Inter-qabiil Marriage
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Inter-qabiil Marriage
What are your thoughts on inter-qabiil marriage?
There's this girl I've known since secondary school. A very pretty, light skinned, smart and good girl. We talk sometimes on facebook and going from her facebook timeline, she seems ready to settle down and get married. So what's the problem you might ask? Well... she's mj. As you know I'm not a qabilist, just the other day some cadcad guy was insulting me in a maqaayad and I was completely oblivious to it. I didn't realise it but my isaaq friend was defending me. That's how unqabilist I am. But I'm not sure how my family will react. As far as I know there isn't a single mj in the extended family. Infact, the furthest removed from us would be my aunty who married an abgaal on her second marriage. Do HG-MJ marriages work or are they destined for failure.
There's this girl I've known since secondary school. A very pretty, light skinned, smart and good girl. We talk sometimes on facebook and going from her facebook timeline, she seems ready to settle down and get married. So what's the problem you might ask? Well... she's mj. As you know I'm not a qabilist, just the other day some cadcad guy was insulting me in a maqaayad and I was completely oblivious to it. I didn't realise it but my isaaq friend was defending me. That's how unqabilist I am. But I'm not sure how my family will react. As far as I know there isn't a single mj in the extended family. Infact, the furthest removed from us would be my aunty who married an abgaal on her second marriage. Do HG-MJ marriages work or are they destined for failure.
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Inter qabiil marriage is very common. It usually takes place between your clan and the clans you neighbour with. I am Reer Bicidyahan, and so I have a of relatives from Marehan and Dhulbahante, and some from Leelkase and Cumar Maxmuud. Unsurpringly through my dhulbhanate grandmothers I can even find Habar Yoonis (isaaq) ancestors.
Today you can find people of qabiils every major city in Somalia so you will see people marrying from clans that don't live anywhere near their clan. Thanks to this phenomenon I even have Hawiye cousins. They are not HG however.
Today you can find people of qabiils every major city in Somalia so you will see people marrying from clans that don't live anywhere near their clan. Thanks to this phenomenon I even have Hawiye cousins. They are not HG however.
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Re: Inter-qabiil Marriage
Majeerteen and Habar gidir waliba Sacad iyo Cumar Maxamud they marry often since Gaalkacyo iyo mudug baysla dagaan. I have Reer Nimcaale relatives so yeah it's normal Ina adeer. Gabadhana waan ku siinaythehappyone wrote: Sat May 06, 2017 9:26 am What are your thoughts on inter-qabiil marriage?
There's this girl I've known since secondary school. A very pretty, light skinned, smart and good girl. We talk sometimes on facebook and going from her facebook timeline, she seems ready to settle down and get married. So what's the problem you might ask? Well... she's mj. As you know I'm not a qabilist, just the other day some cadcad guy was insulting me in a maqaayad and I was completely oblivious to it. I didn't realise it but my isaaq friend was defending me. That's how unqabilist I am. But I'm not sure how my family will react. As far as I know there isn't a single mj in the extended family. Infact, the furthest removed from us would be my aunty who married an abgaal on her second marriage. Do HG-MJ marriages work or are they destined for failure.
Re: Inter-qabiil Marriage
Ogaden and Dulbahante. Am a walking mad mullah. Full kablalax Darood. My genes are laaangaab free
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Re: Inter-qabiil Marriage
gob gob dhashay.jamal859 wrote: Sat May 06, 2017 10:45 am Ogaden and Dulbahante. Am a walking mad mullah. Full kablalax Darood. My genes are laaangaab free
Re: Inter-qabiil Marriage
Allow turning like duufle of bohol, pull out of darod women lads
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Re: Inter-qabiil Marriage
durriya inter marriage


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Re: Inter-qabiil Marriage
Waxas waa buug if you get along that's all that matters 

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Re: Inter-qabiil Marriage
thehappyone wrote: What are your thoughts on inter-qabiil marriage?
Do HG-MJ marriages work or are they destined for failure.


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Re: Inter-qabiil Marriage
Qabiil doesn't matter! I would even marry a madhiban girl.
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Re: Inter-qabiil Marriage
Horta madhibaan girl mala heeli karaa is the question. They tend to not marry outside saad uga faaneysiin bey idhiinga faananSharmarke91 wrote: Sat May 06, 2017 1:45 pm Qabiil doesn't matter! I would even marry a madhiban girl.

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Re: Inter-qabiil Marriage
Hawiye nd mj? yeah it won't last a month.
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Re: Inter-qabiil Marriage
Why you said that?
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Re: Inter-qabiil Marriage
according to my relations HG and MJ work well laakiin waa shido socota you would hear 24/7 darod hawiye bla bla even if your educated or a non qabiilist its from the qaraabo side
Mj and hawadle dont work at all bc mj qaraabo act as qabiil gang they wont allow the women of their men to see her qaraabo (if shes not darod not sure for the darod subclans) bc they dont like the other clans
in real life i know a mino a very manly mj girl who sorts out things for friends and every guy respects her then i heard about her marriage of a sacad guy and i was like WOOW i used to think of her qabiilist. i used to dislike her for her interventions.
anyways i got for you this funny mj girls story who married a HG guy
https://m.facebook.com/IdilayBilan?fref=ts
Mj and hawadle dont work at all bc mj qaraabo act as qabiil gang they wont allow the women of their men to see her qaraabo (if shes not darod not sure for the darod subclans) bc they dont like the other clans
in real life i know a mino a very manly mj girl who sorts out things for friends and every guy respects her then i heard about her marriage of a sacad guy and i was like WOOW i used to think of her qabiilist. i used to dislike her for her interventions.
anyways i got for you this funny mj girls story who married a HG guy
https://m.facebook.com/IdilayBilan?fref=ts
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