When a Somali borrow your stuff, do you get them in return?

[Revolutionary]

When they borrow my money, jackets, USB and other stuff, I never get them in return. They pretend like nothing happens, even when they lost my stuff, they dont talk about it or apologize, no reaction. I was always like

When they ask our non-Somali/western friends about borrowing stuff and I hear their convo, my mind is like "He aint gonna get his stuff back, hehe" because of my experience with them. Next day, they tend to complain about [insert name] didn't give me back and I tell him just move on because he wont give you. They tend to hustle a lot and annoy you, I am not generalizing. I just do it because of my kind manners.

Anyway, it happened in the past but I never realize how they all share one thing in common - not returning and asking directly is awkward so I asked this question to Hawdian in the other forum a year ago about why we never get anything in return when they used to borrow my stuff, he said borrowing is considered meaningless in Somali culture. Is this true or is it only non-Somalis that they dont return?

This doesn't happen anymore after I stop seeing them but just wondering whether if its only here or is it a common thing for Somalis?

[Fey]

bro, bro, bro property is fake bro.

but if it's that deep don't lend your shit out in the first place.

[Revolutionary]

Not deep. If it is your friend, how do you say no to avoid ruining your rep?

[Fey]

bro, there are two types of people in the world: family and people who annoy you in the streets.

friends is fake. no is no.

[Thuganomics]

The question makes no sense