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Guys,

Lets say your ex wife calls and ask you for dayn money because she is short of cash and her ex-husband is out of the country. Would you demis her? about $600.

FYI, you don't know her credit worthy because you have never loan her anything before. She is the first time borrower. It was always gift when you were together and not deyn. assume that you are Sumubaridi and money does not come in plenty to you. So it does not come back, its a big hit on your budget

If she is the mother of my children and did not cheat on me why not ? Yes she is an ex but also the mother of my children her well being is my well being

smartyt wrote:If she is the mother of my children and did not cheat on me why not ? Yes she is an ex but also the mother of my children her well being is my well being

what if she is your ex but no children involved. Overall, she was a good person when you knew her. You don't know how good she is with repaying debt because you have never lent her anything before today.

Sumubaridi wrote:

smartyt wrote:If she is the mother of my children and did not cheat on me why not ? Yes she is an ex but also the mother of my children her well being is my well being

what if she is your ex but no children involved. Overall, she was a good person when you knew her. You don't know how good she is with repaying debt because you have never lent her anything before today.

I will still give her the money if she is not an asshole

Ur ex haba yaraate wax xidhiidh inay kula yeelato maaha iskaba daa amaahe. Ninkeedo mu og yahy inay xidhiidh kula leedahy.Dayuusnimadan mesha ka socota ilaa iyo hada anigo ma fahmin.Anaga isaga kaaya dhigta wadaad, saqajaan waaxid.Adiga iyo naagtuba Waad edeb daran tihiin.

AyeeyoH wrote:amaahe

That is the first time I have seen that word being used, I am sure it's in a song but I don't even know for sure what it means


About Sumu it sounds fishy that she would go to an ex of all people but that's irrelevant. You should never let someone borrow something you can't afford to lose

Amaah - Dayn

BV 500 i amaahi waliga lagama odhan?

sumu, give her that $600 and you might get lucky since her gusband is away. ask her for 6 nights of fun.

AyeeyoH wrote:Amaah - Dayn

BV 500 i amaahi waliga lagama odhan?

Maya I have heard "ii deymi", I am not sure how I would have responded to 500 i amaahi Probably would have said "haa waa haya"


Btw this means Sumu has $600 in savings

You said she was good to you in the past, unless the rent is due or there is a food shortage I would recommend you lend her the money .

A Muslim should help other Muslims whenever he (or she) can.

smartyt wrote:If she is the mother of my children and did not cheat on me why not ? Yes she is an ex but also the mother of my children her well being is my well being

What if she needs the money for her wedding

AyeeyoH wrote:Ur ex haba yaraate wax xidhiidh inay kula yeelato maaha iskaba daa amaahe. Ninkeedo mu og yahy inay xidhiidh kula leedahy.Dayuusnimadan mesha ka socota ilaa iyo hada anigo ma fahmin.Anaga isaga kaaya dhigta wadaad, saqajaan waaxid.Adiga iyo naagtuba Waad edeb daran tihiin.

She is my Muslim sister and Muslims can borrow money from each other. That does not mean am gonna see her in person. Never seen her for so long and maybe will never see her again. There is what we call in America account iigu shub and she will also put it back when she gets it in my account. If a stranger Muslim can borrow money from another Muslim, what is the problem of my ex-wife borrowing money from me? It also does not mean she will call and talk to me. She has my phone and she can taxed me. Plus, maybe am the only person she can turn to after her husband. I understand where you come from in the Somali society. Divorce means fighting, kab inlaysla dhoco, in lakala xanaaqo, in balaayo iyo halaag dhoco. I saw her brother this weekend in the mall and we walked all the way for a block and shook my hands and gave me a huge hug. Its all about respect. My father's ex-wife who is my younger brother's mother used to call us all the time for help. its normal.

Xagee kuqorantahay waa xaaraam in aad ninkaagii hore lahadasho ama lacag kadayn sato? Soo maaha walaasheey muslimad ah sida gabdhaha kale? mise marka laysfuro dadka walaaltinimada muslimka way kukala go'aan. xaaraam waa wax lasameeyo maaha lacag lakala daynsado.

gegiroor wrote:A Muslim should help other Muslims whenever he (or she) can.

That is what I thought as well. When people get divorced, they became muslim brothers/sisters.

Sumubaridi wrote:

gegiroor wrote:A Muslim should help other Muslims whenever he (or she) can.

That is what I thought as well. When people get divorced, they became muslim brothers/sisters.

If you can afford to lend her the money, do it and pray to Allah to replace it something better for you. Your ex-wife asking you money must be in dire need, so do whatever that you can to help her out.