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How to Avoid the temptation of talking to women

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As you all know, I am not in a financial position to get married now ( only $1500) in my account now. I have been trying to talk to women on Facebook or real-life to avoid being aroused by their voice. Once in a while, I fall weak and start talking to them. I remember myself and delete my fb messenger and also log out from my fb. I get bored again and go bk. What can I do to avoid taking to them. Hyper, what do you do?
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lol Sumu, it's simple, if you are not ready for marriage do not waste your time and theres plus the dambi.

when I was in the university, there was this guy who was, from outside normal person, not too religious. this girl, just went crazy about him. her and her friends every day they go to his work for stupid excuses and ask him ride for no reason. Any ways, they thought he never understood. girl said I am graduating if he never talk to me or ask my number, it's done.

he knew but he wasn't ready to open any topic. after the graduation, he just went to her house with family to ask her hand.

she was shocked and so happy.

so, just be strong and do not let those foodley to drag you into fitnah. my sisters always want to hook me up with their friends , give my numbers and garsaro calls and strange text. still I am not ready man. 3eyaal sooqnimo isn't in my blood.
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Hyper strokes his le chat
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There is a miracle cure for this type of malady. It is called malmal, and it does wonders from what I gather. Give it a try!
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You are aroused by women's voice? Ala dhib badana, how do you go to the shops? How do you get anything done?

:lol: it's like you are a dehydrated man in the ice desert. Ilahey ha kuu sahlo
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aroused by voice? :wtf: :wtf:

fking troll lol
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Hyperactive wrote:lol Sumu, it's simple, if you are not ready for marriage do not waste your time and theres plus the dambi.

when I was in the university, there was this guy who was, from outside normal person, not too religious. this girl, just went crazy about him. her and her friends every day they go to his work for stupid excuses and ask him ride for no reason. Any ways, they thought he never understood. girl said I am graduating if he never talk to me or ask my number, it's done.

he knew but he wasn't ready to open any topic. after the graduation, he just went to her house with family to ask her hand.

she was shocked and so happy.

so, just be strong and do not let those foodley to drag you into fitnah. my sisters always want to hook me up with their friends , give my numbers and garsaro calls and strange text. still I am not ready man. 3eyaal sooqnimo isn't in my blood.
Thanks bro. I have adopted to a maasha allaah routine which makes me avoids them since I go the masjid and a maqlaayad near the masjid which is abnormal to talk to girls. Facebook is the problem. I like it to read messages and funny stories but there are the girls. I also interact with sheikhs etc. girls are fitnah and talking to them will create more sexual desire with no money for marriage.
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barbarossa wrote:There is a miracle cure for this type of malady. It is called malmal, and it does wonders from what I gather. Give it a try!
Malmal makes you completely numb and you will never have a desire again. It's dangerous
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Sauron wrote:aroused by voice? :wtf: :wtf:

fking troll lol
Haa. Men are aroused by seeing, hearing, touching and even smelling a woman. All those arouses me koleey.
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BVSNet wrote:You are aroused by women's voice? Ala dhib badana, how do you go to the shops? How do you get anything done?

:lol: it's like you are a dehydrated man in the ice desert. Ilahey ha kuu sahlo
Saas maaha. I am talking about shukaansi voice. Like a soft aboowe Seetahay in your ears through a phone. Yes that arouses me. Not just any random voice of women picking their kids from dugsi.
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Re: How to Avoid the temptation of talking to women

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Dude, are you eligible for a loan? Able to borrow money from someone? and buy a coffee or a kebab stand...something. Unless you improvise, you're going to be perpetually broke.
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Sumubaridi wrote:
BVSNet wrote:You are aroused by women's voice? Ala dhib badana, how do you go to the shops? How do you get anything done?

:lol: it's like you are a dehydrated man in the ice desert. Ilahey ha kuu sahlo
Saas maaha. I am talking about shukaansi voice. Like a soft aboowe Seetahay in your ears through a phone. Yes that arouses me. Not just any random voice of women picking their kids from dugsi.
Haye aboowe macaan ;)


:lol: You need to exercise more sidaan si maaha
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Re: How to Avoid the temptation of talking to women

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also the aroused things, ninyaho iska soom. why the hack you are aroused for some one not your wife or to be wife?

ma naag o idil ba arouse ko sameysa!! just block your self from anything haram or potential haram.
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This guy never surpasses 1500.
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Re: How to Avoid the temptation of talking to women

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Sumubaridi wrote:avoid being aroused by their voice.
:lol: :lol: :down:
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