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should i break a promise

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Guys i need an advise, there is a girl i been chasing her almost 8 months and finally we met boy oh boy, i realized all this months i liked only the face but not the body :cry:

So I've been talking to a face book girl, she is a face book friend of a friend of a friend. i spot her commenting a funny picture 8 months ago and liked her face, she has a gorgeous face so beautiful, all of her photo are face pictures. I add her and been chasing ever since.

She reject me and refuse to meet me up, i liked her so much i was ready to do anything for her and she noticed that.
To short the story its only when i started talking about Marriage she started opening up and asked me to promise her i wont leave like any other guys she met, I promised her i wont be like other guys and i will never ever leave her in my mind i was ready to marry this girl, she agreed to meed up for a tea.

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when we met boy oh boy i realized the only beauty in her is her face. what should I do? should i break a promise?
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After many years of experience with women, I came to embrace and rather like that the most important thing about a girl is not looks.

Most good looking ones are dh1loyin. No brain or class.

The most important aspect for me is trust, character, family-orientated and strives to better your life while avoiding anything that brings shame to your name and family.

That's the woman I celebrate the most.

You son have long way to go. I once met this chick with pretyy face like you over the net.

She was obese tho.

I still took her out and gave her ride home.

But I kindly told her she misled me. And guess whst? Next her slim friends wanted my attention.

I did date few.

If you want to settle find a girl that is close to her family especially mum; that likes kids and family, diin, isn't makeup and "image" obsessed those usually have low self esteem or are easier to influence because they care so much how they are seen by appearance.

The goos girl loves you compared to you loving her. Of course I'm not saying both shouldn't love but the one that loves you deserves more of you than chasing what you think is love.

Women know love better than men let them love you.
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Re: should i break a promise

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If she is not costing you too much iska was , hadhawna iska fur hadaad doonto, you will never get complete chick.
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lool you're not alone sxb this happen very often. for me I'd go for the chick with hot body face is not important at this point maro aya la sari kara but choosing a wife I pick the beautiful one your kids will thank you for it :Shrug:
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theyuusuf143 wrote:If she is not costing you too much iska was , hadhawna iska fur hadaad doonto, you will never get complete chick.
But she doesn't have a wasmo budy our friend is blinded by her angelic face
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Trust, character. Family orientated . He stated all that then he rejected the girl beacuse she was fat.

Aabaaha caqliga amxaarada ka was. Xataa isma maqlo.
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Only face pictures are a major red flag. Everyone knows that.
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What? You agreed to marry someone based on their FB profile pic? And she agreed?

Major facepalm sxb
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SultanOrder wrote:Only face pictures are a major red flag. Everyone knows that.

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OP has a long way to go :lol:
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If shes not Somali run away and If she is Somali just tell her the truth. I say this because cadaan girls are crazy and she'll probably cut your ceeb off.
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Waa caadi,

Just take her to the gym with you and you'll can work out together. Being fat is not a permenant thing, besides she will remember that and love u even more.
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Re: should i break a promise

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Advo wrote:Waa caadi,

Just take her to the gym with you and you'll can work out together. Being fat is not a permenant thing, besides she will remember that and love u even more.
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she will need to lose 65 pounds just to look your average street chubby Halimos
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