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Adoption & Hijab.

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i just dont understand why is hijaab necessary if someone adopts a baby. the baby should be just like their children. this makes the child feel like an outsider and also discourages others to adopt.
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CigaalSHiiDaaDCFC wrote:i just dont understand why is hijaab necessary if someone adopts a baby. the baby should be just like their children. this makes the child feel like an outsider and also discourages others to adopt.
It's not until the child hits puberty no?
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^^ yeah but still i dont see the need.
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What are u talking about?Who was forced to wear hijab for adoption?
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Adopted kids are being forced to wear Hijab?
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Tuushi wrote:What are u talking about?Who was forced to wear hijab for adoption?
adopted kids are not muhram to their adopted parents. lets say you adopted a baby boy, when he hits puberty, you are obligated to wear hijab when around him.
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Ah.I see what u mean.Sucks.
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CigaalSHiiDaaDCFC wrote:
Tuushi wrote:What are u talking about?Who was forced to wear hijab for adoption?
adopted kids are not muhram to their adopted parents. lets say you adopted a baby boy, when he hits puberty, you are obligated to wear hijab when around him.
Do you have the scholarly proof and evidence that this is the case?

I know that adoptive parents are not allowed to give the adopted children their family name. But what if the adopted son suckled from the adoptive mother? This will actually make him like one of her own biological children.

Also if you adopted a daughter and married her to your own biological son, then the adoptive father is like her father. Just like how a daughter in law does not need to wear hijab around her father in law.
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Chelsea, if you adopt a baby & future wifey agrees to become a wet-nurse then that solves the hijab issue.


I always wanted to adopt too, both older and younger children so this has crosseed my mind. It would be harder but I guess there will be more reward inshAllah. :)
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this should be easy for somalis. every house there are cousins and relatives who live with them.
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Gaashaanle1000 wrote:
CigaalSHiiDaaDCFC wrote:
Tuushi wrote:What are u talking about?Who was forced to wear hijab for adoption?
adopted kids are not muhram to their adopted parents. lets say you adopted a baby boy, when he hits puberty, you are obligated to wear hijab when around him.
Do you have the scholarly proof and evidence that this is the case?

I know that adoptive parents are not allowed to give the adopted children their family name. But what if the adopted son suckled from the adoptive mother? This will actually make him like one of her own biological children.

Also if you adopted a daughter and married her to your own biological son, then the adoptive father is like her father. Just like how a daughter in law does not need to wear hijab around her father in law.
yeah, if the baby is breast-fed by the adoptive mother then he/she becomes muhram to the family.
InaSamaale wrote:Chelsea, if you adopt a baby & future wifey agrees to become a wet-nurse then that solves the hijab issue.


I always wanted to adopt too, both older and younger children so this has crosseed my mind. It would be harder but I guess there will be more reward inshAllah. :)


if the child is older than 8 years is understandable but a baby? anyways allah knows best. also i wouldnt like my bio-children and adopted to marry each other. specially if they grow up together :down:

Hyperactive wrote:this should be easy for somalis. every house there are cousins and relatives who live with them.
well, i wouldnt say all somalis. because i know one guy who wouldnt let his own brother to come into his house! let alone distance cousins :lol:
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lol i wouldnt consider me real somali dee. naah hadey jookto, my brother moho aqalkeyga ka so dooni, given he doesnt need me.
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