Heey married Xaliimos, do you beat up or have you ever beaten up your husband?
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Heey married Xaliimos, do you beat up or have you ever beaten up your husband?
I know I am asking you for what may be a profound personal details of your life but so that we may learn from each other's experiences and become improved, could you please share it ? (If it is not a trouble)
Thanks in advance.
Thanks in advance.
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Re: Heey married Xaliimos, do you beat up or have you ever beaten up your husband?
Its not like daily beating but every wife has threw few things at her husband once or twice. Its just normal when women are emotionally high specially during monthly period. I had my few glass throw and few phone smach
but I am good at dodging so none hit me.

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Re: Heey married Xaliimos, do you beat up or have you ever beaten up your husband?
No I am not abuser nor do I want to be abused. Hadaan la is fahmayn faataxadaa la isku maraa.
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Re: Heey married Xaliimos, do you beat up or have you ever beaten up your husband?
Lo'da adiga horta waligaa gacanta miyaa lagu saaray? DV towards men is pretty common too...
I second what Vivacious said.
I second what Vivacious said.

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Re: Heey married Xaliimos, do you beat up or have you ever beaten up your husband?
SummuSumubaridi wrote:Its not like daily beating but every wife has threw few things at her husband once or twice. Its just normal when women are emotionally high specially during monthly period. I had my few glass throw and few phone smachbut I am good at dodging so none hit me.
Ina Adeer, first, don't generalise, I'm married for 10 + years and never have I or she threw anything at each other. Secondly, your perception of menstruating women as angry, violent and intolerant is way off the mark. You need to change your mindset if you want your third marriage to succeed.
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Re: Heey married Xaliimos, do you beat up or have you ever beaten up your husband?
Periods hmmmm. I guess it depends on the woman.Machiavelli2 wrote:SummuSumubaridi wrote:Its not like daily beating but every wife has threw few things at her husband once or twice. Its just normal when women are emotionally high specially during monthly period. I had my few glass throw and few phone smachbut I am good at dodging so none hit me.
Ina Adeer, first, don't generalise, I'm married for 10 + years and never have I or she threw anything at each other. Secondly, your perception of menstruating women as angry, violent and intolerant is way off the mark. You need to change your mindset if you want your third marriage to succeed.
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Re: Heey married Xaliimos, do you beat up or have you ever beaten up your husband?
Huuno hitting in a marriage is not rightLoDoon wrote:I know I am asking you for what may be a profound personal details of your life but so that we may learn from each other's experiences and become improved, could you please share it ? (If it is not a trouble)
Thanks in advance.

I'll help you call the RSPCA ...
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Re: Heey married Xaliimos, do you beat up or have you ever beaten up your husband?
LOL @ RSPCA..... I am not a battered DibiMujahidAishah wrote:Huuno hitting in a marriage is not rightLoDoon wrote:I know I am asking you for what may be a profound personal details of your life but so that we may learn from each other's experiences and become improved, could you please share it ? (If it is not a trouble)
Thanks in advance.
I'll help you call the RSPCA ...
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Re: Heey married Xaliimos, do you beat up or have you ever beaten up your husband?
Is this a legit question? Bisinka
Re: Heey married Xaliimos, do you beat up or have you ever beaten up your husband?
I learned in SNET when they say beating, it does not hitting or assaulting; they mean shaqada qaranka. I said the same thing you said here in another thread, and I was ridiculed and people thought it is funny. So the question is loaded: Every time you see the word "beat up", they mean shaqada qaranka.zulaika wrote:Is this a legit question? Bisinka
On my end, I found people discussing shaqada qaranka between married people weird. If there wasn't shaqada qaranka in shaqada qaranka, there wouldn't be a marriage.
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Re: Heey married Xaliimos, do you beat up or have you ever beaten up your husband?
Really? Lol my goodnessgegiroor wrote:I learned in SNET when they say beating, it does not hitting or assaulting; they mean shaqada qaranka. I said the same thing you said here in another thread, and I was ridiculed and people thought it is funny. So the question is loaded: Every time you see the word "beat up", they mean shaqada qaranka.zulaika wrote:Is this a legit question? Bisinka
On my end, I found people discussing shaqada qaranka between married people weird. If there wasn't shaqada qaranka in shaqada qaranka, there wouldn't be a marriage.
Re: Heey married Xaliimos, do you beat up or have you ever beaten up your husband?
it part of the tradition for the husband to beat the wife as a sign of ownership.
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Re: Heey married Xaliimos, do you beat up or have you ever beaten up your husband?
Xoolo miyaaAirBitaale wrote:^^ A sign of what?

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Re: Heey married Xaliimos, do you beat up or have you ever beaten up your husband?
That's 4 da xawayaan mate - not humans.MujahidAishah wrote:Huuno hitting in a marriage is not rightLoDoon wrote:I know I am asking you for what may be a profound personal details of your life but so that we may learn from each other's experiences and become improved, could you please share it ? (If it is not a trouble)
Thanks in advance.
I'll help you call the RSPCA ...

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