AyeeyoH wrote:Ur ex haba yaraate wax xidhiidh inay kula yeelato maaha iskaba daa amaahe. Ninkeedo mu og yahy inay xidhiidh kula leedahy.Dayuusnimadan mesha ka socota ilaa iyo hada anigo ma fahmin.Anaga isaga kaaya dhigta wadaad, saqajaan waaxid.Adiga iyo naagtuba Waad edeb daran tihiin.

She is my Muslim sister and Muslims can borrow money from each other. That does not mean am gonna see her in person. Never seen her for so long and maybe will never see her again. There is what we call in America account iigu shub and she will also put it back when she gets it in my account. If a stranger Muslim can borrow money from another Muslim, what is the problem of my ex-wife borrowing money from me? It also does not mean she will call and talk to me. She has my phone and she can taxed me. Plus, maybe am the only person she can turn to after her husband. I understand where you come from in the Somali society. Divorce means fighting, kab inlaysla dhoco, in lakala xanaaqo, in balaayo iyo halaag dhoco. I saw her brother this weekend in the mall and we walked all the way for a block and shook my hands and gave me a huge hug. Its all about respect. My father's ex-wife who is my younger brother's mother used to call us all the time for help. its normal.
Xagee kuqorantahay waa xaaraam in aad ninkaagii hore lahadasho ama lacag kadayn sato? Soo maaha walaasheey muslimad ah sida gabdhaha kale? mise marka laysfuro dadka walaaltinimada muslimka way kukala go'aan. xaaraam waa wax lasameeyo maaha lacag lakala daynsado.