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Fella's, At What Point Do You Quit?

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All the real niggas get it in here. I need some advice bros. What do you do when a xalimo wastes your time? What I mean by this is that she'll act up and freeze me out so I'll retaliate by cutting her off but then she'll talk to me like a month later as if nothing happened. She's average looking (amazing body though) and pretty smart. She's the hot-blooded sarcastic ball busting type which I have to admit I do like. I actually wouldn't mind wifing her up. The thing is, one minute she's fawning over me then suddenly she'll freeze me out. What's with the manipulative games and mental gymnastics? What gives?


This is a typical convo I had with her recently and mind you, this is what I consider a good night.


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She's always the one to sever contact with me randomly but she's always the one who initiates it again. What game is she playing? I think she's crazy. This is why most Somali girls remain single. The way I see it is that there is a difference between playing hard to get and just wasting people's time. Should I just tell her to fuck off? If you were in my position, would you walk?
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strange...I know someone like that lol....and no before you jump into conclusion she isn't from snet.


ask her if she is serious about it or not......all that is just :-@ :-@ :-@
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^^

Bro, she's done my head in. Is this perhaps her way of locking me down? Or maybe she's got another dude on the side?
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she is playing mind games nd she is probably talking to another nigga but she doesnt wannna let you go because she hasnt made up her mind yet :notsure: i say ditch her asap :eat:
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:deadrose:

You're her go to guy when she's bored.
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U seem similar.Nether of you wants to show any weakness.And end up in this mess.

Either be upfront and ask the questions you have if you want a future with you.It might set you free.

Mind games i can never do.
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:roll: From the exchange of texts--I surmised that u r obese, and your 'big girl' friend is --well..... :? big boned. It seems like both of ya, are playing games. She wants you to be serious about her, and vice versa. Nothing out of the ordinary relationship between boy and girl. Same ol' tired trend of girl wants boy to return emotions. Its not complicated at all. :eat:
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BlueLion wrote:she is playing mind games nd she is probably talking to another nigga but she doesnt wannna let you go because she hasnt made her mind up :notsure: i say ditch asap :eat:

Bro, I met her family. I'm the first guy she's ever dated (I hope). She's 19 and she's the sarcastic introvert type who keep to themselves. She barely has girlfriends and only hangs with her sister. If she has a nigga on the side, then that'll explain things. But I dunno man, I doubt that.
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Tuushi wrote:U seem similar.Nether of you wants to show any weakness.And end up in this mess.

Either be upfront and ask the questions you have if you want a future with you.It might set you free.

Mind games i can never do.

This guy gets it. :myman: It's a constant battle with her. If I offer to drive her home, she'll look at me like a retard and take public transport instead. I want her to submit, whereas she wants me to submit, which causes us to clash all the time.
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Basra- wrote::roll: From the exchange of texts--I surmised that u r obese, and your 'big girl' friend is --well..... :? big boned. It seems like both of ya, are playing games. She wants you to be serious about her, and vice versa. Nothing out of the ordinary relationship between boy and girl. Same ol' tired trend of girl wants boy to return emotions. Its not complicated at all. :eat:
Basra, I actually missed you. :lol:

But no. She knows I want her - like I said I probably might even marry her - but she's always pushing me away or trying to pull me in again.
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Girls don't drop a guy they REALLY like at the drop of a hat. Period.

When a girl does that, she really ain't that into you and the only reason why she disappears and comes bk is because you are good for her ego.
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Phinks wrote:
Tuushi wrote:U seem similar.Nether of you wants to show any weakness.And end up in this mess.

Either be upfront and ask the questions you have if you want a future with you.It might set you free.

Mind games i can never do.

This guy gets it. :myman: It's a constant battle with her. If I offer to drive her home, she'll look at me like a retard and take public transport instead. I want her to submit, whereas she wants me to submit, which causes us to clash all the time.

:ehh:


:lol:
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Inaayah8 wrote:Girls don't drop a guy they REALLY like at the drop of a hat. Period.

When a girl does that, she really ain't that into you and the only reason why she disappears and comes bk is because you are good for her ego.

No. I don't give her that satisfaction. I'm well aware of the friend zone and trust me, I'm no pushover. I'm also very detached with her as you can tell from the texts. And besides, at one point she said she "loved" me. Whatever the fuck that means.
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Re: Fella's, At What Point Do You Quit?

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When you have tried your best and it all fails. :sadcam:
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GubanOgoJSL wrote:When you have tried your best and it all fails. :sadcam:
Bro, can you blame a nigga for trying? :broken:
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But If she truly wanted another nigga, why did she always start with the sexual shit? :lupe:

Edit: fuck it. I give up. Bitch is gonna give me a bidaar. :lol:
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