What are you willing to over look in a marriage?

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What are you willing to over look in a marriage?

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Ok say you're single parent -probably with 2 children - And you been single for awhile.

And you met a person who is in to you - lovely personality but lacks life experience -even though they are same age or older than you but they willing to learn and compromise.

And they proposed marriage.

However - you don't find them attractive - say they have bad smile or typical Somali yellow teeth :lol:.

Now considering you are single parent (although I don't see this as a problem)but it does limit your chances finding a reliable partner.

Would you give this person a chance and accept their proposal in marriage?
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Re: What are you willing to over look in a marriage?

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If you have so many doubts and questions, you probably know the answer already.

To me it doest sound like you really want it.
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Re: What are you willing to over look in a marriage?

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poor hygine and yellow teeth is a deal breaking to me. i hope for every one too.

i would over look nationality or race , that is it!
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LooL if u are a single parent with 2 kids, u shouldn't be in a position to pick and choose.

Go for the first Farax who proposes to u.
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GAMES wrote:LooL if u are a single parent with 2 kids, u shouldn't be in a position to pick and choose.

Go for the first Farax who proposes to u.
Oi Gollum, ma naxdid. :deadrose:

Btw you're real pic and your display pic look alike. :pac:
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Re: What are you willing to over look in a marriage?

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GAMES wrote:LooL if u are a single parent with 2 kids, u shouldn't be in a position to pick and choose.

Go for the first Farax who proposes to u.
Poor decisions and rash thinking like that is what led them to marry an unsuitable person and become single parents in the first place. Repeating the same mistake os another divorce in making
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Re: What are you willing to over look in a marriage?

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Well teeth can be fixed if he go to the dentist.

Somthing els must be bothering her.
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salool wrote:Well teeth can be fixed if he go to the dentist.

Somthing els must be bothering her.

You can't ask a grown man/woman to go the dentist? If all these years they haven't -they probably like themselves that way -and expect to be accepted for it.
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Re: What are you willing to over look in a marriage?

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Games- I'm playing :lol:
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Re: What are you willing to over look in a marriage?

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Hyperactive wrote:poor hygine and yellow teeth is a deal breaking to me. i hope for every one too.

i would over look nationality or race , that is it!
Yellow Somali teeth is not due to poor hygiene though.... So not their fault.
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Re: What are you willing to over look in a marriage?

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LooL its all good Inaayah. 8-)
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Re: What are you willing to over look in a marriage?

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GAMES wrote:LooL if u are a single parent with 2 kids, u shouldn't be in a position to pick and choose.

Go for the first Farax who proposes to u.

Who told you that rubbish tho.. Carmales are in fashion especially if you got your shit together and don't need a farax.. The brothers that are out there who had a shitty 1st marriage. #TeamMaleGaroobs :lawd:
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TG the spark has to be there where you lot connect after awhile love fades but if a friendship is there you can be together forever :up:
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Re: What are you willing to over look in a marriage?

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TheFuturist wrote:
GAMES wrote:LooL if u are a single parent with 2 kids, u shouldn't be in a position to pick and choose.

Go for the first Farax who proposes to u.
Poor decisions and rash thinking like that is what led them to marry an unsuitable person and become single parents in the first place. Repeating the same mistake os another divorce in making
I agree with you on not rushing to marriage again.

But you didn't say if you would overlook it or not.
Imagine this lady was good with your children and accepted them as her own.
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Re: What are you willing to over look in a marriage?

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not their fault but i dont have to accept it. they can do some dental work too.

i know somalis do not like it...my own father doesnt want have major cusmatic dental work on him. he only agrees check ups and dental cleaning.
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