Will your parents allow you to marry a Faqash ? Mooryaan ? Idoor ?

[Surprise]

Will your parents accept another qabil in your marriage ?

Did you parents forget 1988 ? 1991 Utanga ? or the Hate for Somaliland ?

[FarhanYare]

I got one parent aun to the other - qabil is not an issue, but ajnabi is...

Tanker nayaa out of petty i commented on ur thread. Take it to SSpot where you will garner more traffic!

[Surprise]

I got one parent aun to the other - qabil is not an issue, but ajnabi is...

Tanker nayaa out of petty i commented on ur thread. Take it to SSpot where you will garner more traffic!

Horta what happened to Snet?

[Caytame]

I married a woman from my clan.

[Nubis]

I care about if he is financially stable.

[barbarossa]

^ So, your parents will not object to a slender-waisted damsel like yourself, (to say nothing of your noble Daarood extraction) wedding a base Hutu, or god forbid, even Iidoor, so long as he has the financial wherewithal to maintain you comfortably?

[original dervish]

From my limited observations.....most folk are just pleased their children marry Somali's.
Marrying out is still looked upon negatively.

[theyuusuf143]

Only laangabs , ugly folks and brokes mary from their clan. For others it makes no sense .

[original dervish]

Yusef....i gotta a cuz who married 1 hj and another dullo with hj mama.....and he told me hj women are a bloody nightmare.....to controlling and are the men in their families.

He told me never ever think of marrying hj.

[theyuusuf143]

Yusef....i gotta a cuz who married 1 hj and another dullo with hj mama.....and he told me hj women are a bloody nightmare.....to controlling and are the men in their families.

He told me never ever think of marrying hj.

Lool so he told you xadiis , you make no sense, there is no DNA pattern that shapes HJ women attitude. Every one is different. One thing I am sure is if your mum and dad are the same subclan and your wife is also the same you are always inferior to person who is related to multiple clans. 9 out 10 Somali qabyalidists are the product of close cousins , because they have no relationship outside their clan . When your hooyo is isaaq, your brothers are hawiye , your wife is raxanweyn you won't behave how local products behave. Inan gumeednimadu waxay ka bilaabanta markad inadr taa guusato .

[AbdiWahab252]

We all wish our kids marry Somali. I may disagree with my son in law politically but I won’t worry about my daughter being shipped off to Algeria or to Alberta as the wife of a ajanabi.

All of my ex wives have not been from my qabiil. It’s been great. If she was, the divorce would have been bitter and caused friction among tolka. But since they were shiisheeye, my tol has my back. Not to mention since you are not kin, you will never run into your ex in laws at weddings, funerals and masajiid

[FarhanYare]

^
That's why i shutdown at the mere suggestion of cousins or tol; However, I would imagine marriage between tols have fewer divorces since both parties are sympathetic to one another and work to resolve things whatever it takes. For instance, if the husband is total waste, i think he would pick and dust himself up to become better spouse after family intervention or vise versa.

[KUSH]

Our family don't marry Daroods. Daroods are impure born out of rape. How can I let my blood be mixed with half bastards of an Arab sex tourist. I am of pure Samaale extraction.