Advice needed (guys only)

[TheFuturist]

If you had to choose between two women, which would you choose and why? If your mind says 2 and your heart says 1.

1. Pros: lively and vivacious. A bit curvy but still sexy. Genuine nice person with good sense of humour. Wears heart on sleave. Cons: not the sharpest knife in the drawer, could be more ambitious, will probably become obese after kids.

2. Pros: intelligent, articulate, ambitious (has $$$) and a classic thin Somali beauty i.e. Iman. Cons: dry sense of humour, a bit on the thin side, is cunning and definitely not an open book.

I now understand why polygyny exists. It avoids situations like this

[JSL3000]

Yes, keep both and keep them separate from each other.

[TheFuturist]

Yes, keep both and keep them separate from each other.

Tnx sxb but thats not an option. U gotta make a choice n explain why

[AwRastaale]

You should keep both of them.

But in the end always choose the one with bigger booty.

Bootyweyne is like Somaliweyn. It will surprise you when you least expected.

[Thuganomics]

Number 1,why you ask?
The phrase "genuinely nice person" did it for me
I can't stand people that you have to tread carefully around.As for whether or not she balloons after a couple of births.That could also happen to number 2 as well as any other type of woman

[GAMES]

Choose #2. She is intelligent, articulate and most important of all, has money. So what if she has no sense of humor and doesn't wear her heart on sleave?

If your ultimate goal is to get married and have kids, than go with #2. She would be a good role model for her kids.

[JSL3000]

I was wondering why you said guys only on this thread, you don't want to hear the female perspective.

[CigaalSHiiDaaDCFC]

non of them is religious or at least practicing?

[JSL3000]

I thought one was white the other black with a juicy booty.

[GAMES]

I thought one was white the other black with a juicy booty.

Dumbass, he said it right on the first post that one was curvy and the other one on the skinny side.

[JSL3000]

I thought one was white the other black with a juicy booty.

Dumbass, he said it right on the first post that one was curvy and the other one on the skinny side.

I know I'm just messing around.

[FarhanYare]

Pick whichever you like the most.

[BVSNet]

Men...


I don't know what evidence you have to have reached your conclusions but people aren't always what they appear to be. The harshest, most intimidating seeming individuals are usually the more compassionate and vulnerable people when you get to know them and the softer, even vulnerable appearing, less intimidating ones may be the stronger and oddly less compassionate.


Making these types of decisions is what you have sisters for. Females can smell each other out.

[InaSamaale]

Men...


I don't know what evidence you have to have reached your conclusions but people aren't always what they appear to be. The harshest, most intimidating seeming individuals are usually the more compassionate and vulnerable people when you get to know them and the softer, even vulnerable appearing, less intimidating ones may be the stronger and oddly less compassionate.


Making these types of decisions is what you have sisters for. Females can smell each other out.

I concur. Plus any girl that wears her heart on her sleeve to a guy she isn't married to is setting herself up for trouble & heartache.

[ihatewritingessays]

I am a believer that married women are a reflection of thier men (not absolutely, but in many aspects). If he makes her feel cherished, she will flourish. If he supports her, she will acheive great heights.

Obviously its important to pick someone good for you, but i'm talking about maintaining a relationship long-term. It is possible that you can get with and ambitious career-oreinted woman then u get her pregnant & she eventually gets complacent in life, & forget about her ambitions.
I hope I'm making sense.