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Reading some of these posts will show how much some of these Ajnabi-craving chicks have cheapened themselves. This is straight up humiliating.

But somalis tend to be less racist than others in my experience and when white revert brothers experience problems finding a wife, usually we can fix the problem by advising them to seek the help of somali imams in our city.

The same guy then later goes on to say:

I'm a revert, and been involved in Dawah since the first month of being Muslim,

but I'd not marry my daughter or a woman under my guardianship to a 'new' new Muslim, until they establish themselves in our deen, seen too many reverts leave the practice of the deen, keep plenty of jahil traits from their past they keep hidden, or even leave islam entirely.

We are not living in Medinah, under the rulership of Rasoolullaah (saw) where the community can help new muslims grow, and take care of them. We're living in the west where every vice is available and the new Muslims have to fend for themselves and many fall through the cracks.

But of course, he would still send such a revert to the Somali Imams who would gladly marry him off to one of their students... This is how low we've become.. Allahul mustacaan..

Funny I have heard of reverts having sisters falling at their feet wanting to marry them.

This seems to be especially true of Somali sisters - they often seem to want to marry outside their culture for some reason.

Somali girls Crave it bro, go for a Somali girl

a lot of somali women ain't interested in somali men anymore for whatever reason....I have Somali friends

Alhamdulillah, a good sister comes along:

The Somali brother is not angry that Somali women want out, because vast majority of us do not, and before you say I cannot speak for the majority of Somali women I clearly can; statistical and anecdotal evidence show that most Somali women do marry Somali men.

Not really, I've had somali brothers ask me if I wish to marry, even though they know I'm married already, and black brothers who are twice the muslim I am, been in the deen longer, learn some arabic, they still struggle to even get one sit down.

Full thread: http://www.ummah.com/forum/showthread.p ... only/page2

There are several threads on that forum who follow the same general theme: Revert brother wants to find a wife. Is told to go for a Somali since they are easy to marry, some even claiming that Somali women are desperate for reverts (which is true for some).

The "as long as he is Muslim" crew need to come in here and explain themselves....

By the way, there are a bunch of Ajnabi-craving Somali chicks on that forum. These women completely misapply certain Islamic concepts and beliefs. There are even some Somali salafi guys in there who will defend this stupidity.

To clarify:

It is NOT "asabiyyah" if your parents reject someone for not being Somali, since many classical (as well as current) scholars view cultural incompatibility as a legitimate reason for refusing someone.

It is NOT jahiliyyah to prefer marrying someone from your own background.

And we know for a fact that many of these women specifically state that they do not want to marry men from their own background, yet for some reason this is not as seen as a form of "jahiliyya". Why is it halal to negatively stereotype your own people but haraam when it comes to foreigners?

Somali scholars need to address this and the parents need to upgrade their dhaqan and mentality to reflect the current reality. These xoolo will reject a good Somali brother because he comes from a different clan but will gladly accept Abu Thomas and Abu Tyrone as a suitable husband.

To be fair to them, most of the time they have no choice as these brainwashed Salafist daughters will threaten to run away and elope with their Abu Tyrone's. Some will even conveniently find a Salafi imam (who happens to be a close friend of Abu Tyrone) to act as a Wali since the father will be rejected as "Ahlul bidca" for simply not accepting Abu Tyrone.

But it shouldn't even get to this stage in the first place. These guys don't know what their daughters are upto until they show up one day with some Ajnabi man. Where were they at this whole time?

At the end of the day it comes down to the fathers. Saxhib you don't think there are just as many Pakistani and Arab girls craving those cadaan reverts but are kept hard in line by their fathers who either tell them they need to marry their cousin or their tribe at the very least? Somali fathers are the biggest proponents of "as long as he is Muslim" (and not Somali). If he is Somali, then a thorough investigation must be done of his background and what reer he is from.

But who said we have to marry Somalis? Our kids will still be Somalis even if the mother is not, and there are too many reverts out there these days that need a good and pious husband and will do everything they can to be the ideal Islamic wife and mother vs a Somali wife that will take you for granted and show you attitude. The choice is clear.

Those comments are truly sad.

The parents to the girls that were talked about in the comments need to do a better job. Girls, don't settle, aim high and know your worth.

