Premarital Medical Tests

MzLady · Post by **MzLady** » Wed Dec 02, 2015 8:53 pm

Ps let us NOT complicated the issue and go off topic or bring on "religious implication and the punishment"
after all that said and done, the questions i would like to asked are
1) would you asked future wife/husband "Premarital Medical Tests"
2) discuss financial matter...ie if he\she is in deb or bankruptcy
3) future expectation..ie if you both work who is going to take care kids...ie she earns more than you or vice verse will you give up work and look after the kids.

zumaale · Post by **zumaale** » Wed Dec 02, 2015 9:03 pm

You forgot to add what their boundaries are in the bedroom.

Hyperactive · Post by **Hyperactive** » Wed Dec 02, 2015 9:05 pm

MzLady wrote:Ps let us NOT complicated the issue and go off topic or bring on "religious implication and the punishment"
after all that said and done, the questions i would like to asked are
1) would you asked future wife/husband "Premarital Medical Tests"
2) discuss financial matter...ie if he\she is in deb or bankruptcy
3) future expectation..ie if you both work who is going to take care kids...ie she earns more than you or vice verse will you give up work and look after the kids.

i would encourage all those 3. this days and time divorce is very high. you need to ask all questions.

InaSamaale · Post by **InaSamaale** » Wed Dec 02, 2015 9:15 pm

I asked all but number 1. I just trusted what my husband told me/ my gut feelings.

GAMES · Post by **GAMES** » Wed Dec 02, 2015 9:18 pm

Nothing wrong asking ur future spouse to get tested for STD.

And as for who takes care of the kids, I would say both. Kids need both their parents.

Hyperactive · Post by **Hyperactive** » Wed Dec 02, 2015 9:18 pm

in doha is requirememnt before you marry now. Alhamdullilah.

Sauron · Post by **Sauron** » Wed Dec 02, 2015 9:21 pm

how will you even go about asking the first one? it must be awkward af.

the rest looks reasonable, will keep it in mind for the future insha allah.

MzLady · Post by **MzLady** » Wed Dec 02, 2015 9:27 pm

Sauron wrote:how will you even go about asking the first one? it must be awkward af.

the rest looks reasonable, will keep it in mind for the future insha allah.

it all depend on how you go about it...personally i believe straight forward honest question deserve honest answer..asked sexual history when was last time you get tested? etc

Hyperactive · Post by **Hyperactive** » Wed Dec 02, 2015 9:28 pm

you just ask medical test, for both of you. it's very important for women to ask too cause mostly muslim men who play around. she has more to loose.

GAMES · Post by **GAMES** » Wed Dec 02, 2015 9:31 pm

Hyperactive wrote:in doha is requirememnt before you marry now. Alhamdullilah.

Both people have to get tested? Wow, that's interesting. Could you refuse and say no?

Hyperactive · Post by **Hyperactive** » Wed Dec 02, 2015 9:34 pm

yes both brother if they want to register their marriage. well, it was an option for couple years but encouraged but since they get marriage allowance now it's "most" any one under 35.

GAMES · Post by **GAMES** » Wed Dec 02, 2015 9:37 pm

That's really crazy sxb. But i do understand why they do it, they don't want diseases spreading.

They should come out with virginity tests also.

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