instinct is to withdraw and be alone.

I’m told as a man that I have to do it on my own, that I have to be strong and confident and never show my weaknesses. So in times of difficulty I will retreat, and if you really care about me then don’t leave me alone. Come and see me, call me, check in on me and ask if I am okay.

Don’t be surprised if I don’t want to talk. Don’t think that means I want you to go away though. Just be there for me. Maybe all I need is to be held and to know that you wont leave me if I can’t do it all. We all need to be held sometimes. And if you stay with me, if you show me that it’s okay for me to be vulnerable I might open up and tell you.

This is not going to be an easy thing to do, so please be patient. You will probably be rewarded with my undying loyalty. We men never forget those who are there for us in times of difficulty.

5. Talk about “stuff” with me sometimes.

As men and women we perceive the world differently, and that difference is a beautiful thing.

Your world is more feeling based, subtle and dynamic, prone to rapid changes in a way that boggles me at times. I’m doing my best to follow you, learn about you and enjoy the unique way you are.

And sometimes I want to talk about “stuff” with you—it may be the premier league and Arsenal Fc, Mo Faarax and his achievements in sports, martial arts or the latest spiritual philosophy I have been studying, yet I want to talk about the details of it.

Indulge me! Ask questions and maybe even debate about it with me. I will probably get really excited in a way that might be confusing to you. This is a part of me as a man and I want to share it with you as much as I do everything else. Even better is to tell me you enjoy it when I talk about this stuff.

salool · Post by **salool** » Sat Oct 31, 2015 8:19 am

To much talk..maxaa laga hadli ee baas.Habeen kasta so diyaargarow, shaqadada sariirta ka so bax ka bacdi hawada iga bax.

ps- saliid isla dhac.

Sauron · Post by **Sauron** » Sat Oct 31, 2015 8:22 am

Senpai will never notice you.

COOL-MAN · Post by **COOL-MAN** » Sat Oct 31, 2015 8:31 am

You are asking for too much mate. Stay single

TheLoFather · Post by **TheLoFather** » Sat Oct 31, 2015 8:32 am

salool wrote:To much talk..maxaa laga hadli ee baas.Habeen kasta so diyaargarow, shaqadada sariirta ka so bax ka bacdi hawada iga bax.

ps- saliid isla dhac.

TheLoFather · Post by **TheLoFather** » Sat Oct 31, 2015 8:35 am

COOL-MAN wrote:You are asking for too much mate. Stay single

Acuudubillaahi minasheeydaani rajiim

Ps once you be husbend you CAN'T go back!

salool · Post by **salool** » Sat Oct 31, 2015 8:46 am

Ladoon,

Seriously, hadaad hadal rabtid asxaabtada la sheekayso...guriga wa inaad jidhkaaga uun ka
hadashid.

COOL-MAN · Post by **COOL-MAN** » Sat Oct 31, 2015 8:54 am

LoDoon wrote:
COOL-MAN wrote:You are asking for too much mate. Stay single
Acuudubillaahi minasheeydaani rajiim

Ps once you be husbend you CAN'T go back!

TheLoFather · Post by **TheLoFather** » Sat Oct 31, 2015 9:40 am

salool wrote:LODOON ,

Seriously, hadaad hadal rabtid asxaabtada la sheekayso...guriga wa inaad jidhkaaga uun ka
hadashid.

Walaal, that has got me into trouble last weekend when we when out for dinner and I spent most of my time in the restaurant talking to her friends, imagine how she be when I talk to my own friends at makhaayada?

Post by **MujahidAishah** » Sat Oct 31, 2015 9:42 am

salool wrote:Ladoon,

Seriously, hadaad hadal rabtid asxaabtada la sheekayso...guriga wa inaad jidhkaaga uun ka
hadashid.

Naa inanka ha ka walin after talking baa lugu boodaa. Horta how are you sheeko bila maacni baa lugu soo xero geela mar kas baa siliid iyo uul ba so baxa

salool · Post by **salool** » Sat Oct 31, 2015 9:48 am

Aishah wrote:
salool wrote:Ladoon,

Seriously, hadaad hadal rabtid asxaabtada la sheekayso...guriga wa inaad jidhkaaga uun ka
hadashid.
Naa inanka ha ka walin after talking baa lugu boodaa. Horta how are you sheeko bila maacni baa lugu soo xero geela mar kas baa siliid iyo uul ba so baxa

Aisha, ninkan already naagti wuu so xero galiyey...malaha mesha waxba kuma hayo waa kan sheeko iyo hadal ku waashay.He should be seducing his wife in shower intu nacnacda mesha ka hayo.

Post by **MujahidAishah** » Sat Oct 31, 2015 10:04 am

I think the problem is her. If she was keeping him entertained he wouldn't be on snet complaining. Gabadh ka dheh skills cusub sariirta la kale

InaSamaale · Post by **InaSamaale** » Sat Oct 31, 2015 2:05 pm

Aisha iyo Salool, a man bears all and you're taking the piss with the "ka shaqee" talk.

LoDoon, it's endearing to see a man that is self-aware & in touch with his feelings. You seem like you have a great capacity to love but you should be communicating this to your wife.

Hyperactive · Post by **Hyperactive** » Sat Oct 31, 2015 2:16 pm

COOL-MAN wrote:
LoDoon wrote:
COOL-MAN wrote:You are asking for too much mate. Stay single
Acuudubillaahi minasheeydaani rajiim

Ps once you be husbend you CAN'T go back!

you and sumu have common things than differ.

BVSNet · Post by **BVSNet** » Sat Oct 31, 2015 2:19 pm

MashaAllah Lodoon

Your wife is lucky to have someone so engaged in the human aspect of the relationship

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