That's so embarrassing

so embarrassing reading that thread

The revert that is bragging on a forum should show us a pic of him and his xalimo or else it didn't happen. Anyone can post outlandish stuff on a forum. Op copy and paste my post to that forum. TA

Funny I have heard of reverts having sisters falling at their feet wanting to marry them.

This seems to be especially true of Somali sisters - they often seem to want to marry outside their culture for some reason.

FarhanYare wrote:The revert that is bragging on a forum should show us a pic of him and his xalimo or else it didn't happen. Anyone can post outlandish stuff on a forum. Op copy and paste my post to that forum. TA

meet sam of somalia! his youtube name always cracks me up, nigga calls himself somalia

Raganimo.....didn't you start a long winded thread complaining about snet?
You were complaining that all the threads were about qabilisim and.......anjabi loving Somali women.
PS personally it doesn't bother me in the slightest......let people live their lives.

A Somali Muslima marrying a non-Somali Muslim man is the least of my worry. Some of the reverts are the best human beings that you can find amongst the Muslims. My take is the negative comment of one revert does not reflect the vast majority of new Muslims.

We should also understand that when people embrace Islam, and since we (Somalis) are part of the Muslim community, we should welcome them and help them in their journey. That means, we shouldn't be bothered by the dumb comments from few individuals, and if there are some Somali girls running to them, let them go for it. This is Internet and we can't stop people writing whatever they want. We also can't stop a woman running to marrying outside of the Somali community.

Finally, let us not forget that some, not many, Somali men fail their wives and children, and these girls have that baggage with them. Some of them are running away from certain aspects of our culture. Many young Somali men are also either in the gangs or in the prison system, and that translates to not enough Somali men for every Somali women in the diaspora. In addition, if a Somali Muslim man marries a new Muslima from other ethnic groups, it is not an issue, but if a Somali Muslim woman marries a Muslim brother from other ethnic groups, it is an issue in our community. Many of these Somali women who marries non-Somali Muslim men see that as a double standard and misogyny in the Somali community. Perhaps, even handedness and fairness to both genders is what can reduce the trend. On my end, a new Muslim/Muslima are my brrother/sister in faith. I would do everything I can to help them in the Somali and the larger Muslim community.

You guys behave like the Westerners who gets mad when white girls marry off to ethnic brahs.

What's wrong with marrying other ethnicities as long as that person is Muslim? Your tribal mentality needs to be removed. It's 2016..

Nothing surprising really. Somali females are the most easiest muslim females in the world. Though the majority of xaliimos marrying reverts are ugly AF so no love lost here. If i was xabashi or moroccan guy, yeah then i'd be mad.

Mahamoud81 wrote:At the end of the day it comes down to the fathers. Saxhib you don't think there are just as many Pakistani and Arab girls craving those cadaan reverts but are kept hard in line by their fathers who either tell them they need to marry their cousin or their tribe at the very least? Somali fathers are the biggest proponents of "as long as he is Muslim" (and not Somali). If he is Somali, then a thorough investigation must be done of his background and what reer he is from.

But who said we have to marry Somalis? Our kids will still be Somalis even if the mother is not, and there are too many reverts out there these days that need a good and pious husband and will do everything they can to be the ideal Islamic wife and mother vs a Somali wife that will take you for granted and show you attitude. The choice is clear.

Good sir, what the hell is wrong with you sxb?

I can't believe this shit. Any person who makes the decision of marrying a foreigner must come to terms with the fact that their kids will never be Somali regardless of the gender of said person marrying out of their ethnicity. And to comtely ignore the other half and make the claim that their Somali only just because of the dad is disingenuous. Have some pride man.

Just had a quick read through. Blood is boiling. How delusional can some of these cunts be? Of course we are all human, that's a no-brainer obviously, but to completely disregard our differences is just plain retarded. Why don't they ask themselves why Allah created us like this? Why not appreciate the beauty of every unique ethnic group out there? Why not celebrate our differences? My god some of these people are stupid, uff.

And I have every right to want to marry my own, absolutely nothing wrong with it. I'm not gonna dictate what every Somali should do because it's still there choice but my family ain't coming nothing close to this interracial stuff, alxamduallhi.