Trading Marriage for Education( Boys Only Plz)
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Sumubaridi
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Trading Marriage for Education( Boys Only Plz)
This is for Raga only.
Lets say, you have a choice to make. You have to fund your education or Save to get married.......Can't afford both. You have to pick one.
You can only save $500 a month. The college cost $1500 every 3 month semester. if you decide to pay for your tuition, you will have nothing saved for marriage. Otherwise, you have to forget school and save for marriage.
What will you do? and Yes, You are 38 years old.
Lets say, you have a choice to make. You have to fund your education or Save to get married.......Can't afford both. You have to pick one.
You can only save $500 a month. The college cost $1500 every 3 month semester. if you decide to pay for your tuition, you will have nothing saved for marriage. Otherwise, you have to forget school and save for marriage.
What will you do? and Yes, You are 38 years old.
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thehappyone
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Re: Trading Marriage for Education( Boys Only Plz)
There's this old white woman who works in my office. She does all the staff wages on sage, it's an accounting software. Walahi oo bilahi the other day I had to help her calculate percentages. I don't know why I'm telling you this but you might find it useful.
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I shouldn't be laughing walahi but At 40 you should be well-established and financially secure plus your first child should nearing early teens... Well ideally, anyway. Damn. I'll keep you in my duas. - lifeisbloodyhard
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thehappyone wrote:There's this old white woman who works in my office. She does all the staff wages on sage, it's an accounting software. Walahi oo bilahi the other day I had to help her calculate percentages. I don't know why I'm telling you this but you might find it useful.
Walahi I was thinking about going back to uni to do Maths the other day. The problem is I can just about add cos i haven't done Maths for like 7 years. Shidhouse!
And waar op, go to the bloody mosque. Waad na waashay!
- KingMJ
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Re: Trading Marriage for Education( Boys Only Plz)
Akh find a wifey ASAP
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Sumubaridi
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If you do not know how to read, I am 38 not 40. I got my first sperms in 1993 which makes my birth date in 1978. So wait for 2 more years to call me 40. with that, your comments was directed to a 40 year old man which I am not. Waa runtaa. a 40 year old man should do all the things you described.Amira143 wrote:I shouldn't be laughing walahi but At 40 you should be well-established and financially secure plus your first child should nearing early teens... Well ideally, anyway. Damn. I'll keep you in my duas.
- FarhanYare
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Re: Trading Marriage for Education( Boys Only Plz)
At 38 you should not even be thinking about further delaying marriage. I would say do both: marry and study while working part time. Get the family to help out!!!
I am sure they would do all that it is in their power to get you married off. However, if you don't have this choice, abandon education or put on hold for the time. Heck, i don't know if am too motivated to go back to school at that age-i will be thinking retirement!!!!!!!!!!!!
I am sure they would do all that it is in their power to get you married off. However, if you don't have this choice, abandon education or put on hold for the time. Heck, i don't know if am too motivated to go back to school at that age-i will be thinking retirement!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Sumubaridi wrote:If you do not know how to read, I am 38 not 40. I got my first sperms in 1993 which makes my birth date in 1978. So wait for 2 more years to call me 40. with that, your comments was directed to a 40 year old man which I am not. Waa runtaa. a 40 year old man should do all the things you described.Amira143 wrote:I shouldn't be laughing walahi but At 40 you should be well-established and financially secure plus your first child should nearing early teens... Well ideally, anyway. Damn. I'll keep you in my duas.
LOL okay 38!! Big difference. Sheesh. Just get married so your Calacal stops.
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Sumubaridi
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Re: Trading Marriage for Education( Boys Only Plz)
Get married? I just paid $1000 the class tuition and I will buy a damn book and calculator later for $300. That puts my income back to $1300. I will then register for another class in the fall that will need another $1500. Will keep doing that till I finish the remaining 7 classes. Can't afford marriage and Since I started this second degree process this week, wallaahi haven't thought about marriage for a second. Education is the enemy of marriageAmira143 wrote:Sumubaridi wrote:If you do not know how to read, I am 38 not 40. I got my first sperms in 1993 which makes my birth date in 1978. So wait for 2 more years to call me 40. with that, your comments was directed to a 40 year old man which I am not. Waa runtaa. a 40 year old man should do all the things you described.Amira143 wrote:I shouldn't be laughing walahi but At 40 you should be well-established and financially secure plus your first child should nearing early teens... Well ideally, anyway. Damn. I'll keep you in my duas.
LOL okay 38!! Big difference. Sheesh. Just get married so your Calacal stops.
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Re: Trading Marriage for Education( Boys Only Plz)
Disregard females, acquire currency.
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Sumubaridi
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I have to work ugaas. I send my family $500 a month and my own house expenses etc is $1000. My family are too broke to help out. They can't even leave me alone.FarhanYare wrote:At 38 you should not even be thinking about further delaying marriage. I would say do both: marry and study while working part time. Get the family to help out!!!
I am sure they would do all that it is in their power to get you married off. However, if you don't have this choice, abandon education or put on hold for the time. Heck, i don't know if am too motivated to go back to school at that age-i will be thinking retirement!!!!!!!!!!!!
My First degree is Business Admin and I cannot get a career focus with it. I need title
Guur is good alxd I love it but it only work for liars. Guys like me do not lie so can't get a girl with Truth.
We tell them our exact age, our income, and our marriage history " divorced 2 women in 5 years "
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InaSamaale
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Re: Trading Marriage for Education( Boys Only Plz)
Like a user suggested you can study part-time. I am sure there are many single mothers in the MN but I think you prefer excuses. You've idealised marriage but don't seem to be ready. Maybe you're not over your ex and that experience. 
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I see. I sympathize with you.Sumubaridi wrote:I have to work ugaas. I send my family $500 a month and my own house expenses etc is $1000. My family are too broke to help out. They can't even leave me alone.FarhanYare wrote:At 38 you should not even be thinking about further delaying marriage. I would say do both: marry and study while working part time. Get the family to help out!!!
I am sure they would do all that it is in their power to get you married off. However, if you don't have this choice, abandon education or put on hold for the time. Heck, i don't know if am too motivated to go back to school at that age-i will be thinking retirement!!!!!!!!!!!!
My First degree is Business Admin and I cannot get a career focus with it. I need title. So accountant is the only title at my reach right now.
Guur is good alxd I love it but it only work for liars. Guys like me do not lie so can't get a girl with Truth.
We tell them our exact age, our income, and our marriage history " divorced 2 women in 5 years "![]()
Go flatting with flatmates to save on the rent.
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Allow the calacal focus on your "studies" once it's finished...find a job and then happy hunting for the ONE.
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