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Most of you know I had my first date recently, and it looks like that relationship has ended.

I'm currently inbetween phones (dropped my smartphone) so I'm carrying an old nokia dumbphone. I send her texts but she never replied. Today I received a text from her

"I still haven't heard from you. Abdi, I don't play games and I don't like them being played with me. Just know that at this point, I'm just sorry I gave you a chance. Im dissappointed"

I replied to her, "What texts, I texted you and didn't receive any replies"

Then she flooded me with all the texts I didn't receive (this is what u get for having a dumbphone). Some about work ( shes an ex-colleague) and then this one

"Now about us.... I dont know what's going on there. When we met up I know it didn't go as well as either of us would have liked and I don't have any bad feelings towards you. However as my friend I think we need to sit and have a conversation about it... let me know x"

So I replied to her, after a lot of deliberation and soulsearching

"I've received them now. Its good u asked cause honestly I dont know what I want. I do know I like being around u if u want something serious maybe im not that person. I would love to see u again and have fun x"

As I'm writing this thread shes reponded with

"Thank you for being honest. Im not looking for something serious at the mo, but I know I don't want something that potentially end up that way. I don't really like the casual thing. I'd like to be able to say Im dating someone and were taking our time and seeing where it can go. But its ok if thats not what you want. We can still hang out. I don't mind that, thats if youd want to x"

I'm confused by this one. Can someon explain what the hell she wants before I reply.

I think she's made a typo in the last text and was meant to say "I DO want something that potentially end up that way"

Correct me if im wrong.

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thehappyone wrote:Most of you know I had my first date recently, and it looks like that relationship has ended.

I'm currently inbetween phones (dropped my smartphone) so I'm carrying an old nokia dumbphone. I send her texts but she never replied. Today I received a text from her

"I still haven't heard from you. Abdi, I don't play games and I don't like them being played with me. Just know that at this point, I'm just sorry I gave you a chance. Im dissappointed"

I replied to her, "What texts, I texted you and didn't receive any replies"

Then she flooded me with all the texts I didn't receive (this is what u get for having a dumbphone). Some about work ( shes an ex-colleague) and then this one

"Now about us.... I dont know what's going on there. When we met up I know it didn't go as well as either of us would have liked and I don't have any bad feelings towards you. However as my friend I think we need to sit and have a conversation about it... let me know x"

So I replied to her, after a lot of deliberation and soulsearching

"I've received them now. Its good u asked cause honestly I dont know what I want. I do know I like being around u if u want something serious maybe im not that person. I would love to see u again and have fun x"

As I'm writing this thread shes reponded with

"Thank you for being honest. Im not looking for something serious at the mo, but I know I don't want something that potentially end up that way. I don't really like the casual thing. I'd like to be able to say Im dating someone and were taking our time and seeing where it can go. But its ok if thats not what you want. We can still hang out. I don't mind that, thats if youd want to x"

I'm confused by this one. Can someon explain what the hell she wants before I reply.

She doesn't want a serious relationship with you however she wants to date only you and sleep only with you, in other words she wants you to be fuckbuddies ( excuse my French)

You're maskin guy. Girls never go for that type.

You have to lie your way to her ceeb at least squeeze that booty and have her against a hard cold wall.

Give her a fake amaan but nothing cheesy and desperado.

Few times drag her in the mud and send her home without nigis.


Fake date and text.

Naag wants someone that helps her escape to a parallel world and some action.

You can never keep up with their text. Naago type 3576 words per minute.

Feminized manwhore.

Huuno apply for take me out

Susu000 wrote:
She doesn't want a serious relationship with you however she wants to date only you and sleep only with you, in other words she wants you to be fuckbuddies ( excuse my French)

This girl comes from a good christian family so I think she wants to be fuckbuddies but have something to tell her family. It makes sense.

AwRastaale wrote:You're maskin guy. Girls never go for that type.

You have to lie your way to her ceeb at least squeeze that booty and have her against a hard cold wall.

Give her a fake amaan but nothing cheesy and desperado.

Few times drag her in the mud and send her home without nigis.


Fake date and text.

Naag wants someone that helps her escape to a parallel world and some action.

You can never keep up with their text. Naago type 3576 words per minute.

She was drinking desperado on our date, and I thought "is she trying to give me a hint"

MujahidAishah wrote:Huuno apply for take me out

Will you stop putting yourself down.. girls and all that are a headache try being introduce to a girl thru family like a cousin of your cousin sort of thing

MujahidAishah wrote:Will you stop putting yourself down.. girls and all that are a headache try being introduce to a girl thru family like a cousin of your cousin sort of thing

I replied "I dont want to stop you from seeing other people. This weekend im working but ill treat u next weekend if ur available"


I'm not going to bore u with what she replied cause shes giving me a headache, but Ill tell u this. This weekend im not working. My little cousin who I haven't seen in a long while visit us last week. She isn't little anymore! She's 18, and that means she got 18 year old friends! Im taking her out this friday to the movies.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Tz6OUIjtM6E

TheHappyOne,

What made you want to start dating at your age? Gabartaan luugooyo haku ridin & take Aisha's suggestion.

Break ups suck get some ice cream and eat your feelings also cry a little and by tomorrow, you'll be as right as rain. You can thank me later. Lol

Bro aint you like 28 or so?

Your game is extremely poor. If you where 17 i'd understand.

Amira143 wrote:Break ups suck get some ice cream and eat your feelings also cry a little and by tomorrow, you'll be as right as rain. You can thank me later. Lol

heartbreak over a failed one night stand its not that deep

Warsheekh wrote:Bro aint you like 28 or so?

Your game is extremely poor. If you where 17 i'd understand.

every year I seem to get worse, 40 year old virgin soon

InaSamaale wrote:TheHappyOne,

What made you want to start dating at your age? Gabartaan luugooyo haku ridin & take Aisha's suggestion.

I'm working on aisha's suggestion sxb, but in the mean time I need to get laid