Longest time it took you to get over a rship/marriage

[lifeisbloodyhard]

Me = rship and 1 yr approx.

Edit: we nearly got married.

[Bibaaye6828]

U need to get out ur feelings girl lol.

[lifeisbloodyhard]

U need to get out ur feelings girl lol.

??

I always get them out? I wear my heart on my sleeve.

[Susu000]

Me and My husband spent two months apart after a weeks of fighting everyday. Those two months I honestly thought I was going to die. When we sorted things out and he moved back home was the happiest day of my life.
I honestly don't think I can survive without him

[TheLoFather]

Well it always depends on her feelings and whether she thinks that the length of time time I had spent on sleeping on the living room sofa is enough punishment for my misbehaviour. For exapmle last week when I innocently said something about women being the same as "the dead" because she said that I shouldn't talk about any woman if I am not going to say something good about them in which I replied "are you saying women are like the dead...say good or nothing?...". I was confined to the living room sofa for the whole night and as I had made a promise not to equate women to the dead ever again, I was released.
However sometimes the punishment last longer and it includes long periods of the silent treatment which I find to be the harshest of all my punishments issued. The longest that lasted being nearly two days.

Somehow I always manage to get over these situations as if they never happened maybe because single life sscares the shyt out of me.

[Gaashaanle1000]

I was always an awkward kid, so when I had my first sort of relationship it was a bit strange that she professed love after a couple of days. Needless to say I ran for the hills! Can't say it took me long to get over it. But she does seem to be a nice enough girl and not the psycho I thought she might be at the time now that I see her around.

[YummyMummy]

Me and My husband spent two months apart after a weeks of fighting everyday. Those two months I honestly thought I was going to die. When we sorted things out and he moved back home was the happiest day of my life.
I honestly don't think I can survive without him

aww maa shaa Allah how sweet, did he feel like he was gonna die too? may Allah bless your marriage, aamiin

[lifeisbloodyhard]

Well it always depends on her feelings and whether she thinks that the length of time time I had spent on sleeping on the living room sofa is enough punishment for my misbehaviour. For exapmle last week when I innocently said something about women being the same as "the dead" because she said that I shouldn't talk about any woman if I am not going to say something good about them in which I replied "are you saying women are like the dead...say good or nothing?...". I was confined to the living room sofa for the whole night and as I had made a promise not to equate women to the dead ever again, I was released.
However sometimes the punishment last longer and it includes long periods of the silent treatment which I find to be the harshest of all my punishments issued. The longest that lasted being nearly two days.

Somehow I always manage to get over these situations as if they never happened maybe because single life sscares the shyt out of me.

That's emotional abuse. I am gonna try not to do that 2 my future hubby isA.

[lifeisbloodyhard]

Me and My husband spent two months apart after a weeks of fighting everyday. Those two months I honestly thought I was going to die. When we sorted things out and he moved back home was the happiest day of my life.
I honestly don't think I can survive without him

Aww that's so cute!

[lifeisbloodyhard]

I was always an awkward kid, so when I had my first sort of relationship it was a bit strange that she professed love after a couple of days. Needless to say I ran for the hills! Can't say it took me long to get over it. But she does seem to be a nice enough girl and not the psycho I thought she might be at the time now that I see her around.

Way dacdha.

[Inaayah]

Me and My husband spent two months apart after a weeks of fighting everyday. Those two months I honestly thought I was going to die. When we sorted things out and he moved back home was the happiest day of my life.
I honestly don't think I can survive without him

aww maa shaa Allah how sweet, did he feel like he was gonna die too? may Allah bless your marriage, aamiin

Amiin, Susu is too cute.

[Susu000]

Me and My husband spent two months apart after a weeks of fighting everyday. Those two months I honestly thought I was going to die. When we sorted things out and he moved back home was the happiest day of my life.
I honestly don't think I can survive without him

aww maa shaa Allah how sweet, did he feel like he was gonna die too? may Allah bless your marriage, aamiin

He never said so but I could see it in him, he was happy to come back home too.. And honestly it was very good for both of us because we never had major fights of that kind ever since.

[Sumubaridi]

Me and My husband spent two months apart after a weeks of fighting everyday. Those two months I honestly thought I was going to die. When we sorted things out and he moved back home was the happiest day of my life.
I honestly don't think I can survive without him

Have you ever told him this or you hide from him? Share this with him. Men like to be valued.

[lifeisbloodyhard]

Me and My husband spent two months apart after a weeks of fighting everyday. Those two months I honestly thought I was going to die. When we sorted things out and he moved back home was the happiest day of my life.
I honestly don't think I can survive without him

Have you ever told him this or you hide from him? Share this with him. Men like to be valued.

So do women.

[Bibaaye6828]

To anwser the question it dont take me long as really never have long term relationships no more but there is 1 where it took me bout 4months to get over her. I was even imagining other girls to be her whilst doin the ting. Felt weird af. I actually told her this to her disgust and slight intrigue lol.