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Heey married Xaliimos, do you beat up or have you ever beaten up your husband?
Posted: Wed Apr 20, 2016 9:20 am
by TheLoFather
I know I am asking you for what may be a profound personal details of your life but so that we may learn from each other's experiences and become improved, could you please share it ? (If it is not a trouble)
Thanks in advance.
Re: Heey married Xaliimos, do you beat up or have you ever beaten up your husband?
Posted: Wed Apr 20, 2016 10:17 am
by Sumubaridi
Its not like daily beating but every wife has threw few things at her husband once or twice. Its just normal when women are emotionally high specially during monthly period. I had my few glass throw and few phone smach
but I am good at dodging so none hit me.
Re: Heey married Xaliimos, do you beat up or have you ever beaten up your husband?
Posted: Wed Apr 20, 2016 10:24 am
by Vivacious
No I am not abuser nor do I want to be abused. Hadaan la is fahmayn faataxadaa la isku maraa.
Re: Heey married Xaliimos, do you beat up or have you ever beaten up your husband?
Posted: Wed Apr 20, 2016 6:42 pm
by InaSamaale
Lo'da adiga horta waligaa gacanta miyaa lagu saaray? DV towards men is pretty common too...
I second what Vivacious said.
Re: Heey married Xaliimos, do you beat up or have you ever beaten up your husband?
Posted: Wed Apr 20, 2016 7:46 pm
by Machiavelli2
Sumubaridi wrote:Its not like daily beating but every wife has threw few things at her husband once or twice. Its just normal when women are emotionally high specially during monthly period. I had my few glass throw and few phone smach
but I am good at dodging so none hit me.
Summu
Ina Adeer, first, don't generalise, I'm married for 10 + years and never have I or she threw anything at each other. Secondly, your perception of menstruating women as angry, violent and intolerant is way off the mark. You need to change your mindset if you want your third marriage to succeed.
Re: Heey married Xaliimos, do you beat up or have you ever beaten up your husband?
Posted: Wed Apr 20, 2016 9:57 pm
by lifeisbloodyhard
Machiavelli2 wrote:Sumubaridi wrote:Its not like daily beating but every wife has threw few things at her husband once or twice. Its just normal when women are emotionally high specially during monthly period. I had my few glass throw and few phone smach
but I am good at dodging so none hit me.
Summu
Ina Adeer, first, don't generalise, I'm married for 10 + years and never have I or she threw anything at each other. Secondly, your perception of menstruating women as angry, violent and intolerant is way off the mark. You need to change your mindset if you want your third marriage to succeed.
Periods hmmmm. I guess it depends on the woman.
Re: Heey married Xaliimos, do you beat up or have you ever beaten up your husband?
Posted: Wed Apr 20, 2016 10:15 pm
by MujahidAishah
LoDoon wrote:I know I am asking you for what may be a profound personal details of your life but so that we may learn from each other's experiences and become improved, could you please share it ? (If it is not a trouble)
Thanks in advance.
Huuno hitting in a marriage is not right
I'll help you call the RSPCA ...
Re: Heey married Xaliimos, do you beat up or have you ever beaten up your husband?
Posted: Thu Apr 21, 2016 6:56 am
by TheLoFather
MujahidAishah wrote:LoDoon wrote:I know I am asking you for what may be a profound personal details of your life but so that we may learn from each other's experiences and become improved, could you please share it ? (If it is not a trouble)
Thanks in advance.
Huuno hitting in a marriage is not right
I'll help you call the RSPCA ...
LOL @ RSPCA..... I am not a battered Dibi
Re: Heey married Xaliimos, do you beat up or have you ever beaten up your husband?
Posted: Sat Apr 23, 2016 12:13 am
by zulaika
Is this a legit question? Bisinka
Re: Heey married Xaliimos, do you beat up or have you ever beaten up your husband?
Posted: Sat Apr 23, 2016 4:33 am
by gegiroor
zulaika wrote:Is this a legit question? Bisinka
I learned in SNET when they say beating, it does not hitting or assaulting; they mean shaqada qaranka. I said the same thing you said here in another thread, and I was ridiculed and people thought it is funny. So the question is loaded: Every time you see the word "beat up", they mean shaqada qaranka.
On my end, I found people discussing shaqada qaranka between married people weird. If there wasn't shaqada qaranka in shaqada qaranka, there wouldn't be a marriage.
Re: Heey married Xaliimos, do you beat up or have you ever beaten up your husband?
Posted: Sat Apr 23, 2016 8:27 pm
by zulaika
gegiroor wrote:zulaika wrote:Is this a legit question? Bisinka
I learned in SNET when they say beating, it does not hitting or assaulting; they mean shaqada qaranka. I said the same thing you said here in another thread, and I was ridiculed and people thought it is funny. So the question is loaded: Every time you see the word "beat up", they mean shaqada qaranka.
On my end, I found people discussing shaqada qaranka between married people weird. If there wasn't shaqada qaranka in shaqada qaranka, there wouldn't be a marriage.
Really? Lol my goodness
Re: Heey married Xaliimos, do you beat up or have you ever beaten up your husband?
Posted: Sat Apr 23, 2016 8:28 pm
by Strategic
it part of the tradition for the husband to beat the wife as a sign of ownership.
Re: Heey married Xaliimos, do you beat up or have you ever beaten up your husband?
Posted: Sun Apr 24, 2016 4:40 am
by AirBitaale
^^ A sign of what?
Re: Heey married Xaliimos, do you beat up or have you ever beaten up your husband?
Posted: Mon Apr 25, 2016 6:40 am
by Vivacious
AirBitaale wrote:^^ A sign of what?
Xoolo miyaa
Re: Heey married Xaliimos, do you beat up or have you ever beaten up your husband?
Posted: Mon Apr 25, 2016 7:07 am
by lifeisbloodyhard
MujahidAishah wrote:LoDoon wrote:I know I am asking you for what may be a profound personal details of your life but so that we may learn from each other's experiences and become improved, could you please share it ? (If it is not a trouble)
Thanks in advance.
Huuno hitting in a marriage is not right
I'll help you call the RSPCA ...
That's 4 da xawayaan mate - not humans.
