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horta ladoon, why married people forget , good times and only remember conflicts times, when they angry at each other?

Marka hore, waa Lo'doon. Niyow Lo' waligaa maad dhaqan miyaa? (you don't know what you Missed!)

Now, I am no psychologist nor am I sociologists but this is what I have learned from my married life so far ;
Men forget everything; That's why we need instant replays in sports because we already forgotten what happened. women however, remember everything.

Any married man should forget his mistakes. There's no use in two people remembering the same thing.

LoDoon wrote:

horta ladoon, why married people forget , good times and only remember conflicts times, when they angry at each other?

Marka hore, waa Lo'doon. Niyow Lo' waligaa maad dhaqan miyaa? (you don't know what you Missed!)

Now, I am no psychologist nor am I sociologists but this is what I have learned from my married life so far ;
Men forget everything; That's why we need instant replays in sports because we already forgotten what happened. women however, remember everything.

Any married man should forget his mistakes. There's no use in two people remembering the same thing.

I do agree with hyper. Honestly we women are always the ones who bring up about past mistakes the guy did when we are mad. that is why you see them reminding each other of bad times

We need marriage counsellors. We also need rubaayado on these. Funny it would be.
People need to be sat down and told to write ish on paper and burn it. Knowing our people
they would wanna down the counsellor's office but still the release of negative energy can
perhaps save a marriage and ensure a child gets the opportunity of having a somali book read to him at
bed time.
and send

Baryahan mowduucan baad dhagaha nagaga wasakhysan .wax kale ood ka hadashaan maad wayden.

LoDoon wrote:

horta ladoon, why married people forget , good times and only remember conflicts times, when they angry at each other?

Marka hore, waa Lo'doon. Niyow Lo' waligaa maad dhaqan miyaa? (you don't know what you Missed!)

Now, I am no psychologist nor am I sociologists but this is what I have learned from my married life so far ;
Men forget everything; That's why we need instant replays in sports because we already forgotten what happened. women however, remember everything.

Any married man should forget his mistakes. There's no use in two people remembering the same thing.

okay brother LoDoon, i appologize misspelling your nick. maya lo walikey ma daqan.

i asked you that question cause in divorce court we are required to ask wife and husband you state good qualities each have about the other.

the funnything people always bring bad stuff and what happens when they upset.

in every relation, for sure there are many happy moments.... example wedding night, when they got prehrant, when child born...when kid went to school etc.

to be honest, niman saqajan ah wey jiran, naakahooda humantooda so hordiga in the court.