Ladies of Snet, question

[TheFuturist]

Do you find it offensive if a Somali brother approaches you to introduce himself and to get you number, or do u like to be the initiator? Which category do you ladies fall in and how do you like to be approached :

Its interesting that some Halimos these days are go-getters who will pursue you, though I personally find off putting when a Halimo is chasing faaraxs brazenly as it makes the job for us too easy whereas others like to be 'courted' & pursues.

[MzLady]

i can't speak about other woman, however straightforward and honest win by mile in my personal opinion...although some ppl still like to play hard to get.

[JSL3000]

[Sauron]

lol

[TheFuturist]

Marley speaks the truth

[EvolSyawla]

For me: men must pursue. Then it's up to us to see if you're worthy (and of course if you are the type who pursues anyone and anything )

[Sophisticate]

Truthfully, I find it off-putting when a guy that doesn't know me tries to pursue. I have no upfront information on randoms, so that is a risky investment. I am not a pursuer either, I find this too blatant. There is no way I'm going to give them an ego boost.

This is a double-edged sword. I don't like randoms. Reason being, many of them are crazy and indiscriminately approach women. I find something disingenuous about that. I think those I know which hesitate to pursue out of fear of rejection are cowards. Yet I would still find it awkward if they did pursue. I think the only way to get to know me would be to come under the friend umbrella. Even then there are no guarantees. I have male platonic friends. And I will probably only marry one brother, Insha'Allah. That will leave all those dudes (with marital intentions) in the friend zone. Nothing wrong with that, there's a sea of women out there for them.

[OliveOil]

I'm a go getter while showing the man that he needs to approach me. I never approach men. I do it subliminally, they never know what hits them and find themselves asking for my number. I make them think it is their doing, but really is mine!

[Smile-LiKe-SuN-RiSE]

It depends on how he pursues I usually don't give a chance the ones that approach me straight forward...like eff off..strike up a conversation with me or shower me with compliments ...then it's up to me if ur worthy.

[MissFiora]

I'm old fashioned ..I believe a man must do all the wooing.

[Rambie]

I'm old fashioned ..I believe a man must do all the wooing.

[Rambie]

lol

That actually makes sense.

[MujahidAishah]

Since I am now a Mujahid I can't be seen in relationship threads

I will leave it to Chelski

[GAMES]

LooL some of you guys are funny.

[salool]

The man should chase the woman .Naag nin dabo ordaysa naag bila xishood ah baan oo arka anigu.