Is America....a LOOKCIST???? (the value of good looks or beauty?)

[Basra-]

So i was going through Yahoo article comments section--they have like almost 5000 commenters opining on an article of Meghan Markle . The article was about the girlfriend of a UK politician who dumped his girlfriend for saying something racially offensive about Meghan on Social media. The man dumped her and came on TV.


First, that alone is hilarious. Second......reading the comments, i am struck by how majority of the commenters were supporting and defending Meghan. I dont see comments like "I dont care about that Monkey"! lol Most of the comments are positive and abuse the English Girlfriend. So i googled this galfriend, and Lo and Behold---actually i dont want to behold her---it is ONE UGLY biaatch!



So it dawned on me! Yep, that's it!!!! Americans are very superficial. Walaahi, had this English Galfriend been Beautiful, the comments would be at least 50 50 - split--half in support of her. The other half in support of Meghan of course, respectively split from 25% for American patriotism and the other 25% in support of Meghan solely because she is beautiful. (Meghans half blackness is not ignored of course, but surface beauty help brush it off, that's why she has 25% support lol) Beauty plays a major role in the American stupid psyche -which inspires this brisk loyalty support seen in this article comments. Isnt that sad? Well, i cant complain because i have benefited it in my life. I have seen waitresses and waiters and service people abuse co workers of mine who are not exactly pretty, borderline ugly or at least half way there, when we go to lunch, and treat me like a ....Welll...... A Queen! LOL

Regretfully, of course, for i am a justice person. But the glossy treatment thrown at me- is not gone unappreciated, albeit silently.


https://www.yahoo.com/news/brit-party-l ... 03345.html

[Nubis]

I am very pretty, and beautiful as well.

[Basra-]

Nubian dear, i know to u beauty and prettiness is not a major big deal. I know, u have bigger battle. Depression. But Girl, count your blessings. U dont know how your looks are helping u cope with your depression. Without it, it would have been an added stress in your battle. Thank Allaah swt!

[Nubis]

Thanks hun. I am beautiful girl, nice looks, but it does not matter to me. It is the inside that should count.

[Basra-]

Nubian that's right! Whats inside matters! I think that's a good answer. But i would like the outside too!

[bluelovelady]

Lol....well ... mostly it is racist people that hate a black woman marrying a UK Prince. If she was 100% white than she would not be getting so much hate. Let's be honest. Kate Middleton is not all that, but they all act like she is the most beautiful woman in the world.

[Nubis]

^She is not pretty. They both look very basic. Kate is below average.

[formidable]

People don't defend someone based on their beauty.

You have a messed up ideology Basra.

[Basra-]

People don't defend someone because of her beauty.

Formidable

You are ABSOLUTELY right. By the way i LOVE your Frenchy name. You are right that people dont defend u for your beauty, but my dear Formidable.,,,,,,,, people do things subconsciously. Beauty reaction is an instinctive reaction. A savage reaction in US HUMAN. We react without thinking. Like we smile to a beautiful person on the street without knowing why? It is something imbued in us humans by our creator. In QURAN and the BIBLE, beauty is highly treasured. I dont want to get into long winded philosophical debate and type a 3000 essay, but i will make it short. In ALL, Abrahamic holly books--- Prophet Yusuf/Joseph is said to have possessed half the beauty of humanity. Mashalaah. Can you take a short deep breath and imagine his beauty?

Now, decisions like loyal to your race, family etc etc.....those are defense that is obvious and clearly felt by humans. A conscious defense as opposed to a subconscious one. Again i dont want to get into an Einstein long essay debate. (despite being aware many forumers would kill to read my long winded debates lol)


bluelady and Nubian

I agree with both of ya 100%. Kate is overratted. She is not super beautiful at all. She tries her best though, by maintaining her super skinny self, and she the hair, so she got something going on! Meghan is beautiful though, she has facial beauty, jiini grabbing face that Somalis have!

[formidable]

Basra here is your problem. Outer beauty is nothing but a layer of dissapointed. Judging someone based on his/her beauty is a serious mistake. You could marry a cute qalanjo and her personality could be dull compare to the average Kate Middleton type girl with an awesome personality . You are blinding yourself and idolizing someone because he is hot. You will create an illusion of him and will be dissapointed when you find out he is another dull farax.



And just like you said earlier, beauty this days is superficial.

Also I am not ugly I am handsome man

[Basra-]

formidable


i think u r projecting, just because u r not beautiful dont mean, u need to hate on it. I am not saying people should choose only look at beauty for their spouses. No. that's a mistake. the # 1 thing u should look in a spouse is their imaan in diinta. That like 50%. the other parts u should incorporate beauty, personality, etc etc. Beauty is essential too yaaqee .....especially for men who want a wife. they r the ones who r expected to have an erect penis, a not so beautiful one requires extra work ma ha?

[Nubis]

True, and I agree.