This topic is about normal Somali girls in their late teens early 20s, I have noticed a trend among these girls who are now less eager with Somali men, I wonder what the underlining issue is. Perhaps its just freedom, as you know Somali women are free to do what they want.
But naturally I have a hypothesis, as we know every woman wants a man within her social group to validate her, in rare occasions a girl will go with a guy outside of her group if her friends approve it, and I notice that Somali girls do not befriend each other mainly because of qabyaalad, and so these little pretty girls grow up in social circles that are packed with other immigrants, they keep their diin and are normal girls who respect their parents etc but because of qabyaalad they are now more exposed to men from their social circle that is ARAB; BOSNIAN; KURDS ; BLACKS etc back in the 90s when I was growing up this was completely unheard of, Somalis were still qabilist back then but that was an unspoken rule where Somalis stick together first and foremost, this still exist a little but not with the younger generations, you won't believe what I had to do friday night to get a Somali girl away from her Iraqi boyfriend, first of all the girl told me she was traumatized in school by other Somali girls because of Qabiil so none of her friends are Somalis, second, she is dating her best friends brother(the Iraqi dude) and after I had my fun she had to whisper her number to me to hide it from her girlfriends who acted as if they owned her. This girl is just a normal very hot Somali girl by the way, she just grew up in a fucked up generation, which I have been partly involved in but completely separate myself from now except for when I am in Somalinet.
I urge Somali men to A. Reduce qabyalad B. prohibit women from participating in it. Back in the day it was all fund and jokes, but young kids who don't necessarily have a strong Somali background will end up being psychologically damaged, by the way this girl was the victim, but other girls who aren't victims, still choose to keep social circles outside of the Somali community due qabyaalad, I can give you an example, I know my ex girlfriends little sister she is from Somaliland all of her friends are non-Somalis, she is more pro-Somaliland than some of the fools on here, and it is evident on her social media, yet this girl rarely mingle with Somalis, she will undoubtedly bully some other poor Somali girl for no reason but qabyaalad and then end up getting hooked up with a foreigner.
Somali men are the biggest qabiilist, however Somali men and even boys still have strong social groups in Europe, it is the females I am talking about, I don't think Qabiil was ever meant for them.
