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for the Guys,
-Marriage life has so many stress, financial constrains, restrictions, and Conflict with short term Dreams Like education.
_single Life is all about having fun, chilling with your buddies, Not working too much and Dating new girls all the time.

I think Marriage is Fun for the girls and a burden to the guys.

What do you think.

Marriage is half your deen

COOL-MAN wrote:Marriage is half your deen

Tell that to Sumu

Marriage life

gegiroor wrote:Marriage life

HayWire wrote:

gegiroor wrote:Marriage life

Haywire, you need to settle down with Mohamud Hiraab or Madar Kicis sister and life will be all set for you

And then after being married over decade, you can plan for the second wife just like me

gegiroor wrote:

HayWire wrote:

gegiroor wrote:Marriage life

Haywire, you need to settle down with Mohamud Hiraab or Madar Kicis sister and life will be all set for you

And then after being married over decade, you can plan for the second wife just like me

Gegi it isn't about what you think

Haywire you are wrong about single guys always kicking it with their dudes. Too many friends is not a heathy sign and high school sophomoric. Whoever told you single guys don't over work and aren't ambitious?

war hag what happen to don hag?

HayWire, marriage is more fun for the guys.Most men come to a clean home, warm food , surounded by kids they hardly take care off.Raga banaanka lo so tuurey dhagayso calaacalkooda.Xita singlnimada uma adkaysan karaan.Mid kasta Yaa gurigaygi igu celiya ayuu ku baroorta.

AyeeyoH wrote:HayWire, marriage is more fun for the guys.Most men come to a clean home, warm food , surounded by kids they hardly take care off.Raga banaanka lo so tuurey dhagayso calaacalkooda.Xita singlnimada uma adkaysan karaan.Mid kasta Yaa gurigaygi igu celiya ayuu ku baroorta.

In the olden days, and perhaps today if they can find such traditional girls. But now, lol, many women have upped their standards to a guy that cooks, helps around the house and is very active in taking care of the kids and arranging family outings. I say good luck to the Faaraxs stuck in yesteryear.

Somalisred, nothing wrong with taking care of ur husband if he is a good person and a hardworking man.Its ur duty as a wife.Wax ceeb amba xumaan ah uma arko taa anigo haday naagto guriga joogto oo la biiliyo.laakin hadi Labadiinuba shaqaysaan waa qasab inu ku caawiyo.

AyeeyoH wrote:Somalisred, nothing wrong with taking care of ur husband if he is a good person and a hardworking man.Its ur duty as a wife.Wax ceeb amba xumaan ah uma arko taa anigo haday naagto guriga joogto oo la biiliyo.laakin hadi Labadiinuba shaqaysaan waa qasab inu ku caawiyo.

Nothing wrong with both of them taking care of each other. That's how it's meant to be.

There was a documentary on marriage back in 2002, you guys should check it out. I think it was called 'The Ring'

Marriage is hard for both men and women

But you get the reward of having someone near you during lonely nights, and if Allah blesses you with children you can look forward to strong, beautiful grown men and women by your side in 20 years or so time.

Some men will have 1,2,3 4 or 5 and maybe more grown sons and daughters by their side by the time they are 50 and some even younger. Whilst others who lived that hedonistic easy life will be alone and most likely regretting their life decisions. But hey that is just my opinion.

Also kids require a lot of sacrifice and hard work, you cannot expect to just have them and then forget about them until they grow up. Because in that case they will be more of a burden than help.