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I was reminded today of the very prime reason you see record divorce rates around the world, it all boils down the brutal betaization of men and their pathetic inability to overcome it

For those of you that don’t know, betaization is the slow process by which a women transforms a somewhat Alpha male into a weak needy Beta male; this is not done out of any malice on the women part in most cases, but it’s part of their natural biological makeup, a defence mechanism against the spineless and weak, in the past there was fierce competition for the strongest most savage male in the tribe, because on a biological level, only he is able to protect and guard the progeny from all possible threats that lurk, not one bit has changed since.

This brings me to the pathetic state of affairs today, from the humiliating bended knee beggary of the cadaan when proposing, to the Somali equivalent of eating crackers and noodles for a year were he is shamefully and forcefully told to handover several thousand dollars for marriage which favours the women 10x more then himself, yet the beta cuckold after putting himself into such a submissive beggary state selling his manhood down the gutters, wonders why she so keen to divorce him soon after?

Even worse are those currently saving up for this farce not even learning the countless lessons before, I know of a guy selling his prized assets for this, you go to a young couple’s house and you see constant bickering, you turn up at event and you’ll see hordes of beta male salivating stuck to the wall cowardly gazing like dogs, were ever you go there is a desperate effeminate focker pouring his heart out to a women somewhere only to be rejected shortly after, WTF happened?

I spent some in Hobyo, divorce only ever happened when the women is no longer reproductive, the man never argued back, when the women goes a bit crazy, she is left alone with some pot of milk and dry bread, the husband only returns once her madness has subsided which happens very fast as you would imagine, just like a lioness she raises the cubs all by herself and keeps popping them out happy and very content

Yet our equivalent men are bending over backwards as far as they possibly can, from doing the dishes, to cooking, to being forced to handover several thousand’s for all kinds of non beneficial ceremonial crap like weddings, thinking that this is the only way to salvation and eternal bliss yet the divorce rates keep going UP

I am reminded by this Frederick Douglass quote
"I prayed for twenty years but received no answer until I prayed with my legs"

Economics is a major reason in the West the women are unfairly empowered and the man is emasculated by the system and the dregeray of the mind numbing worthless work where no progress can be made. Most men just get tired of climbing and falling and climbing again, either they give up or they go postal on the women and butcher them or fuckk up the system, either way an alpha male is doomed.

In my opinion the sissy husband survive this rigged game and accept what ever the black widow he is married to demands to the point of dayuusnimo, that's why most of the kids from the Diaspora are either crazed promiscuous female or a gangsta wanna be mindless ape.

I agree 100% saxiib.

Women are just as smart as men, but they see the world through an emotional cloud, everything they do is connected to how they feel. The funniest thing you can observe is a woman in a male dominated environment. They usually wear revealing clothes as a resort to control the men around them with their sexuality, and the other type is a sort of "you go girl" feminist type that thinks she can do anything a man can do. Once one such girl was asking all of us males at work how many pull ups we could do, as in a way to see if the myth (in her head no doubt), that men are naturally stronger is true. She then proceeded to tell me that she managed 6 pull ups after 1 year of solid training, I just laughed and told her that I did 6 pull ups on my first ever attempt at the manoeuvre, to her obvious shock .

They all want a man who acts like a man, and yet like to hate on real men in an attempt to take away his confidence and manhood. Ironically real men don't give a shit, they don't change no matter what she tries. Obviously she will threaten to leave, but if that was a bluff, it certainly is not when she does leave the minute he turns into a beta pansy.

X.Playa wrote:Economics is a major reason in the West the women are unfairly empowered and the man is emasculated by the system and the dregeray of the mind numbing worthless work where no progress can be made. Most men just get tired of climbing and falling and climbing again, either they give up or they go postal on the women and butcher them or fuckk up the system, either way an alpha male is doomed

The odds will always be heavily in our favour, the market value of a women will never reach any lofty status due to ultra rapid depreciation on their assets, that's why you see them in absolute desperation in their late 20's willing to settle down with anything, which contributes greatly to the divorce rate of course, punishment for the neglect during her prime fertile years, if she is not desperate at that age, she is likely a road worn women lost in whoredom, perfect way to effortlessly screen them out.

I had several good women whom I told point blank NO WEDDING! and refuse to pay for anything other then walimah and reasonable Mehr, most man will be totally bewildered by that statement due to betaization for them having reached a chronic status, most of those women never tried to rebut after I put my foot down, for those very few that did, I asked them point blank "what they brought to the table?", which was followed by a deafening silence, shortly after they would go to war with their primitive parents for a simple marriage fighting tooth and nail for it, before family civil war erupted, I bailed out as I don't want such degenerate parents as my kin, the other times I got cold feet last minute

Most of these women as you would imagine got since married by beta'z whom spent fortune only to be told to "divorce me" soon after, I am not surprised, they are biological repulsed by such spineless cretins even more so then I am, I never had a single argument with them, not even a silent mutter or groan, I respect and don't provoke anyone, but if I see the slightest change of tonality without verbalizing, I'll make sure she pays for it dearly, in most cases she is dumped, I have done a fantastic job for the next guy that will pick her up, doing my bit to make society better.

In my opinion the sissy husband survive this rigged game and accept what ever the black widow he is married to demands to the point of dayuusnimo, that's why most of the kids from the Diaspora are either crazed promiscuous female or a gangsta wanna be mindless ape.

I disagree, they suffer the greatest, the wife''s are in Shiisha places late at night mostly cuckold, it only appears rigged if your unable to screen out the useless very fast, I struggled with this at a young age which lead to a few frustrations with lunatics, but you get better to the point were in most cases just a glance is enough to screen those freaks out.

Gaashaanle1000 wrote:I
They all want a man who acts like a man, and yet like to hate on real men in an attempt to take away his confidence and manhood. Ironically real men don't give a shit, they don't change no matter what she tries

Sxb this is a evolutionary biological instinct which she has no control over, it's done totally unconsciously unknown to her, it serves a great purpose which is to test for genuine alpha traits, in the past her survival as well as that of her progeny depended on these very crucial traits, hence this is a mechanism to weed out the pretenders, the conman whom all come under the umbrella of "beta".

Don't blame or hate them for it, they are not even concious of it, it's a protection mechanism, you have nothing to worry about unless you really are a beta male.

Pls tell me ur not advocating for men to prove their masculinity by power playing and leaving the mother to raise kids alone.

It is not a battle. Life is what you make of it.

Men controlling women in poverty is not something to strive for. As a human, you can do better.

Who run the world?

Tuushi wrote:Pls tell me ur not advocating for men to prove their masculinity by power playing and leaving the mother to raise kids alone.
It is not a battle. Life is what you make of it.
Men controlling women in poverty is not something to strive for. As a human, you can do better.

Power playing is beta, they are raising kids in both Somalia and here, the only difference is they have a husband there and are single here, the question is why, once we agree on the prime reason, only then can we formulate solutions.

welfare and social housing. take away those 2 and you will see almost nil divorce rates as she would be 100% dependent on him. these days, man is just a walking dic.k who can be replaced.