In Quest Of True Equality

DANGIRL · Post by **DANGIRL** » Thu Jan 05, 2006 10:49 am

At a Eid party,Ahmed walks in with an average looking brown haired woman.Then a couple of minutes later,heads trun when Mahamed walks in with a black-haired beauty.Why does everyone notice the beauty instead of the ordinary-looking woman?Could it be a case of appearance discrimination?

Appearance discrimination is defined as a "failure to address or correct discrimination based on appearance,dress,or grooming.Drawing on this definiton,the situation at the Eid partyseems to be such a case.This raises several question questions.Are good-looking individuals always at an advantages or disadvantages occur? Most improtant are we as a society the ultimate loser in the game of appearance discrimination?

Saayda · Post by **Saayda** » Thu Jan 05, 2006 3:09 pm

Most people stare at this "black haired beauty" you described beause they perceive her to be... well beautiful, whether or not she is a "beauty" inside has yet to be seen by these people i assume. Perhaps the ordinary women has more charm and charisma, but then... may be not. I think we all discriminate at some level depending on the circumstances that we are placed....this perhaps is one of our many mechanism to survival.

In life..where one person discriminates..the other does not...hence the saying "true beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder" and the fact that both the ordinary women and the more attractive one both have a bloke proves that... dont you think?

DANGIRL · Post by **DANGIRL** » Thu Jan 05, 2006 4:49 pm

Since attractive persons are generally treated more favorably in life,they tend to develop high levels of self-esteen and self-confidence because of that they provide greater potential to succeed in life.Where in the other hand,an unattractive person is generally treated less favorabley in life,they tend to evolve low levels of self-esteem and self-confidence .These low levels of self-esteem and self confidence detract from their chance of succeed in life.

Saayda have you notice that attractive people have been found to be more effective in the sales,marketing,public relations,t.v.,commercials,etc.

Lord Diplock · Post by **Lord Diplock** » Fri Jan 06, 2006 3:29 pm

I reckon you're grasping at straws here. beauty is a very subjective notion that is hard to define. What I think is beautiful might not be so in your opinion and vice versa.

We Somalis have been told and believed wholeheartedly I am ashamed to concede that, the fairer the person's skin complexion, the more attractive he/she is. A load of utter tosh.

Have said that, no one likes very ugly people. I am talking about those that make you feel a bit unwell if you stare at them for a long time. Razz

DEMOLITION MAN · Post by **DEMOLITION MAN** » Sat Jan 07, 2006 10:38 am

[quote="Lord Diplock"

No one likes very ugly people. I am talking about those that make you feel a bit unwell if you stare at them for a long time. Razz

[/quote]

you killing me walaahi thats why EYE CONTACT with the wrong ppl in leathal

iska jir hadaba Very Happy

DEMOLITION MAN · Post by **DEMOLITION MAN** » Sat Jan 07, 2006 11:21 am

ow yea one more thing

NEVER look your interviewer in the eye if you are on a job hunt
look at him/ her once a while but avoid the never ending eye contact coz that makes them nervous and you know where you gonna end up ;

THE BENEFIT OFFICE Laughing

Saayda · Post by **Saayda** » Sun Jan 08, 2006 11:10 am

"Saayda have you notice that attractive people have been found to be more effective in the sales,marketing,public relations,t.v.,commercials,etc."

Dangirl, perhaps attractive people tend to do better in life based on thier looks, but im sure in general they still need the intelligence to do whatever job they do...unless they are a model. ...You know i read in the sunday times that the more attractive you are, the more you tend to lie....dunno what they base that information on,i reckon a high-flying unattractive person wrote that.

But seriously, like what i and Lord Diplock said.....the issue of whether one is attractive or not is up to the individual. At the end of the day...our religion is what counts...Allah is not going to use my looks as a determining factor of whether i go to hell or heaven.

I dont really think that all the unattractive people are doomed and will suffer from low-self esteem and never reach their potential in life etc...I think if a person wants to succeed and be the best they can..nothing will stop them. Successful people always overcome the negative whatever it is, including their looks (if they are unattractive)...look at some ofl the politicians..man they run the coutry if not the world and they are not all attractive people are they.

Salam.

biko · Post by **biko** » Mon Jan 09, 2006 5:37 am

dangirl

am sure you have a good personality walaal, so dont worry!

San_dheer · Post by **San_dheer** » Mon Jan 09, 2006 9:27 am

Biko, I donÃ¢Â€Â™t think she was particularly referring to herself. Rolling Eyes

Foxy22 · Post by **Foxy22** » Mon Jan 09, 2006 10:29 am

..."You know i read in the sunday times that the more attractive you are, the more you tend to lie....dunno what they base that information on,i reckon a high-flying unattractive person wrote that."

Darling there is a point to that. Haven't you ever lied about your name(God forbid your friend calls you by the fake name while you there and you don't turn or you scream what?) when some moron is bothering you every time you out and about? Let's not forget lying about where you're abouts or what you do for living (if you have an interesting job, you have to make up some boring job). The lies only take place on the weekends when people loose their minds for some reason well the reason is the weekend is always the mating days of the week, it's like people have ... you know ... only them two days of the week.

DANGIRL · Post by **DANGIRL** » Tue Jan 10, 2006 1:54 pm

Biko..Thanks for the understand their buddy! Rolling Eyes

Sayaad

"You know i read in the sunday times that the more attractive you are, the more you tend to lie...."

Both unattractive and attractive people tend to lie the same way.

"the issue of whether one is attractive or not is up to the individual. At the end of the day...our religion is what counts...Allah is not going to use my looks as a determining factor of whether i go to hell or heaven."

When i made this topic the religion part wasnt in my mind at that time.I was reffering to how western world(since we live here now) how they value looks than anything.

Saayda · Post by **Saayda** » Fri Jan 27, 2006 6:47 am

Hi all,

Foxy22.. your reasons for why you think more attrative ppl may lie is kinda true...i never thought of it in that way.

Dangirl...i hear ya about the no religion issue...ah well i guess in this world people are becoming more vain.

Salam.

Advocator · Post by **Advocator** » Sat Feb 18, 2006 11:22 pm

[quote] dangirl

am sure you have a good personality walaal, so dont worry
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Laughing

Post by **Icey** » Thu Mar 30, 2006 5:50 pm

BUTTERS WOMEN WITH INTERESTING PERSONALITY LIE TOO MUCH TOO.

nafisa.bush · Post by **nafisa.bush** » Fri Mar 31, 2006 3:59 pm

ohh I see this must be the section where ugly girls take their jealousy and frustruation out.

Sorry don't know how it feels to be ugly.

Well life it's sweet when you are externaly beautiful and gorgeous. That's why you can be as evil, vengefull and pure inhumane. Your looks will save the day.

Yeah I'm gorgeous I know it, I use it, I flaunt it and I get what I want.

Nafisa.Bush.
mistress of Dr. Blushvek Plastic surgeon