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How does someone overcome rape trauma and shock

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I know this girl that was sexually molested in baadiyo repeatedly at the age of 8 by her 2nd cousin. He had a knife and threatened to slaughter her if she say something. He did it for 2 months. She is now 30 and reacts negatively to men touch. She got married 2 years ago and she get hurt and angry when her husband tries to approach her for galmo. She has asked for divorce after 40 days of suffering. She hates all men touch. She wants to get married and have kids but does not know how to overcome it. Anyone with any knowledge on this? It's not my area of expertise.
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Re: How does someone overcome rape trauma and shock

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And she confided in you?
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Yes, her cure is a man with lots of money. Who can make her happy every time with his generous gifts. If that's not helping, she needs an other course of repeated rape, ilaa ay saaxiga keenayso. Wa billahi tawfiiq ilaahaw aqoon darro hanagu cadaabi.
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Re: How does someone overcome rape trauma and shock

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Yuusuf, kufsashadu goormay kaftan noqotay...walaasha ma jeclaan laheyd inu ninkeedo kufsado.Acuudubilaah!


As for the topic, No comment.
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Re: How does someone overcome rape trauma and shock

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Inaayah wrote:And she confided in you?
:pac: exactly.
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Re: How does someone overcome rape trauma and shock

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If this is true, I have nothing else to say but allaha u gargaaro.
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Re: How does someone overcome rape trauma and shock

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she needs to see a therapist.
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Re: How does someone overcome rape trauma and shock

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Hyper has experience in this matter, the advice is sound. :up:



I would recommend her to get serious long therapy, and also a lot of Quran. Let her get a wadaad for a husband. Wadaads have low energy,and like to have sex in the dark room with amazing slow pace, maybe that's more tolerable, than the usual energetic farah who has horny eyes, chasing towards u, and a stick so hard, wanting to poke u any where he gets. disgusting. :eat:
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Re: How does someone overcome rape trauma and shock

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Basra- wrote:Hyper has experience in this matter, the advice is sound. :up:



I would recommend her to get serious long therapy, and also a lot of Quran. Let her get a wadaad for a husband. Wadaads have low energy,and like to have sex in the dark room with amazing slow pace, maybe that's more tolerable, than the usual energetic farah who has horny eyes, chasing towards u, and a stick so hard, wanting to poke u any where he gets. disgusting. :eat:
Disgusting, says she! Quit lying to yourself, Basra. Everybody here knows, there is nothing in this world you desire more than being 'poked' in the right orifices.
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