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By: Imam Ibn ul Qayyim al Jawziyyah

'Unlawful desires are usually associated with ugliness. They leave behind a lingering sensation of pain and guilt. Hence, whenever you are tempted, think about liberating yourself. Think about all the remorse that would accompany the realisation of those desires, and then make up your mind. Struggling your way through obedience is not an easy task. It is, however, associated with goodness and soothing pleasures. Whenever you overburden yourself (with unlawful desires) think about how nice it would be to repent and set yourself free. Think about the pleasures that lawful desires will provide and try to make the correct choice. The dilemma you will experience should be reduced by remembering the sweet pleasure and the ultimate happiness that your obedience (to Allah) will provide. Also make your struggle less of one by picturing the punishment that follows disobedience to Allah. Logically your mind should opt for the more rewarding option and help you to endure the pain of denying yourself the realisation of such desires.'

Proud
I have slept with over one hundred women, and I have suffered no pain, and no guilt. The theory isn't working.

mac

i have never seen proudie disrupt or disrespect any of your threads. DO u mind giving her the same respect?


proudie

jazakallahu khairan. sis . shouldn't you be back by now ? get back to work.kidding

Jazaaka Allahu Kheyr sister.

I see the kaafir is trying to seek attention just ignore it.

Barak Allahu feeke sister in islam

The only people who feel guilt are the people who know what they have done is wrong, promiscuity is disgusting whether you believe in Islam or not.

J/k sister