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I am tired of lying about being married for 4 years. I am the only one in here who is lying about his life. How is your wife? did you and your wife do something fun? what are your plans for the weekend, Are you taking your wife to Africa ? this is enough.

I want to come out to them after Ramadan with " My wife and I are no longer together". I will make it seem like we just separated. Then will let it continue that way for a while.

Can't keep it anymore. shhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh..

lol! so u were lying about being separated from you first wife four years ago?

I get asked how was ur weekend every Monday as if i get up to something exciting every weekend.

When i read the title, i had something else in my mind

BlueBlood wrote:When i read the title, i had something else in my mind

Waa sooman tahay ee bax soo weyseyso.

TheblueNwhite wrote:

BlueBlood wrote:When i read the title, i had something else in my mind

Waa sooman tahay ee bax soo weyseyso.

he said "he is coming out"

weysida may soo celin haduu soonka jabo?

I was just messing with u.

why did you lie about being married in the first place? what's wrong if you said you're sinlge?

Marka ugu horeysa maxaad dadka kula shaqeeya ugu sheegtay bisniskaaga.
Waar dadka kula shaqeeya looma bilaabo hello iyo bye ha idunka dhaxayso.
Waa maxay xaaskaga ka waran iyo niicdani, maxaa idinka galay.
imika dhacdaye iskaga sheeg runta ilayn wax kale ma jiraane.

You should have just been honest in the beginning, divorce is normal for westerners

FarhanYare wrote:I get asked how was ur weekend every Monday as if i get up to something exciting every weekend.

That made me laugh.

jamal9 wrote:why did you lie about being married in the first place? what's wrong if you said you're sinlge?

I was married when I started with them. I did not want to tell them I got divorced because in the office bureaucracy, divorce is considered failure and people will look at you as not a winner. Married people are considered as settle, mature and will be look at with more credibility. Most people who are working in offices get married just for that because most of the cadaan people are married so you will come out as either khaniis or bipolar if you do not get married. But after 4 years of lying to them, I want to become clean. I just want to do it smartly.

you made the same thread a few months ago

Timiro1999 wrote:Marka ugu horeysa maxaad dadka kula shaqeeya ugu sheegtay bisniskaaga.
Waar dadka kula shaqeeya looma bilaabo hello iyo bye ha idunka dhaxayso.
Waa maxay xaaskaga ka waran iyo niicdani, maxaa idinka galay.
imika dhacdaye iskaga sheeg runta ilayn wax kale ma jiraane.

Dadka xaafiiska kashaqeeyo maaha sida assembly line ama production. maantoodhan meetings iyo chit chat baa socda iyo gossiping. Maalinta koowaad baa lugu waydiinaa waadna in aad sawirada familkaaga kusoo dhajiso xaafiiskaaga. waa dhaqanka xaafiiska. Qof aan noqon professional madareemi karo. Assembly maaha oo qofba inta machine fariisto lugu kala tagaayo. meeshaan qado ayaa la aadaah, marmar xafladaha ayaa laysku casumaah etc.